DH is pretty insecure about my relationship with the instructor at my gym. I think he's being ridiculous but help tell me if iabu.
It's a small gym and I attend it 3 times a week and have done for nearly a year now. This particular instructor runs the classes I do.
We are friendly in the sense that we'll chat when I'm there about life, family (both married with young DC) etc.. we never speak outside of the gym apart from about gym related things I.e. he may occasionally text to ask how I'm getting on with my step count that day or whatever (as I say very small gym so the trainers are quite involved which I like as helps me keep on track).
DHs issues are
- he doesn't see why he needs my number. He doesn't NEED it no, but no reason why not to either? Literally have never had a conversation over message that is not gym related.
- he (gym instructor) added me on Facebook and DH thinks that is weird. I don't see any harm, I would count him loosely as a friend so why not.
- dh thinks I dress up more for the gym then I used to. Honestly no idea where this has come from, i dress the same as I always have.
Anyway, usually it's just silly remarks but tonight it's come to a bit of a head because some people from the gym are arranging a meal in the local town over Christmas and I've been invited by the aforementioned instructor. I would like to go, DH thinks it's weird... I disagree, weird if it were just me and the guy yes obviously but there will be about 5/6 of us.
Aibu to just ignore DHs insecurities with this? I honestly don't know what to make of it. I'm not going to stop attending this gym as I really enjoy it.
Should I just go to the meal and tell DH to stop being silly.