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TW...to think celebrating Halloween and horror is outrageous

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Mamabear04 · 03/11/2024 22:54

TW for talking about the tragic accident that happened in Edinburgh yesterday evening.

I just don't understand why people celebrate Halloween or indulge in horror when the reality of it is just so awful. I mean there is enough horror in the world why would anyone want to celebrate violence and death? I know a lot of people will say that you can celebrate it in a happy way with nice costumes with songs, poems and sweets but at the heart of it, it does celebrate death and gore otherwise why would all the merch be skeletons and ghosts etc? That poor man in Edinburgh and his poor family and all the people who thought that the horrific incident was a Halloween prop. Why are people so disconnected from the reality of what it truly represents? I'm pretty sure hardly anyone celebrates Halloween as in the true sense of Samhaim as with other cultures with similar traditions. Everywhere I've looked for the past month just seems gore and death. Lots of people I follow on Instagram posting dress up of their kids in horror centred costumes and then in the next story it's about how awful all the death and destruction in Gaza. It just seems to bizarre to me. AIBU to just think with all the news, images, films at our finger tips that people just don't have a sense of the reality of things? That people are so numb to it?

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DemocracyR · 04/11/2024 00:39

I think you’ve tried to shoehorn a tragedy into a Mumsnet thread under the guise of something else, so you weren’t called out for wanting to gossip about it. Which is pathetic really.

BibbityBobbityToo · 04/11/2024 00:38

mollyfolk · 04/11/2024 00:24

@SpoonHeader

Wait till you find out about Christmas.

Less traumatic than Easter 🤣

mollyfolk · 04/11/2024 00:24

@SpoonHeader

Wait till you find out about Christmas.

GiddyRobin · 04/11/2024 00:21

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:19

Ah, thanks - I suspected they were trolling but it's hard to tell.

It is. Some very offensive things posted tonight tbh, I'm surprised they're still going. Obviously got an axe to grind, which is a shame because it's an otherwise interesting discussion.

SpudleyLass · 04/11/2024 00:20

TunipTheVegimal24 · 04/11/2024 00:19

And Bonfire Night too!

I appreciate the honesty of Bonfire Night. Everybody is upfront about the history.

Unlike certain Christian holidays.

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:19

GiddyRobin · 04/11/2024 00:17

I wouldn't get drawn in. This poster also believes those celebrating Diwali should just light a candle until Bonfire Night and enjoy thr fireworks for a completely different festival then.

They're either ignorant or stirring the pot because they're bored. Don't waste your energy.

Ah, thanks - I suspected they were trolling but it's hard to tell.

TunipTheVegimal24 · 04/11/2024 00:19

SpudleyLass · 04/11/2024 00:02

Right like Easter isn't creepy, a man returning from the dead?
How about Valentine's Day - named after St Valentine. Do you know what happened to him?

Humanity has always been morbid- Halloween is a fairly healthy way of processing morbid curiosity.

And Bonfire Night too!

GiddyRobin · 04/11/2024 00:17

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:14

Well, I believe it because it is is universally believed by historians.

The Catholic Church wanted to convert pagan populations and, as the Roman empire spread, it aligned its holidays with pre-existing festivals celebrated by the local populace.

Why do you think the Church moved All Saints Day from its original May 13 date?

I wouldn't get drawn in. This poster also believes those celebrating Diwali should just light a candle until Bonfire Night and enjoy thr fireworks for a completely different festival then.

They're either ignorant or stirring the pot because they're bored. Don't waste your energy.

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:14

SpoonHeader · 04/11/2024 00:08

Why do you believe the universal church changed a date to fit with a specific British isles/celtic festival, why do you think it was all about here? Catholics are in many countries.

Well, I believe it because it is is universally believed by historians.

The Catholic Church wanted to convert pagan populations and, as the Roman empire spread, it aligned its holidays with pre-existing festivals celebrated by the local populace.

Why do you think the Church moved All Saints Day from its original May 13 date?

ARichtGoodDram · 04/11/2024 00:13

Vanillalattecandle · 03/11/2024 23:41

Had it not have been Halloween weekend where people were in the town dressed up and events happening I don't think anyone would have picked the head up.
It was awful, unlucky timing and what's the chances you come across someone's head while out and about?
I feel really sorry for the people who picked it up, I wouldn't be able to sleep for at least 8 weeks if it were me, they must have had the shock of their lives. I doubt they saw the incident happen and then picked it up.

I think they possibly would have.

I had that unfortunate bad luck to witness a similar incident many years ago. Someone passing came very very very close to picking up a body part as they thought it was a prop from a play or the like.

They vomited a lot when they realised it wasn't just a very realistic prop and, tbh, have never truly been completely the same since.

noblegiraffe · 04/11/2024 00:13

gotmyknickersinatwist · 03/11/2024 23:56

Is anyone saying the Celts started the -now - global version of Halloween? Obviously it has been appropriated by the US & beyond - due to Irish immigration I imagine, and it has morphed into something bigger & has homogenised somewhat, with pumpkins etc.

When I was a child in 80s Ireland Halloween was a big thing. Homemade costumes (bin bags usually), 'false faces', monkey nuts, trick or treating, apple bobbing, apple tarts with coins in them, and truly terrifying turnips. We loved it. We were aware it wasn't a thing in England because English TV would talk about Guy Fawkes night which was obviously totally unrelated.

I remember Mark Riley on radio 6 say how he thought The Simpsons - because of their fantastic Tree house of Horror episodes - had a big part to play in the present day Halloween becoming popular in England & globally.

As a child in the 80s in England I appear to have had exactly the same experience of Halloween as you. It was definitely a thing.

Halloween was also huge in the US well before the Simpsons. Think about the film E.T.!

SpoonHeader · 04/11/2024 00:08

Why do you believe the universal church changed a date to fit with a specific British isles/celtic festival, why do you think it was all about here? Catholics are in many countries.

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:06

SpoonHeader · 04/11/2024 00:04

The Catholic church wasn't limited to the British Isles in the 9th century, so how do you explain that?

Explain what?

BestZebbie · 04/11/2024 00:05

There are loads of festivals all over the world that are basically a temporary reversal of the normal order of things. Humans like novelty and boundary-breaking, especially the types where everything will be safely back to normal in a few hours....

SpoonHeader · 04/11/2024 00:04

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:01

There are no written records of Samhain that predate the existence of the Church, however, it is so well evidenced by Archeological evidence that Halloween's routes in Celtic tradition is not disputed by any serious historian.

The Catholics did their familiar trick of taking one of their new holidays (All Saints Day, originally in May) and moving it to coincide with a more established holiday, in a (very succesful) attempt at appropriating existing celbrations into its own mythology.

The Catholic church wasn't limited to the British Isles in the 9th century, so how do you explain that?

BeatriceAndLottie · 04/11/2024 00:03

Save your anger for the murderer perhaps?

TunipTheVegimal24 · 04/11/2024 00:03

Poor that man! I hope I'm never decapitated, but if I am, I don't want anyone to stop celebrating anything on my account. There's enough actual doom and gloom in the world (as you quite rightly pointed out OP), without stopping the fun things which provide a little respite.

SpudleyLass · 04/11/2024 00:02

Right like Easter isn't creepy, a man returning from the dead?
How about Valentine's Day - named after St Valentine. Do you know what happened to him?

Humanity has always been morbid- Halloween is a fairly healthy way of processing morbid curiosity.

CraftyPlumViewer · 04/11/2024 00:01

SpoonHeader · 03/11/2024 23:51

I am sure someone will and bring up the documents.

Out of interest “hallow” means “holy,” so who was the previous Holy?

There are no written records of Samhain that predate the existence of the Church, however, it is so well evidenced by Archeological evidence that Halloween's routes in Celtic tradition is not disputed by any serious historian.

The Catholics did their familiar trick of taking one of their new holidays (All Saints Day, originally in May) and moving it to coincide with a more established holiday, in a (very succesful) attempt at appropriating existing celbrations into its own mythology.

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/11/2024 00:00

gotmyknickersinatwist · 03/11/2024 23:56

Is anyone saying the Celts started the -now - global version of Halloween? Obviously it has been appropriated by the US & beyond - due to Irish immigration I imagine, and it has morphed into something bigger & has homogenised somewhat, with pumpkins etc.

When I was a child in 80s Ireland Halloween was a big thing. Homemade costumes (bin bags usually), 'false faces', monkey nuts, trick or treating, apple bobbing, apple tarts with coins in them, and truly terrifying turnips. We loved it. We were aware it wasn't a thing in England because English TV would talk about Guy Fawkes night which was obviously totally unrelated.

I remember Mark Riley on radio 6 say how he thought The Simpsons - because of their fantastic Tree house of Horror episodes - had a big part to play in the present day Halloween becoming popular in England & globally.

It was definitely a thing in the 60s/70s in England. We went guising, carved turnips and dooked for apples. Guy Fawkes is Bonfire night and unrelated.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 03/11/2024 23:56

SpoonHeader · 03/11/2024 23:45

Where are the acient documents to support that the celts started the global halloween? I would genuinely be interested.

Is anyone saying the Celts started the -now - global version of Halloween? Obviously it has been appropriated by the US & beyond - due to Irish immigration I imagine, and it has morphed into something bigger & has homogenised somewhat, with pumpkins etc.

When I was a child in 80s Ireland Halloween was a big thing. Homemade costumes (bin bags usually), 'false faces', monkey nuts, trick or treating, apple bobbing, apple tarts with coins in them, and truly terrifying turnips. We loved it. We were aware it wasn't a thing in England because English TV would talk about Guy Fawkes night which was obviously totally unrelated.

I remember Mark Riley on radio 6 say how he thought The Simpsons - because of their fantastic Tree house of Horror episodes - had a big part to play in the present day Halloween becoming popular in England & globally.

VioletCrawleyForever · 03/11/2024 23:56

The reality of Halloween is children dressing up as dinosaurs and marvel characters and telling awful jokes about skeletons in return for a sweetie.

It's got nothing to do with a horrible accident in Edinburgh.

Willyoujustbequiet · 03/11/2024 23:54

SpoonHeader · 03/11/2024 23:49

The Irish and Scottish carried on their version of Halloween to this day, where as the English dropped theirs. They included elements that were already in the culture before Christianity, the same happened globally, Mexicans added elements and nade Halloween their own too. The English didn't start Halloween though it was a Catholic thing.

That's not true either. Up where I'm from the cultures very much overlap. Political borders that have changed over the centuries mean nothing. We are the same people genetically and linguistically and share the same cultural events.

The Catholic Church didn't invent Halloween. The Celts did.

GiddyRobin · 03/11/2024 23:53

SpoonHeader · 03/11/2024 23:51

I am sure someone will and bring up the documents.

Out of interest “hallow” means “holy,” so who was the previous Holy?

It wasn't always called Halloween. It comes from Samhain, and it was appropriated. I'd suggest doing some research of your own because even my kids learn about this sort of thing in primary school.

ColonelRhubarbBikini · 03/11/2024 23:52

I think the popularity of Halloween isn’t because we’re all desensitised it’s because we by and large are shielded from the horrors that can befall someone like never before. Hence those people assuming it to be a prop because they had no reason to think it was an actual human head.

There’s a great podcast called Painfortainment by Dan Carlin that explores the history of torture essentially and he theorises that for millennia we were far more blood thirsty and accepting and capable of violence. Because society has shifted and we no longer see public executions/witch burnings etc etc we like to scare ourselves with horror movies and haunted houses. It’s fun because we don’t know what actual real life horror is.

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