My partner and I share 2 small kids from 20 year relationship. We are amicable and co parent well. I've said nothing so far to him about this but I'm really pissed at his gf posting pics of the kids all over her social media.
I don't put up pics of the kids... Ive been biting my tongue on saying to him or her I'm not comfortable with this. Shes actually making the posts seem as if they are just him and her kids. I would perhaps understand if it was their dad's birthday or fathers day, but she posts them every few days. I'm not comfortable with it. No one, either her or him thought to say "would it be ok" etc... I think as a woman and mother she wouldn't like it if someone else was posting pictures of her child. I personally wouldn't do that to another woman unless I had her say so.
Is it unreasonable for me to feel this way? I've deliberately said nothing incase I'm being unreasonable but it's really annoyed me. I don't feel she has the right or audacity to do that esp when she knows herself I don't post the kids online ! They are only 5 & 6!