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To throw half a rice cake into strangers bin?

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Honeybuney · 08/11/2024 16:29

I was on my way home from the school run with my 18 month old and older child. Baby had a ricecake with he threw onto the floor, out of the pram. I was in an alleyway type of street with no public bins. I picked up the rice cake and threw it into a wheelie bin which was partially full. As I was doing this, the lady whose house it was, was on her way out. She asked me what I was doing and I explained.

She asked me to take the rice cake out of her bin. Which I did not and continued walking. As I walked off, she was shouting and being quite aggressive. I was with my two kids so just ignored. But was I wrong?

OP posts:
ttcat37 · 08/11/2024 20:50

I don’t care if people use my bin, as long as it’s not a bag full. Better in there than on the floor. Carrying rubbish around is a pain with little ones, easier to throw it away. And it’s not like half a rice cake takes up any space.

Nine9 · 08/11/2024 20:45

I would have thought you rude and entitled, especially after your reaction, but wouldn't come out my house especially to say something. I also don't see why you couldn't have put it in your pocket until you got home.

Deadringer · 08/11/2024 20:29

If it's in an alleyway she probably gets stuff dumped in her bin all the time. I wouldn't have made a fuss if it was my bin, but I would never put rubbish in someone else's bin, I bring my rubbish home if there are no bins about.

MrsGhastlyCrumb · 08/11/2024 20:28

Seriously- some of you really have an issue with someone putting half a rice cake in a big bin outside your house? This is so weird to me. A big bag of rubbish would obviously be annoying, but the odd wrapper or whatever? Meh.

MumChp · 08/11/2024 20:23

peacejoypancakes · 08/11/2024 20:11

I can’t believe anyone actually cares about someone putting waste in their bin! It’s a bin, that’s what it’s for, not storing valuables. People put stuff in my bin all the time, including dog poo and I couldn’t care less.

And how did she expect you to get it out?! I wouldn’t be able to reach down into a wheelie bin to get anything out unless it was right on the top.

If it isn't emptied because of it then yes, you care.

Carrot678 · 08/11/2024 20:22

onwardsup4 · 08/11/2024 19:48

A rice cake? 😂

Unsure which bit you are questioning -

  1. I wouldn't put any rubbish in someone else's bin, including a rice cake
  1. I haven't found a rice cake in my bin so far to be mad about but will let you know if/when it happens and how I feel

As I said, I wouldn't care that much to yell at someone

Moonchildalltheway · 08/11/2024 20:14

Christ there are some barmy comments on here. It was a rice cake and half of one at that!!

peacejoypancakes · 08/11/2024 20:11

I can’t believe anyone actually cares about someone putting waste in their bin! It’s a bin, that’s what it’s for, not storing valuables. People put stuff in my bin all the time, including dog poo and I couldn’t care less.

And how did she expect you to get it out?! I wouldn’t be able to reach down into a wheelie bin to get anything out unless it was right on the top.

rosanna19 · 08/11/2024 20:09

good god it's a baby rice cake it's nothing! this thread is insane. I regularly don't bother to pick up bits of rice cake my baby has thrown from the pram if we are somewhere with lots of birds..

JC03745 · 08/11/2024 20:06

YABU.
The woman just saw you lob something in HER bin! She wouldn't have a clue it was a rice cake, dog shit, used nappy or something else.

Yes- after she had to ask you, you claimed it was a rice cake, but how would she know that was the truth?
You could have left it on the back/bottom of the pram to take home or put in a public bin!

Newsenmum · 08/11/2024 20:05

Are people seriously concerned about half a rice cake going in their bin? A rice cake? Bloody hell 😂 it’s a bin!

Decencydiedtoday · 08/11/2024 20:05

Wouldn't care as long as they use the right bin. Rubbish in my garden bin gives me the rage. They are side by side, against my outside wall so it's really not hard

CrazyAndSagittarius · 08/11/2024 20:03

It's fine. It's a small thing. Dog poo is different or chucking a whole bag of rubbish in there as it takes up space they turn can't use and dog poo could go everywhere. I'd rather people put it in the bin than littered the street.

MumChp · 08/11/2024 19:58

Honeybuney · 08/11/2024 17:01

I was not gonna to go digging in a halfway full bin for a half eaten rice cake. I walked away as I noticed her tone was quite rude and of course then, she became aggressive.

But it's fine that the owner of the bin has to do it for you to get the bin sorted? Great attitude.

Camelphat · 08/11/2024 19:50

Fish and a rice cake.

onwardsup4 · 08/11/2024 19:49

Createausername1970 · 08/11/2024 19:28

Actually we paid for our Wheely bin, so it is ours, not the Councils. The tiny ones were free, the usual sized ones were £35.

We have to put stuff in black sacks, so I am guessing your half a rice cake would have slid off the bag to the bottom of the bin, requiring me to fish it out later.

I probably wouldn't have had a go as I don't like confrontation, but I would have been mightily pissed off with you

Fucking hell, mightily pissed off really?

onwardsup4 · 08/11/2024 19:48

Carrot678 · 08/11/2024 16:31

I wouldn't have asked you take it out of my bin but I also wouldn't put my rubbish in a strangers bin. Drives me mad when I see other people's rubbish in ours.

A rice cake? 😂

Pinkelephant66 · 08/11/2024 19:39

😂

I would’ve probs just left on the floor. Some animal would eat it no doubt!

such a weird thing to get upset over. As long as someone isn’t shitting in my bin I couldn’t give a toss

SometimesCalmPerson · 08/11/2024 19:37

You were really rude. Nothing goes in my bin unless it’s bagged up to make cleaning it easier. I don’t want anyone loose in it, especially food that’s going to rot.

Motomum23 · 08/11/2024 19:32

Do you live somewhere where rubbish goes in black sacks in the bin? If so totally unreasonable to throw anything in on top of a bin bag as it could make the bin dirty. You're not going to scrub manky wet rice cake out the bottom of the bin are you?

SkylarH · 08/11/2024 19:30

Honestly OP, people are Batshit. What a petty thing to get worked up about and she should be embarrassed at her lack of kindness.

Createausername1970 · 08/11/2024 19:28

Actually we paid for our Wheely bin, so it is ours, not the Councils. The tiny ones were free, the usual sized ones were £35.

We have to put stuff in black sacks, so I am guessing your half a rice cake would have slid off the bag to the bottom of the bin, requiring me to fish it out later.

I probably wouldn't have had a go as I don't like confrontation, but I would have been mightily pissed off with you

Balloonhearts · 08/11/2024 19:02

If you did that to my bin, the binmen wouldn't take it. Anything not in a black bag and they refuse it and you were extremely rude to refuse to remove it when asked to. Disgusting example to set for your child.

Icanttakethisanymore · 08/11/2024 18:55

Honeybuney · 08/11/2024 17:12

Maybe I live in space. In my area, the bin men would just empty the bin as normal. It was sticky and on top of the bin bag so I’m sure when it’s emptied it will fall out with the rubbish. There would be no reason for her to dig it out either.

You don’t live in space. People complaining about this are mad.

caramac04 · 08/11/2024 18:50

My area has changed to fortnightly collections and residents who want a bigger bin have been charged £38 for one.
Some families can’t afford that and are trying to make do but are struggling with the smaller bin being emptied every 14 days rather than the previous 7.
I can imagine strangers putting rubbish in their bin would be annoying.

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