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Reporting historic benefit fraud…

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Poofet · 05/11/2024 12:21

I lived with my friend, her partner and their small child. I started living with them 15 years ago, and lived there for 9 years. I moved out 6 years ago.

To cut a long story short, my friend and I have fallen out due to some pretty poor behaviour over the years on her part. We have had a very on and off again friendship for years. This morning during an argument, she was sending me abusive text messages, and within one I received this morning she has said, ‘You didn’t pay enough rent when you lived with us, so I had to claim as a single mother to support myself through benefits.’

Obviously, this is absurd. I am now worried that I could be implicated in benefit fraud if I do not report it and it somehow gets discovered, I could be considered to have been part of this. Do the DWP / police even care about historic benefit fraud? Is this something I should be reporting to protect myself?

OP posts:
TheSilkWorm · 05/11/2024 12:33

Poofet · 05/11/2024 12:32

If she’s telling me then I’m worried who else she may have told and I’m concerned if it does get reported or found out, I could end up being implicated as being party to it.

No you won't

Agix · 05/11/2024 12:33

You won't be implicated either way. It's not your fault.

If you want to get her into massive trouble you can report her. There's a dedicated benefit fraud hotline you can Google. They do care about historical fraudulent claims, getting back the money fills their coffers just that little bit more.

She could owe thousands.

Captnip500 · 05/11/2024 12:32

OP if it wasn’t you who make the fraudulent benefit claim then there is no way you can get in trouble for this. How much rent you pain whilst you were there is irrelevant.

I would block this woman and move on. All sounds very toxic.

Poofet · 05/11/2024 12:32

If she’s telling me then I’m worried who else she may have told and I’m concerned if it does get reported or found out, I could end up being implicated as being party to it.

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TheSilkWorm · 05/11/2024 12:32

Her benefit claim, her problem.

AllYearsAround · 05/11/2024 12:29

You're not really worried, you're petty and want to hurt your former friend!
Her previous benefits claims have no impact on you.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 05/11/2024 12:28

Block her and forget about it

Thatmakesperfectsense · 05/11/2024 12:26

If you lived there without a contract it would be difficult to prove. I don't think that unless you report it it will ever be historically looked into.
If you report your friend then yes, she may be prosecuted.
Personally I would just block her.