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To find this really fucking disrespectful?

103 replies

uuussse · 08/11/2024 21:14

My mum will ask repeatedly when she’s seeing dd 3. I have had to say I’m busy five times this week because on five occasions she’s asked me if I will bring dd round on Saturday. We are already seeing her on Sunday!!!!

No she’s not senile. No she’s not lonely, she’s got my dad, when she’s busy she isn’t interested if I need her. I find it so fucking disrespectful. I’ve had many rows with her about doing it but she won’t stop.

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TwattyMcFuckFace · 08/11/2024 21:24

I think you're using the word 'disrespectful' in the wrong way.

'Annoying' or 'irritating' yes, but not disrespectful?

TH1NG1E · 08/11/2024 21:22

You'd find it "really fucking disrespectful" if she wasn't interested and didn't want to see your child.

VickyEadieofThigh · 08/11/2024 21:16

It's annoying, it's irritating - but I wouldn't call it "disrespectful".