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Woman’s death could have been due to parked cars

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MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 13:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj6k7n734jgo

something should be done to prevent drivers blocking emergency vehicles

lines in red on narrow roads to show width of vehicle and if if your car doesn’t fit park elsewhere ( not on pavement)

Philomena who had long dark brown hair and is wearing a turquoise top sitting on a blue sofa holding a car that says "Mum"

Turf Lodge family of woman who died blame parked cars for delayed ambulance

A car had to be moved before an ambulance could get down the street to a woman in cardiac arrest.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cj6k7n734jgo

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PinkSparklyPussyCat · 05/11/2024 17:46

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:39

If you park boot to bonnet you will block access for people getting on or off pavement. This does happen and people have found they’ve not got access to get back to their front door, as they use a wheelchair.

The cars aren't wedged in that tightly and we have front gardens so no front door issues.

I'm not disputing it does happen but I'm saying that in certain circumstances it's possible for the pavement to be wide enough for cars and pedestrians. As I said upthread I have parked with all four wheels on the pavement and it's still possible to get past. I appreciate not everywhere is like that but you seem to think all pavements are narrow and right against the door.

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:45

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:43

It’s not about where you live, it was about narrow pavements

Yes, and where I live does have narrow pavements, but there is still enough room to fit a wheelchair down them - I know because I see it happening every single day when our disabled neighbour goes out.

I'm sorry that doesn't fit your narrative of selfish pavement parkers blocking access for people though!

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:43

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:41

I didn't realise you knew where I lived and what happened on my road.

My bad Hmm

It’s not about where you live, it was about narrow pavements

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coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:43

As always with these threads, people seem to have no idea what parking etc. is like outside of their own area, and are super quick to criticise anyone who tries to explain that many people have no other choice.

Ultimately, the issue is with poor infrastructure and a huge lack of public, off-road parking - not with people who are just parking their cars where they've been told to park them.

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:41

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:41

You did, the person you replied to said narrow pavement, that would block the pavement and access

I didn't realise you knew where I lived and what happened on my road.

My bad Hmm

violentovulation · 05/11/2024 17:41

I'm with you OP. I don't drive, and the pavements around here are all taken up by cars. I often have to walk down the middle of the road. It pisses me off. An ambulance wouldn't be able to fit down some of the roads with parking on both sides.

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:41

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:39

I didn't say anyone was told to block the pavement, though, did I? I said people were told to park on the pavement. There's still plenty of room for pedestrians etc. to get past safely.

I live on such a street and there are wheelchair and pushchair users going past everyday with absolutely no issues.

You did, the person you replied to said narrow pavement, that would block the pavement and access

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MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:39

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 05/11/2024 17:36

Again it depends. In my road we park on the pavement on one side but it's nothing the like the one in the picture, if it was I agree it wouldn't be suitable. There are some roads, like mine, that have very wide pavements and I would like to see it marked for parking.

If you park boot to bonnet you will block access for people getting on or off pavement. This does happen and people have found they’ve not got access to get back to their front door, as they use a wheelchair.

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coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:39

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:37

decide that the narrow pavements make a good parking space

because there's genuinely no other choice and the council has told people to do it to keep the roads clear.

The council will not be telling drivers to store there cars on a narrow pavement and consequently block the pavement in the process, the police can ticket for motorised vehicles blocking a pavement

I didn't say anyone was told to block the pavement, though, did I? I said people were told to park on the pavement. There's still plenty of room for pedestrians etc. to get past safely.

I live on such a street and there are wheelchair and pushchair users going past everyday with absolutely no issues.

Grammarnut · 05/11/2024 17:39

Intriguing. Family blames parked cars. Possible. My late DH had a cardiac arrest at home. The ambulance arrived within 4 minutes of my call - but I was not in the room when DH had the arrest, which later caused problems, as we did not know for how long his heart had stopped and one minute is sufficient to cause irreparable damage (he was 78). He died eighteen days later.

My DD spoke continuously to her uncle, a GP, running past him all that was done. He's an experienced GP with lots of contacts in the NHS. His opinion was that given the arrest took place at home the chances of surviving it at all (let alone in any meaningful way) were very poor (DD did not tell me this until after DH's consultant had also told me). Even had the arrest happened in hospital, the survival rate is in single digits.
So, I think the parked cars made little difference to this poor woman's chances of survival, sadly. That does not mean people should not take care to park bearing in mind emergency vehicles may need to get through.

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:37

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 16:57

ETA To be fair as some PPs have pointed out some pavements are very wide and that's a different story but I'm sick to death of the selfish idiots who decide that the narrow pavements make a good parking space

In many cases, it's expected by the council and there are signs to say as much. It's not happening because people are being selfish, it's because there's genuinely no other choice and the council has told people to do it to keep the roads clear.

decide that the narrow pavements make a good parking space

because there's genuinely no other choice and the council has told people to do it to keep the roads clear.

The council will not be telling drivers to store there cars on a narrow pavement and consequently block the pavement in the process, the police can ticket for motorised vehicles blocking a pavement

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PinkSparklyPussyCat · 05/11/2024 17:36

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:30

If you park on the pavement you not only prevent pushchairs and wheelchairs from accessing the pavement- you also block access to their homes, they can’t get back into the pavement between the cars.

pavements aren’t for parking or storage of cars

Again it depends. In my road we park on the pavement on one side but it's nothing the like the one in the picture, if it was I agree it wouldn't be suitable. There are some roads, like mine, that have very wide pavements and I would like to see it marked for parking.

Fluufer · 05/11/2024 17:35

Reugny · 05/11/2024 17:26

Some people who live in London work outside London where there is no reliable public transport, or work the other side of London to where they live doing shifts.

Oddly was just having a conversation about this with a colleague. My colleague lost a job due to transport issues.

At a previous workplace, which was outside London, any one who could afford to take the train and worked the times of the mini-bus to/from the station so they didn't have to drive was considered privileged.

Commuting out of London is rather an odd choice to make, I can't imagine it accounts for much of the London traffic. Those who need to fine, but that's not going to be the majority of London car owners.

tourdefrance · 05/11/2024 17:33

It's a shame the consultation on pavement parking has been gathering dust in a government drawer for a couple of years.
Those of outside London would like to see a pavement parking ban too.

There is lots of unused space (including supermarket / office car parks) that could be used for parking overnight and as pp said, underground parking could be built for new houses.

Allfur · 05/11/2024 17:32

Reugny · 05/11/2024 17:26

Some people who live in London work outside London where there is no reliable public transport, or work the other side of London to where they live doing shifts.

Oddly was just having a conversation about this with a colleague. My colleague lost a job due to transport issues.

At a previous workplace, which was outside London, any one who could afford to take the train and worked the times of the mini-bus to/from the station so they didn't have to drive was considered privileged.

So leave the roads free for the people that really need to drive, and that's not everyone

MikeRafone · 05/11/2024 17:30

soupfiend · 05/11/2024 13:27

Yes, there are signs on the lamposts. It often doesnt leave enough room to walk past certainly not with buggys or mobility aids or sometimes walk easily with shopping, which also affects me as a pedestrian but thats how you should park on that road. Its a difficult balance

If you park on the pavement you not only prevent pushchairs and wheelchairs from accessing the pavement- you also block access to their homes, they can’t get back into the pavement between the cars.

pavements aren’t for parking or storage of cars

Woman’s death could have been due to parked cars
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Reugny · 05/11/2024 17:26

Fluufer · 05/11/2024 17:17

It is often possible. See the example of London above. Why do they need cars at all?

Some people who live in London work outside London where there is no reliable public transport, or work the other side of London to where they live doing shifts.

Oddly was just having a conversation about this with a colleague. My colleague lost a job due to transport issues.

At a previous workplace, which was outside London, any one who could afford to take the train and worked the times of the mini-bus to/from the station so they didn't have to drive was considered privileged.

Allfur · 05/11/2024 17:19

MereDintofPandiculation · 05/11/2024 16:29

If only self-drive cars were a bit nearer reality. That would remove the need for many people to have a car, if you could simply tap on your phone and have a self-drive car turn up on your doorstep. Then send it away when you got to your destination. That would hugely reduce the on-street parking (bearing in mind the average car is parked for about 80% of its life).

Meanwhile, I'd settle for narrower pavements, defended by bloody big bollards.

Thankfully private car ownership is declining in citues like london, where pay as you go car sharing is an option, as well as good public transport

Fluufer · 05/11/2024 17:17

HappyNewYear2027 · 05/11/2024 17:14

Personally I believe you should park on driveways/car parks only.
If you have neither of the above, don't have a car.

Unfortunately that just isn't possible given UK infrastructure.

It is often possible. See the example of London above. Why do they need cars at all?

HappyNewYear2027 · 05/11/2024 17:14

Personally I believe you should park on driveways/car parks only.
If you have neither of the above, don't have a car.

Unfortunately that just isn't possible given UK infrastructure.

Boomer55 · 05/11/2024 17:11

tilypu · 05/11/2024 13:20

Are there areas where you "should" park on the pavement?

I don't know, I live in a country where parking on the pavement is banned, but I've never seen anything anywhere that says that's what you are supposed to do. What's the point in a pavement if you are supposed to park there?

I know there are places where you 'can' park on the pavement. But that's not quite the same thing.

Some pavements around here (wide) are signposted up to allow half the car to be parked on them.

Reugny · 05/11/2024 17:10

I am currently legally parked fully on the pavement.

It is actually a wide road however on the streets where I grew up and another where I previously lived you also legally park half on the pavement but the roads are narrow.

I'm in London where parking on the pavement is legal if indicated to do so by the council. If you actually park fully on the road you get a parking ticket. Some councils where the roads and pavements are narrow allow you to only park on one side of the road while others don't appear to care.

Oh and a lot of people can't actually park near their home due to the number of cars. So it is normal to see people with buggies wheel their kid to their parked car whether they are half parked on the pavement or fully parked on the road.

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 17:10

Fluufer · 05/11/2024 17:04

Common sense still has to be applied. Just because you can doesn't mean you always should. If you don't fit, you can't park there.

As has been said several times, there often isn't a choice because there's genuinely nowhere else to go.

Where I live, every single street is the same. To park somewhere without pavement parking, you need a residents permit (which you won't get unless you live on that street - living nearby doesn't count). In the town centre, there's only disc parking in place so you can only stay for an hour. We don't have any public car parks in the town either - you could park at Tesco but you're restricted to two hours, so it's not very useful.

It's all very well saying "if you don't fit, go elsewhere" but that only works when there's actually somewhere else to go, and in many places, there simply isn't.

LakieLady · 05/11/2024 17:08

tilypu · 05/11/2024 13:20

Are there areas where you "should" park on the pavement?

I don't know, I live in a country where parking on the pavement is banned, but I've never seen anything anywhere that says that's what you are supposed to do. What's the point in a pavement if you are supposed to park there?

I know there are places where you 'can' park on the pavement. But that's not quite the same thing.

There are a couple of streets in my town where officially marked parking bays are half on the pavement.

It's a town of narrow streets and old buildings, and most of the town centre was built long before the invention of the car.

Fluufer · 05/11/2024 17:04

coffeesaveslives · 05/11/2024 16:57

ETA To be fair as some PPs have pointed out some pavements are very wide and that's a different story but I'm sick to death of the selfish idiots who decide that the narrow pavements make a good parking space

In many cases, it's expected by the council and there are signs to say as much. It's not happening because people are being selfish, it's because there's genuinely no other choice and the council has told people to do it to keep the roads clear.

Common sense still has to be applied. Just because you can doesn't mean you always should. If you don't fit, you can't park there.