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Woman’s death could have been due to parked cars

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MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 13:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj6k7n734jgo

something should be done to prevent drivers blocking emergency vehicles

lines in red on narrow roads to show width of vehicle and if if your car doesn’t fit park elsewhere ( not on pavement)

Philomena who had long dark brown hair and is wearing a turquoise top sitting on a blue sofa holding a car that says "Mum"

Turf Lodge family of woman who died blame parked cars for delayed ambulance

A car had to be moved before an ambulance could get down the street to a woman in cardiac arrest.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj6k7n734jgo

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lasagnelle · 05/11/2024 14:49

Rightiojames · 05/11/2024 14:12

Yes. My road is one, where the car box lines are clearly marked half on the road half on the pavement.

This. Someone has gone down the road and assessed where a car can fit on the pavement . Weighing up the need for emergancy services to get through and people on foot or wheel to use the pavement I would welcome this in more areas of the country

Webbb · 05/11/2024 14:49

Gosh what a sad thing to happen. Her poor family will always wonder 'what if' now.

Even sadder that lessons weren't learnt and the funeral car couldn't get down either.

lasagnelle · 05/11/2024 14:43

MereDintofPandiculation · 05/11/2024 13:14

You should not park on the pavement if it forces pushchairs, people with disabilies, the elderly, into the street.

That would be an "area where you shouldn't"

SerendipityJane · 05/11/2024 14:39

Just to be boring, wheelchairs are not the same as pedestrians or pushchairs. They can't just drop down a 4"-6" kerb where a pedestrian can step down and a pushchair can be lowered down.

If a wheelchair user reaches an obstruction and there is no dropped kerb, that wheelchair user can jolly well turn around and fuck back off to wherever they came from. Which may or may not be the intention.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/11/2024 14:39

I sometimes drive down roads near me and think to myself 'how on earth would a fire engine get down here'

I live on such a road, @BilboBlaggin, and our bin emptying is regularly missed because of a fool who visits elderly parents and leaves his car halfway across the road instead of putting the damn thing on their drive. A minor inconvenience admittedly, but I dread to think what could happen if it was an emergency vehicle

And naturally, requests to be more considerate make no difference at all

OneTC · 05/11/2024 14:36

I think if you live in London you should require a permit to own a car in addition to a license to drive it. Permits should be cheap and readily available to those that can demonstrate need

We could start with second cars.

Also never mind electric lets make it possible to only buy a fiat multipla in poo brown and see how many people need to drive then

BrotherViolence · 05/11/2024 14:29

My area has perfectly decent public transport and everyone still seems to feel it's a necessity to have a car. So many people ask me what it's like taking my toddler on the bus in this shocked and awed tone. It's fine, really easy in fact? I lived somewhere where the buses weren't great and I get it, maybe a car is necessary in these areas, but our society is also completely car brained. It's poisoning our environment and causing issues like this. The answer should be to push for better public transport but as everyone gets lazy and entitled and starts driving everywhere, the services get cut further.

lanthanum · 05/11/2024 14:27

We stayed in a holiday cottage where the welcome folder included letters from the fire brigade, who would do a trial run down that street every so often and send out letters if they couldn't get down.
Unfortunately a lot of the road was holiday cottages, so they were depending on owners/agents to get the message across to everyone who stayed there.

DdraigGoch · 05/11/2024 14:23

TreatOthersAsTheyTreatYou · 05/11/2024 13:25

I knew somebody who parked badly on a narrow street and the fire engine just went through anyway and left streaks of red paint along their vehicle with the scraping (good enough). This was a couple of decades ago, I expect they’d be sued these days though, and I suppose a fire engine is more robust to be able to do that.
Some roads should be banned from having parked vehicles if they are narrow. There are lots of roads with houses that have double yellow lines, they should be standard on narrow streets.

Under Section 44 of the Fire and Rescue Services Act 2004 a firefighter "may do anything he reasonably believes to be necessary" in order to protect life and property in an emergency. Hopefully the owners of the badly parked vehicles will have to cough up for some paint for the fire engine.

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 14:21

DdraigGoch · 05/11/2024 14:17

No you shouldn't park on the pavement. If your car can't be parked without causing an obstruction to carriageway, footway or cycleway then either get a smaller car or find somewhere else.

I have a small car but thank you

I visit for my job which involves parking but also lots of walking. I have needed to park on the pavement in some streets. Ive been told off by someone coming out of their house once when I didnt to be told an emergency vehicle wouldn't get through so move my car to be half on the pavement (I didnt realise at the time there was a firestation at the end of the road that I couldnt see because the road bent round)

Many of the clients I visit are on small roads off busy A roads without pavements. There simply isnt any way of getting on foot to the road safely and if I need to park on the pavement on that small road I have to do that.

Many of these are as the PP points out, newbuild estates without adequate space, the roads are narrow, driveways inadequate, garages not big enough. Visitors have to park somewhere to visit those people.

As I say its a balance and frothing with blanket statements is not going to solve the problem

OneTC · 05/11/2024 14:20

DdraigGoch · 05/11/2024 14:17

No you shouldn't park on the pavement. If your car can't be parked without causing an obstruction to carriageway, footway or cycleway then either get a smaller car or find somewhere else.

It depends on local rules.

It shouldn't, but it does.

I'd just ban most urban street parking

DdraigGoch · 05/11/2024 14:17

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 13:02

You should park on the pavement in order for emergency vehicles to fit down certain streets. There are areas where you should and areas where you shouldnt.

No you shouldn't park on the pavement. If your car can't be parked without causing an obstruction to carriageway, footway or cycleway then either get a smaller car or find somewhere else.

Auburngal · 05/11/2024 14:13

One thing - modern new builds don’t provide enough parking spaces for cars. Garages if built aren’t wide enough to get cars in and only provide one bay for 4 bed homes.

With children living with their parents longer than expected, the roads are going to be even more impossible to pass safely.

New builds are not future proof enough

Rightiojames · 05/11/2024 14:12

tilypu · 05/11/2024 13:20

Are there areas where you "should" park on the pavement?

I don't know, I live in a country where parking on the pavement is banned, but I've never seen anything anywhere that says that's what you are supposed to do. What's the point in a pavement if you are supposed to park there?

I know there are places where you 'can' park on the pavement. But that's not quite the same thing.

Yes. My road is one, where the car box lines are clearly marked half on the road half on the pavement.

Auburngal · 05/11/2024 14:09

My road has parking bays at the back of the properties. Yet most park on the street - one section you can’t park on it between 9-5 on weekdays as single yellow line on one side and DYL on the other.

In the evenings and weekends, people park there opposite the free for all parking just before the DYLs. This narrows the area to pass.

I had a walk in the 3-4 parking areas and most were empty and yet the road was clogged.

Sheer laziness

ilovedogsme · 05/11/2024 14:05

My street ends in a cul-de-sac, about 27 year old estate. Never used to be a problem but there about 40 houses in out street alone and now each house has an average of 3 cars and mostly single drives, getting on and off drives is a nightmare, people park opposite, road is that narrow that if cars park opposite each other - which they do, you can't get through in a normal car, and some people wont move to park elsewhere as they feel entitled to the space directly outside of their home. And you can forget about walking on the pavement, can't get passed cars. Which is a nightmare as the road is on an incline so in the winter when its icy or snows the road is like an ice rink. We have 4 cars and luckily a double drive and i make the kids park down the street where there is space and wont block anyone in. But if he bring the work pick up home and he is on call, some nights he can't get out the street and has to knock people up on the street. Have also had ambulances where they cant get up the street or turn at the end.

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soupfiend · 05/11/2024 14:02

buffyajp · 05/11/2024 13:40

That is absolute nonsense and you are the sort of car driver that gives others a bad name. The answer is to ban parking there. The height of selfishness expecting disabled and vulnerable children in buggies to walk on the road so you can be a lazy arse and park practically in your living room rather than walking a few minutes or shock, horror using public transport.

Well I have a drive way so this doesnt apply to me

What does apply to me is that I struggle with mobility at times (its not consistent) and have to walk in the road on local streets to me quite often. Its hard, but its not black and white.

Autumnismyfavouritetimeofyear · 05/11/2024 14:01

buffyajp · 05/11/2024 13:40

That is absolute nonsense and you are the sort of car driver that gives others a bad name. The answer is to ban parking there. The height of selfishness expecting disabled and vulnerable children in buggies to walk on the road so you can be a lazy arse and park practically in your living room rather than walking a few minutes or shock, horror using public transport.

What a ridiculous post, and a way to show lack of knowledge and privilege. Try living on a terraced street somewhere with no good public transport and then explain what people are supposed to do. No everyone lives in nice middle class areas well served by public transport and has drives to park on.

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 14:00

buffyajp · 05/11/2024 13:35

There is no area where you should. If the road is that narrow then simply you should not park there. Even if it does mean you aren’t directly outside your house. Your car does not take priority over wheelchair users and buggy’s

You make the assumption that car drivers are also not wheelchair and buggy users?

menopausalmare · 05/11/2024 13:59

Smaller cars are needed. Far too many stupidly big cars on the roads.

buffyajp · 05/11/2024 13:40

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 13:30

Correct, we have to walk on the road but if the balance is that, or an emergency vehicle not getting to an emergency then Im afraid parking on the pavement wins over that

And of course others have made the argument too that there are too many cars but unfortunately life isnt black and white, huge swathes of the country dont have useable and viable alternatives for car use, particularly for those with mobility needs and buggies so by being very anti car, it disadvantages those as well.

That is absolute nonsense and you are the sort of car driver that gives others a bad name. The answer is to ban parking there. The height of selfishness expecting disabled and vulnerable children in buggies to walk on the road so you can be a lazy arse and park practically in your living room rather than walking a few minutes or shock, horror using public transport.

Autumnismyfavouritetimeofyear · 05/11/2024 13:35

I live in an area where there are tons of terraced streets and as much as some people like to bang on about getting rid of cars, in reality public transport is so poor here that most people would not be able to get to work. Someone opposite had regular ambulance calls for a while, so they could get through, but I do think if people were not careful when parking it would have been hard to get a push chairs through. But what is the answer? Cars are a fact of life, people need them. Unless you knock the houses at the end of each road down and make it into parking for the residents.

buffyajp · 05/11/2024 13:35

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 13:15

You should park on the pavement if its an area where you should.

There is no area where you should. If the road is that narrow then simply you should not park there. Even if it does mean you aren’t directly outside your house. Your car does not take priority over wheelchair users and buggy’s