If you're tired of 'gender mania' stop fucking obsessing over it. Transgender people make up about 0.5% of the population. If you weren't constantly trying to legislate them out of existence and going on gender critical rants about them you'd forget they exist. I suspect you've never met a transgender person. But you feel horribly oppressed by their existence and by the thought of them having any rights to live their life the way you would want to live yours - doing what's best for yourself and leaving other people the fuck alone.
Oh FFS! This BS. When you drill down and actually engage your brain you'll realise no one really cares about trans people. They care about men taking spaces and winning in women's sports aka fairness, they care about retaining their hard fought for single sex spaces, in prisons, in changing rooms, in rape crisis centres, all places MEN shouldn't be in beside them. It's MEN that are the problem, not trans. Does any gender critical person ever mention trans men? No, because they don't carry the same risk statistically, as they are female. If they, as male identifying, want to enter male sports and prisons crack on!
They care about not being gaslighted into believing something that isn't true - a trans woman standing in front of you isn't an actual woman no matter how loud people scream and shout. People are being hounded out of jobs for stating biological fact.
No one says they don't exist, they can wear whatever they want, call themselves whatever they want, but no one else has to go along with it if they don't want to, like any other ideology. And FYI - they currently have the same rights as anyone else! They don't get to have additional rights that oppress women seeing as you want to talk about oppression.
It's a men's rights movement all day long. And don't get me started on transing children. Rachel Levine anyone?