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To say something to or about these rude ladies

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H930 · 07/11/2024 13:39

I take my little boy to a story and song group once a week, we all sit in a circle and listen to a story and use lots of lovely props, then play some circle games and sing songs. Without fail every week about half of the carers chat loudly amongst themselves, all the way through the story and games, which totally drowns out what the leader is saying and makes it impossible for the children to focus and take part.

For the first time this week the leader asked them to stop and they did momentarily but then continued. It’s so frustrating and honestly makes me want to stop going, but it’s such a lovely group, or would be if we could properly take part!

So AIBU to either directly tell these ladies to be quiet, or otherwise to ask the leader once everyone else has left to please clamp down more firmly on this incredibly rude behaviour?? I get that people want to socialise and get some adult company but there are other places to do that where it wouldn’t be so disruptive!

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FanofLeaves · 07/11/2024 13:43

God that’s so disrespectful. I have similar at a local church playgroup I go to with my son, some carers just let their charges run riot at the little story/song session at the end and I have ended up telling the children directly to stop as they get silly and pull the children who are listening about, roll on the floor etc. winds me up as the lady who runs it is doing it for free. They weren’t there last time and it was sooo much nicer. I’d email the group leader if you can and ask if she can go through a few ‘house rules’ before the session. It’s so rude of them.

Hoppinggreen · 07/11/2024 13:40

The Leader needs to deal with it