It’s my birthday today and I feel DH has made no effort. I got a card from the kids and I’ve been cleaning all morning, he hasn’t even planned anything or asked me. He usually takes kids to his mothers on Sunday but today they’re all at home with me. I told him I’m upset and he’s just gone for a walk now in a strop. My youngest is sleeping and eldest is watching tv and I’m sat here really upset. I could have had a lovely day if they had gone to his mothers as usual! I actually thought he had planned something as he never misses a day with his mum but looks like we’re not doing anything.
before I get the usual mumsnet - “we’ll did you actually ask him?”. I plan everything for everyone and give everyone lovely suprised on their birthday. really thought just once I would get the same treatment! His birthday for example is February and I’ve already planned a lovely day and meal out for just us
also he told me no one over age of 12 gets a cake as I told him he could have at least got a small cake for us to have at home even a cupcake. Is it really only 12 or under ego get a cake? I don’t know why I’m more upset than usual this year msybe as I thought kids were older and would mean more