The last time we spoke was in 2017 at a Thanksgiving meal at my mum's house. He got drunk and mad at me and my (now ex) husband after the guests had left and ended up screaming at my mum in the wee small hours triggering my daughter's trichotillomania.
There was some back and forth over email and he said he needed a break from me. To be honest, I was relieved by this as I'd spent too many years brushing his outrageous behavior under the carpet because my mum insisted on 'family' events.
Since then I’ve moved to the States and only visited the UK a couple of times. We have not met. Every now and then he picks up the phone when I call my mum, I ask how he is, he says, “I’ll get mum”…
Now, suddenly he’s tagging me on FB to restart old arguments about the Israel/Palestine issue and whether his insistent questioning of my Jewish ex husband over related issues was or was not antisemitic.
Should I just block him?
YABU - don’t block him
YANBU - block him