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Paedophile in area what to do

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mickey54 · 07/11/2024 20:59

Really don’t know if should do something or not? Local paedophile released from prison early after 2 years. He is on sex offenders register and sexual harm order for life. He lives close to myself. However he now keeps appearing each week same day at the local council building where I work. Here there is a library and kids nursery. Last week the building was evacuated following a fire alarm he came out and was gawping at very young group of school kids virtually on top of them.

aibu to report him, is he meant to be going places where kids are my concern is he might be scoping out the library where the school children visit.
report to building manager. Library ? I feel really bad it’s playing on me and feel like can’t turn blind eye but what’s reasonable and what can you not do ????

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Torktork · 07/11/2024 23:08

FrothyCothy · 07/11/2024 21:06

Hundreds of thousands. There is an epidemic of men consuming child sex abuse images.

And most don’t even get jailed. One in my town got off with a suspended sentence despite having 50,000 images! Over 3000 Cat A!

it’s a fucking disgrace.

VitaminSubtle · 07/11/2024 23:06

mickey54 · 07/11/2024 21:03

@Moonlightstars I was worried about whether he has confidentiality I know sounds mad but worried I might get in trouble. You never know with stupid laws rules these days.

If he has ‘confidentiality’, then how do you know about him?

LaineyCee · 07/11/2024 23:05

He may well have a legitimate reason to be at the local council offices. The fact that he’s attending on the same day every week suggests a regular appointment. Could well be some form of adult education class intended to improve their chances of employment/rehabilitation.Having said that, if you believe this person could be in breach of their licence conditions, then you can make a report to the parole board (anonymously if you prefer.) More delails on licence conditions and the role of the parole board on gov.uk www.gov.uk/government/news/licence-conditions-and-how-the-parole-board-use-them

Creepybookworm · 07/11/2024 23:02

They won't stop him going to a library. Having worked in public libraries, I can tell you they are full of lovely people and also complete weirdos and everything in between. You can let the manager know so the staff are briefed to keep an eye on him though.

Feckedupbundle · 07/11/2024 23:02

Police. If the building is used by libraries,police ect,it most likely has CCTV ,so there still may be evidence of him watching the children.
I wouldn't contact anyone other than authorities, that way you can't be blamed if someone did decide to give him a bit of old fashioned justice.

StudioFocusTricky · 07/11/2024 22:54

The nursery and library will have safeguarding leads. Let them know so that they are aware. There's no action to take ither than being aware and ensuring no risk situations develop.

If he's legally out of prison he needs to live somewhere. People being aware that he could be a danger is an effective assurance that he can't be a danger. It needs to be possible for him to live his life though.

Kibble29 · 07/11/2024 22:53

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Was about to ask this.

If you do work in the field, @mindutopia , why do you think this sort of thing is so incredibly prevalent?

Jabtastic · 07/11/2024 22:50

Catza · 07/11/2024 21:02

I am sure he is not allowed to be within a certain distance of an educational establishment so report to the police as he is in breach of his release conditions.

He is probably breaching his license conditions especially if he is deliberately visiting when children are there. Offenders can be returned to prison for this. Someone was jailed locally for this recently because staff in the building knew his history and reported him to police - they saw that he was appearing after school when teenagers would be there.

mickey54 · 07/11/2024 22:49

Kibble29 · 07/11/2024 22:35

How is a known paedophile (presumably if you know about him, others in your area do too) managing to just walk around?

Those types wouldn’t last a day where I live, if it was local knowledge that they were a predator. Wouldn’t want it any other way.

@Kibble29 to be honest I thought same he would be prob attacked or something. But seems to be going about without a care in the world

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Swanbeauty · 07/11/2024 22:48

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Differentstarts · 07/11/2024 22:43

Unfortunately paedophiles are everywhere. The ones you are aware of are less of a concern then the others that live in your area that you know nothing about. However a quick call to 101 just to share your concerns won't hurt.

Kibble29 · 07/11/2024 22:38

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Is reading comprehension not your strength?

Go back and read what I wrote again.

JoanCollected · 07/11/2024 22:36

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 07/11/2024 21:26

Can you link to any evidence of your assertion about prevalence. 100% chance of working with a paedophile? Obviously this cannot be true.

youre right. Your colleagues may be a rare exception unfortunately. But you will probably never know which of them are accessing child abuse images as the police and prisons cannot deal with anything but the most horrific of all the tens of thousands of offenders in every corner of Britain.

ShooviTuppya · 07/11/2024 22:36

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Kibble29 · 07/11/2024 22:35

How is a known paedophile (presumably if you know about him, others in your area do too) managing to just walk around?

Those types wouldn’t last a day where I live, if it was local knowledge that they were a predator. Wouldn’t want it any other way.

mickey54 · 07/11/2024 22:29

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@ShooviTuppya this was a police sting. Not online

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Nextdoor55 · 07/11/2024 22:24

I find these threads scare mongering. I'm in my 50's , when I was young we always had a paedophile in the neighborhood, known by everyone & we just knew (were told) to stay away from them. There was basically one in every community, usually the most upstanding types. We even had a teacher paying kids to wank him off. He was just sent to a mental health facility.

This hasn't changed, you just have to be safe, sensible about everyone. A healthy suspicion.

MumOfOneAllAlone · 07/11/2024 22:23

Report to as many people as you can, op!

Worried8263839 · 07/11/2024 22:21

I'm a probation officer so reading this thread with interest. Not having unsupervised contact with children is a fairly standard licence condition for those convicted of child sex offences, but with the caveat that it's unavoidable in the course of daily life (such as a fire alarm for example).

Unless the library has any particular links to children, it is highly unlikely he is preventing from going there. As a PP has stated, often they will have restrictions on using personal devices capable of accessing the internet, so the library is a way to do that for many.

Whilst I appreciate it being a concern for you because you know his risk, I'm struggling to see how the library is the concern? Had it not have been for the fire alarm and in turn, him being in close proximity to young children, would you still be concerned? How is it different to him going to a shopping centre or cinema?

Nextdoor55 · 07/11/2024 22:19

mindutopia · 07/11/2024 21:04

Nothing. He’s allowed to be out in public. A library isn’t a child only space like a school, so his restrictions won’t prevent him going there. In fact, the convicted abusers I know on sexual harm prevention orders are not prevented from being around children (if you can believe it).

Honestly, I can 100% assure you that one of your colleagues you work with is also a child sexual abuser. It’s incredibly common. There is probably someone in your family. Statistically speaking, it would be unusual if there wasn’t. You just happen to know about this one and be grateful that you do. Obviously if he does anything actually criminal, then report it.

This.

mickey54 · 07/11/2024 22:16

WearyAuldWumman · 07/11/2024 22:13

Paedophiles have been banned from our local libraries because some of them are now part of mixed campuses which include schools. For example, the council moved a secondary school, an all-age school for children with learning disabilities, a council office and a library into the one campus.

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@WearyAuldWumman interesting

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mickey54 · 07/11/2024 22:15

DinosaurMunch · 07/11/2024 22:12

You don't get a 4 year jail tariff for just looking at images though surely. Most of those don't get actual jail time. To get 4 years (if he's out "early after 2 it could even have been 5 originally) he must have done something quite bad

@DinosaurMunch yes quite nasty got caught in a police sting trying to do something horrific it’s quite a nasty offence

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WearyAuldWumman · 07/11/2024 22:13

Paedophiles have been banned from our local libraries because some of them are now part of mixed campuses which include schools. For example, the council moved a secondary school, an all-age school for children with learning disabilities, a council office and a library into the one campus.

DinosaurMunch · 07/11/2024 22:12

FrothyCothy · 07/11/2024 21:06

Hundreds of thousands. There is an epidemic of men consuming child sex abuse images.

You don't get a 4 year jail tariff for just looking at images though surely. Most of those don't get actual jail time. To get 4 years (if he's out "early after 2 it could even have been 5 originally) he must have done something quite bad

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