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Eating Takeaway In A Hospital Waiting Room Do You See It As Unreasonable

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Warrior96 · 05/11/2024 12:08

So long story short I ended up with an infected ear piercing and had to see an out of hours doctor at the hospital. My life medical problems always seem to happen on a Saturday or Sunday! Due to it is known to be a nasty infection I was admitted onto the ears nose and throat ward, it was average time 5-6 hours to see a doctor it took me 5 hours. In the meantime in the waiting room a couple sat next to me bought a KFC into the waiting room. I can understand people can get hungry with the long wait but there were a number of nauseous people in that waiting room. I feel they were being a bit selfish and could have bought something more appropriate.

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MrsSunshine2b · 05/11/2024 16:26

Wait times in hospitals can be hours or even days. People need to eat. If KFC was the closest place, it makes sense that's what they'd eat.

LadyGabriella · 05/11/2024 16:22

Got news for you…become an inpatient after the A+Ev visit and you will be greeted with stinky hospital food at 5pm and lunch everyday. Especially when it’s fish. People need to eat.

Lifelover16 · 05/11/2024 16:21

jaimelesoleil · 05/11/2024 16:13

I think you’re being unreasonable for taking up A&E space for an infected ear piercing more than people eating kfc.

I don’t think so. Skin infections need treating and can quickly become cellulitis.
The OP has been referred for urgent care by her GP.

Justgorgeous · 05/11/2024 16:17

It’s a night out for a lot of people.

IntrovertInDisguise · 05/11/2024 16:16

This is almost identical to a recent thread, including the KFC in hospital waiting room! As I recall, the family who brought in KFC were called CF’s on that thread.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 05/11/2024 16:15

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:12

They can take their butts out the waiting area and scarf something down quickly. Not sit and indulge in a 3 course stinky meal among people many of which are barely holding on.

Nope, not when they're solely looking after a person who requires care they can't. Last time I was in A and E was with a loved one who has dementia and would be in danger in that environment without supervision. As luck would have it, I actually had food in my bag. But if I hadn't, your smell preferences rank well below my relative's welfare.

JusteanBiscuits · 05/11/2024 16:14

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:12

@JusteanBiscuits you do that sweetie

Id say the week in hospital, and a further 2 weeks on a virtual ward, kind of showed I needed to be there. Funnily enough, strokes don't cause appetite suppression.

MakeItRain26 · 05/11/2024 16:14

@yukikata i completely disagree? I cannot abide the stench of smelly crisps and yes I CAN smell them from across the room. There are certain crisps I don’t even allow in my house because DH stinks so badly when he eats them.

This is my opinion and something I am sensitive to. It obviously does not mean that no one should be able to eat a packet of wotsits on a train, just because I think it is gross.

jaimelesoleil · 05/11/2024 16:13

I think you’re being unreasonable for taking up A&E space for an infected ear piercing more than people eating kfc.

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:12

@JusteanBiscuits you do that sweetie

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:12

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 05/11/2024 16:06

And that some will be there when there's nothing wrong with them personally, but they need to provide care to someone else.

They can take their butts out the waiting area and scarf something down quickly. Not sit and indulge in a 3 course stinky meal among people many of which are barely holding on.

JusteanBiscuits · 05/11/2024 16:11

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:10

Absolutely. I’ve been to a&e w various conditions and infections etc and was never well enough to even think about food after hours and hours of not eating. If you’re really really sick you rarely are in a condition to eat, left alone something greasy and smelly. If you can tolerate kfc etc ask yourself are you sick enough to be in a&e; most likely not

OK sweetie. I will be sure to let my consultant know I didn't need to be there and really shouldn't have been hungry after 18 hours in A&E.

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 16:10

JusteanBiscuits · 05/11/2024 16:05

You realise people go to A&E for things other than vomiting, right?

Absolutely. I’ve been to a&e w various conditions and infections etc and was never well enough to even think about food after hours and hours of not eating. If you’re really really sick you rarely are in a condition to eat, left alone something greasy and smelly. If you can tolerate kfc etc ask yourself are you sick enough to be in a&e; most likely not

Scentedjasmin · 05/11/2024 16:09

Simonjt · 05/11/2024 16:04

Like where? I had to take my son to A&E a few years ago, hospital cafe shuts at 4pm, as did the shop as it was a sunday, neither opened until 10am on the monday.

I’m a type one diabetic and I can’t have meat, dairy, nuts, strawberry or kiwi. Care to tell me where I could have sourced safe food to eat at 4am when I desperately needed some due to having very low blood sugar and my emergency kit was out. The options that were available at my location via deliveroo were mcdonalds and kfc, I can’t have kfc, but I can safely eat mcdonalds chips.

Sandwich vending machine, a banana or take a snack with you?

Scentedjasmin · 05/11/2024 16:07

I can't imagine wanting to eat anything in and A&E department. Revolting place to dine.
I did once witness a crack addict get a blanket out, sit on the floor and count out all his blocks of crack cocaine. That was the same night that I was sat opposite a man who had trapped his penis in his zipper. It just kept my head down and didn't dare look at either of them.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 05/11/2024 16:06

JusteanBiscuits · 05/11/2024 16:05

You realise people go to A&E for things other than vomiting, right?

And that some will be there when there's nothing wrong with them personally, but they need to provide care to someone else.

IcyLilacZebra · 05/11/2024 16:05

I don't see a issue with eating hot food in a waiting room but yes if it stinks then it's not the best none the less it is what it is and people are their for a reason and do need to eat

JusteanBiscuits · 05/11/2024 16:05

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 15:58

It’s thoughtless. If you’re well enough to eat, you don’t belong in a&e. If you’re there with someone sick and waiting with them- go outside, eat and come back.
many of the people in a&e are sick enough to be at least nauseous so it’s very selfish to bring in smelly food.
earlier this year I was in a&e with my throwing up kid (I first called our dr and she advised we go to urgent care; urgent care sent us to a&e so didn’t just bring them on a whim). There was a group of people waiting with a man next to us (and taking up a lot of a&e seats while sick people were standing, another selfish a&e feature) who ordered a pizza delivery and ate it. Don’t know how they even had appetite eating right next to a kid throwing up every 2 mins. The pizza stink didn’t improve the puking situation either

You realise people go to A&E for things other than vomiting, right?

Simonjt · 05/11/2024 16:04

yukikata · 05/11/2024 15:57

I think it's inconsiderate, the same as eating it on a bus or a train or anywhere in close quarters with other people who can't get away from the smell.

People do need to eat but if you can get to a KFC then you can get to somewhere that sells less smelly food - the KFC was a choice.

Like where? I had to take my son to A&E a few years ago, hospital cafe shuts at 4pm, as did the shop as it was a sunday, neither opened until 10am on the monday.

I’m a type one diabetic and I can’t have meat, dairy, nuts, strawberry or kiwi. Care to tell me where I could have sourced safe food to eat at 4am when I desperately needed some due to having very low blood sugar and my emergency kit was out. The options that were available at my location via deliveroo were mcdonalds and kfc, I can’t have kfc, but I can safely eat mcdonalds chips.

yukikata · 05/11/2024 15:59

MakeItRain26 · 05/11/2024 15:53

Are people honestly so offended by the smell of fried chicken? A packet of monster munch reeks to high heaven and is likely freely available in the vending machine - get yourself something if it bothers you!

KFC stinks out the entire room. It's not the same as a packet of monster munch. At all.

PeloMom · 05/11/2024 15:58

It’s thoughtless. If you’re well enough to eat, you don’t belong in a&e. If you’re there with someone sick and waiting with them- go outside, eat and come back.
many of the people in a&e are sick enough to be at least nauseous so it’s very selfish to bring in smelly food.
earlier this year I was in a&e with my throwing up kid (I first called our dr and she advised we go to urgent care; urgent care sent us to a&e so didn’t just bring them on a whim). There was a group of people waiting with a man next to us (and taking up a lot of a&e seats while sick people were standing, another selfish a&e feature) who ordered a pizza delivery and ate it. Don’t know how they even had appetite eating right next to a kid throwing up every 2 mins. The pizza stink didn’t improve the puking situation either

yukikata · 05/11/2024 15:57

I think it's inconsiderate, the same as eating it on a bus or a train or anywhere in close quarters with other people who can't get away from the smell.

People do need to eat but if you can get to a KFC then you can get to somewhere that sells less smelly food - the KFC was a choice.

SoiledMyselfDuringSomeTurbulence · 05/11/2024 15:57

Simonjt · 05/11/2024 15:49

Those of us with allergies cannot eat anything from the likes of pret.

Exactly. There is no one single suitable, affordable, universally available meal. Sandwiches certainly aren't it, and the people constantly insisting people in A and E ought to be eating them should be mindful of that, rather than lecturing others.

MakeItRain26 · 05/11/2024 15:53

Are people honestly so offended by the smell of fried chicken? A packet of monster munch reeks to high heaven and is likely freely available in the vending machine - get yourself something if it bothers you!

Lollygaggle · 05/11/2024 15:50

We had to put up notices in our dental surgery waiting room as people were bringing fish and chips/ pies etc in to eat whilst waiting for friends/family appointments and no they didn’t brush before coming in to see me. We had a few kicking off when we sent them , and their food , outside.