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‘Slower pace of life’

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Countrylife45 · 07/11/2024 15:43

Does anyone else find the idea of the ‘slower pace of life’ outside London talked about in programmes such as Escape to the Country a bit patronising?

Watching it for the first time in ages (I’m on maternity leave but don’t end up watching much tv!) and it’s the usual couple from London wanting to move to the countryside and open a B&B or something. Talking about the ‘slower pace of life’ when the places they’re looking aren’t too far from cities like Bristol, Worcester and Gloucester.

It just seems to be a bit of a stereotype that living outside London is somehow ‘slower’ and more wholesome. It’s as if anyone outside London couldn’t possibly have a busy social life, high flying career etc. I’ve lived in London for a period of my life and now live in a small town. My life is just as busy, if not more. In fact, in my experience a lot of people end up living an even faster paced life with long commutes etc. High flying careers where they work in London but live rurally and have to juggle both (which is what I was doing for a while).

Not sure where I’m going with this but it’s just reminded me of people’s attitudes when I lived and worked in London, as if anywhere else is provincial and backwards.

Nothing against the couple on the programme today, I’m sure compared to their current life, upping sticks and opening a B&B is a real change but Escape to the Country in particular seems to show this patronising, outdated view of what it means to live outside of a big city.

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WickedlyCharmed · 07/11/2024 16:01

I think the PP must be right and they mean it literally in terms of environmental rather than personally.

Anyone thinking that starting up and then running your own business (a B&B no less) is going to be a “slower pace of life” is in for a rude awakening.

5128gap · 07/11/2024 15:57

I always take it to mean environmental not personal. Getting away from somewhere very busy where there's lots of coming and going from crowds of people and you may have to rush a bit because they'll be loads of other people trying to do whatever you're doing the minute you've finished kind of thing? So not personally slow paced necessarily but a slower paced environment.