What would you do? I went into nursery yesterday morning for a Christmas photo shoot ( my daughter is due to start her first day Thursday) I'm very anxious about her starting anyway. There was 2 staff in the room with me and my 1 year old, plus other small children and the photographer and I heard a staff member openly say how hungover she was, the other staff member said I can't believe your still hungover and she went on about her feeling ill with it all morning. It just didn't sit right with me at all. I work with SEN teens and wouldn't dream of speaking like this in front of parents. I felt so uneasy as I thought to myself that she is going to be looking after my 1 year old and her whole attitude just screamed she wasn't bothered. My sister said to complain but I don't know if I'm overreacting to the situation because I'm already anxious. I didn't get great vibes from the nursery when I viewed it but it was the only one available with the days I needed. I have arranged other childcare as I just don't feel comfortable sending her there. I'm aware people drink ( I myself like a drink, although I haven't had a drink for 2 years because it's hard enough being a parent to baby nevermind being hungover aswell!) what would I even say as I want to withdraw her before she even starts?!?