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Private Schools- hear me out before you judge!

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Silverbook · 08/11/2024 13:01

I'm a state school teacher in Scotland. Class sizes are - 25 for P1, 30 for P2-3 and 33 for P4-7. I currently have a class size of 25, most classes in the school are 25-28. Relatively small town- 2 primaries, 1 independent and 1 secondary. The next nearest independent is 45 mins away.

The local independent school is closing due to VAT, the pupils are largely coming here. This is pushing all our class sizes up. No extra funding or staff, obviously. My issue with independent schools closing is that is directly impacting the state sector and no extra funding, resources or infrastructure is in place to support it.

Yes, our classes are still within legal limits but it will always be the most disadvantaged children/those with greater need of support who are impacted most by larger class sizes as there is just less time to spend with them.

I really feel this has been a poorly thought through and knee jerk policy. Surely you invest and create capacity in existing resources before increasing pupil numbers?

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decisionsdecisionsdecision · 09/11/2024 16:26

lasagnelle · 09/11/2024 12:11

I feel sorry for the kids who've had to move schools - sounds like the teachers clearly resent their very presence

Do you mean because we care so much for the children in our classes that we are on our knees trying to meet all the needs. That we are out campaigning against cuts and buying resources with our own money. Do you mean because I already work hours over what I'm paid marking books, planning classes and completing paperwork. That on top of all that, the concern of how we're going to do that each year with 33 children in our cos and the concern we have for how it just has to reduce the quality of learning that we all care so much about.

It's very simple. Teachers care! Teachers know that 25 in a class is better than 33. Not because it's less work but because there's more time to give each child. Teachers are not resentful of children, teachers are resentful of those who don't see the bigger picture. Those who cheer on an education system already on its knees and now, because of this, ready to collapse.

Mirabai · 09/11/2024 16:24

It’s not as if Starmer wasn’t warned.

The result is pressure on state schools in some areas, and private schools become more elite. It’s lose lose.

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:24

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:17

Why don't you Google it.

Edited

No just bored of you and your provocations. Not going to engage any further. Get your kicks somewhere else.
Anyone who purposely targets someone to provoke and attack isn't worth spending energy on.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 09/11/2024 16:24

Willooth · 09/11/2024 16:04

If it's Kilgraston school you're referring to OP, it's been in financial trouble for a few years. It's not just the VAT

It isn't Kilgraston because the OP is talking about a primary school. Which may or may not exist in reality.

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 16:21

MummyJ12 · 09/11/2024 15:58

You’re like the education tax version of a NIMBY. It’s a great idea until it starts to affect you. It’s not odd, just an observation.
Sadly, it may still affect you or your children if you have any at school but you won’t even realise.

VAT on school fees and the removal of ridiculous charity status would I think affect all of us, it would be a fairer set up and I think it’s time adults in the UK started living how we should not how we have. It’s an odd observation because it was presented in a way that sounded like a gleeful gotcha.

I have attended, been a parent in, (and indeed observed in) many different types of educational establishment and probably have a good understanding of many of the concerns expressed over this issue. I think it was a good decision and all our children will be better for it. I know many private school parents are not happy but I suspect for the majority they are going to be pleasantly surprised.

Sawlt · 09/11/2024 16:20

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:09

"the close personal relationship between Mr Sibieta and Mr Pennycook, whose department will be involved in implementing the tax policy. Mr Pennycook and Mr Sibieta reportedly used to live together, and Mr Pennycook served as best man at Mr Sibieta’s wedding, raising concerns over potential conflicts of interest"

NOT from Guido

This particular Labour-liaison is not examined in the left leaning news outlets …. Which tells me that it is 100% true.

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 16:19

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:17

Why don't you Google it.

Edited

Oooh coy for a change? Suits you.

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:17

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 16:16

Well go on then, what's the source? Is it the same one you used for your 'Starmer's dad wasn't a toolmaker' assertion? 😂

Why don't you Google it.

decisionsdecisionsdecision · 09/11/2024 16:17

Lickthips · 09/11/2024 11:51

I guess there will now be more parents out there that really care about the quality of state school education. Sounds good to me.

Does it? What do you think parent voice can achieve? Believe me, having smaller class sizes is the number one way to improve your child's education. There's 0 chance of that happening now!!

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 16:16

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:12

Sorry to disappoint although entirely predictable accusation

Edited

Well go on then, what's the source? Is it the same one you used for your 'Starmer's dad wasn't a toolmaker' assertion? 😂

Jennaveeve · 09/11/2024 16:16

@decisionsdecisionsdecision how can a state primary be a feeder school for an independent from P4?

decisionsdecisionsdecision · 09/11/2024 16:14

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 11:33

So the reality is that state schools will be absorbing a couple of children per year without funding for two terms in order to make things fairer for everyone going forwards?

😂😂 if only

I work in a feeder school to a local private. Children leave us each year from p4 up. This is no longer happening. Instead of having 25ish children in our p7 classes we have 33. In fact each class in our school is at its maximum or one less. Please explain how 33 children in one class, under the care of one teacher is better? This has not benefited us, it's broken us! I don't magically get more time to spend with these children so now everyone gets less of my time. There's less space, 3 to a resource instead of two etc. I could write thousands of words on what a mistake this has been.

StandingSideBySide · 09/11/2024 16:12

Chewyspree · 09/11/2024 15:59

I do.

Here is why:

I have a child in a fee paying school. Fees went up 7% this year and we have 12% added in Jan.

DC will leave in Sept 2025, as their private bursary is ending. It is from private Trust who have emailed to say sorry, the increase in fees and VAT means they cannot support DC to the level they did last year and the fund is closing. In 23-24 they paid 75% of the fees. This year they have not offered a % but £2k a term. Very kind of them, but it’s not enough so we will go.

The bonus from this is I will no longer need to work in my particular job. The state will educate my child, thank you, I appreciate it, the past few years have been hard. And the NHS will loose a midwife - it’s a horrible organisation to work for so again, I appreciate being able to leave and do something else. I’m looking forward to it.

BUT. This VAT policy has a lot of support. Education is a mess and in need of cash. So we need to produce the cash. So we need to tax it all. Every educational thing. There is no magic bullet, except apparently money. So we all need to pitch in.

I am heartbroken for my child. But I genuinely don’t expect anyone to care, as it’s not their child and they won’t believe we aren’t rich.

Absolutely agree
If we re taxing private education we should be doing it equally and that includes
all extras
sports, music, dance, drama, languages, private academic tutors….everything!

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:12

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 16:11

Daily Mail?

Sorry to disappoint although entirely predictable accusation

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 16:11

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:07

"Labour minister faces an investigation by the sleaze watchdog over claims he failed to declare his 20-year friendship with the author of the report used to justify the Government’s private school tax raid.
Matthew Pennycook has been referred to the parliamentary commissioner for standards for not revealing his close relationship with Luke Sibieta, who wrote the Institute for Fiscal Studies (IFS) paper on Labour’s plans"

But let that stop you

Daily Mail?

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:09

MummyJ12 · 09/11/2024 15:49

Maybe you should start reading Guido 😂 @SabrinaThwaite
(joking!)

Edited

"the close personal relationship between Mr Sibieta and Mr Pennycook, whose department will be involved in implementing the tax policy. Mr Pennycook and Mr Sibieta reportedly used to live together, and Mr Pennycook served as best man at Mr Sibieta’s wedding, raising concerns over potential conflicts of interest"

NOT from Guido

TwinklyAmberOrca · 09/11/2024 16:08

Blankscreen · 08/11/2024 16:41

It's awful and the snow ball is just about to start rolling.

Seen a thread on here today about a school closing but anyone who is anti private school dismisses such concerns.

Well pockets are only so deep even for private school parents.

My ds' fees are going up £400 a month in January. He's in year 10 so we will see him to the end of year 11 and then we are out.

Dd isn't going to private (current year 6) and we are going to put the earnings which are taxed at a ridiculous % into our pension.

So it's definitely won't be a net gain from our family.

The advantage of private upto Y11 is having pupils/parents who value education.

At 16+, most state schools have excellent 6th forms as all the kids attending want to study so lessons are just as good at private schools.

I teach A Level in a state school and the kids are amazing. So much easier than Y7 to Y11 as no behaviour issues!

@Silverbook let's hope the parents of these private school kids joining can be persuaded to join the PTA and help support the school to increase funding!

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:07

BotanicalGreen · 09/11/2024 15:35

Oh my goodness. Did they have children together?!

"Labour minister faces an investigation by the sleaze watchdog over claims he failed to declare his 20-year friendship with the author of the report used to justify the Government’s private school tax raid.
Matthew Pennycook has been referred to the parliamentary commissioner for standards for not revealing his close relationship with Luke Sibieta, who wrote the Institute for Fiscal Studies (IFS) paper on Labour’s plans"

But let that stop you

twistyizzy · 09/11/2024 16:06

SabrinaThwaite · 09/11/2024 15:47

You should really stop reading Guido.

Hint: NOT from Guido
"Labour minister faces an investigation by the sleaze watchdog over claims he failed to declare his 20-year friendship with the author of the report used to justify the Government’s private school tax raid.
Matthew Pennycook has been referred to the parliamentary commissioner for standards for not revealing his close relationship with Luke Sibieta, who wrote the Institute for Fiscal Studies (IFS) paper on Labour’s plans"

But don't let that stop you belittling me

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 09/11/2024 16:06

Spot on post OP. The private sector was in essence propping up the state sector. Get a feeling this is going to be disastrous for state and private schools.

MummyJ12 · 09/11/2024 16:05

SabrinaThwaite · 09/11/2024 16:01

Guido is hardly a reliable source for anything.

Ok, I get your point.

Here’s a Telegraph article for you instead, which basically reads the same as the Guido one.

www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2024/10/07/report-used-laboursupport-private-school-vat-close-friend/

Willooth · 09/11/2024 16:04

If it's Kilgraston school you're referring to OP, it's been in financial trouble for a few years. It's not just the VAT

SabrinaThwaite · 09/11/2024 16:01

Guido is hardly a reliable source for anything.

Parry5timesbeforedeath · 09/11/2024 16:00

We don't have a mld school near us. We live very rurally. There is a special needs school but it focuses on life skills, not education. That was not our choice 11 years ago. As time has gone on though it has become clearer that this might have been better in the long term. We are in a bot of flux right now. DH was a boarding school boy (Stowe) and wanted Ds to go to boarding school which would have been a disaster. We put Ds in the indy on the understanding he would stay there for as long as it worked for him. TBh I am not 100% sure it will work for him from now going forwards. We do need to really consider it all tbh. But I just don't see our future here in the UK any more and my priority is keeping him safe and well. I want DS to be safe and happy and to get through school in some sort of way.

I don;'t know., I feel confused and helpless a bit

Chewyspree · 09/11/2024 15:59

MummyJ12 · 09/11/2024 15:33

Do you then think that this should be extended to all extracurricular activities and tuition? Swimming lessons, music lessons, drama clubs etc….

I do.

Here is why:

I have a child in a fee paying school. Fees went up 7% this year and we have 12% added in Jan.

DC will leave in Sept 2025, as their private bursary is ending. It is from private Trust who have emailed to say sorry, the increase in fees and VAT means they cannot support DC to the level they did last year and the fund is closing. In 23-24 they paid 75% of the fees. This year they have not offered a % but £2k a term. Very kind of them, but it’s not enough so we will go.

The bonus from this is I will no longer need to work in my particular job. The state will educate my child, thank you, I appreciate it, the past few years have been hard. And the NHS will loose a midwife - it’s a horrible organisation to work for so again, I appreciate being able to leave and do something else. I’m looking forward to it.

BUT. This VAT policy has a lot of support. Education is a mess and in need of cash. So we need to produce the cash. So we need to tax it all. Every educational thing. There is no magic bullet, except apparently money. So we all need to pitch in.

I am heartbroken for my child. But I genuinely don’t expect anyone to care, as it’s not their child and they won’t believe we aren’t rich.