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Imbluedalale · 02/11/2024 21:41

Hi it’s Laura ,
Just wanted to add a new thread as I think my other thread is getting full xx

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Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 13:02

nornironlady · 05/11/2024 06:42

Good morning Laura and everyone! I had an earworm of Pink Try right up to brushing my teeth last night and again waking up this morning. I seen her in concert many years ago and she is an amazing performer. I'm not surprised you haven't been focused on your health with all that's gone by recently. We really can only handle so much at a time but please try! Great news on the house. I would say the MP chased that up and it would have been treated with priority. My work place would jump to attention for something like this. I did some stew and a lasagne yesterday. The teabag worked a treat on the messy pots so thanks for that.

Hi @nornironlady and hi everybody else. I’m just snuggled under my quilt as can’t get warm today and my tonsils feel a-bit swollen when I swallow . I hope you are ok? I love that song! She’s an amazing performer isn’t she , I bet it was amazing seeing her in concert.
It really is great news about the house , I’m hoping with everything I’ve got that I get a phone call about it this week. Do you work in the public sector?Oh your meals you made sound lovely , I love how you can put all different types of veg and flavours in both of those. Tea bag trick is brilliant isn’t it!xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 05/11/2024 11:56

Good morning Laura,, @Apolloneuro and the rest of the tribe. Hope you slept well Laura and have managed to get some breakfast into you. Got to build up your strength for moving. For white goods, you can get a social worker or support staff to make an application to the Household fund. When I was working I did this for lots of people.
https://www.gov.uk/cost-living-help-local-council

@Apolloneuro sorry you have thrown an reaction to the penicillin. That happened to me when I was 17 following numerous bouts of tonsillitis. I now have to only have non penicillin based antibiotics and have a red warning band put on if I go into hospital. Hope you get suitable antibiotics to get that UTI cleared up and feel better soon.

Get help with the cost of living from your local council

Help you can get from your council’s Household Support Fund if you cannot afford to pay for essentials like energy bills and food.

https://www.gov.uk/cost-living-help-local-council

Apolloneuro · 05/11/2024 11:16

Morning all my new friends.

I hope you slept well, Laura.

My UTI drama continues as I displayed some signs of allergic response to the penicillin, so have to stop it and await an alternative.

Loving the reminiscing about gigs. I saw the Police in my mid-sized, southern town when I was about 15 and they were starting out. One of them (Stewart Copland?) signed my arm!

RaspberryBeretxx · 05/11/2024 10:20

@nornironlady ha, I think I'd be the same with not wanting the hassle of a gig now! Prince was amazing though 😍(shame it was with a not very nice ex - we were only together a few months but I am glad I got to see Prince).

@PeggyMitchellsCameo The Diplomat s2 is on my list too. Glad it was good, I loved the first one. You made me laugh about Donald Trump in Elizabeth Arden Toasty Beige! I just can't imagine how any country could bring him back but it looks likely 😞.

I'm going to see if I can get a sample of Shay and Blue perfumes 😀

NeedWineNow · 05/11/2024 08:25

Morning! Just catching up and have seen your house news Laura. That is great, and I’m keeping everything crossed for you!

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 05/11/2024 07:56

Morning Spoon Crew! Loved catching up on your news @Imbluedalale fingers crossed for your new home.
And I also love catching up on everyone’s news bits - I loved Ludwig, will watch the new ITV drama in the day.
@RaspberryBeretxx you have seen Prince. Wow. That must have been quite the concert.
I have just put the news on. Donnie Trump reminds me of my days in beauty counters in my younger years. I worked on Elizabeth Arden and we used to have a foundation shade called Toasty Beige. Looks like he’s cornered the market.
I have just finished S2 of The Diplomat on Netflix - it’s brilliant.
Laura we all have our fingers and toes crossed for you. You have uplifted us all with your spirit. Here is to another day towards your freedom….

nornironlady · 05/11/2024 07:55

Would you believe I was just reading the news online earlier and one of the pictures of the day was Pink in concert suspended high in air mid routine. I won't be able to escape her now I bet! I would have loved to have seen Prince RIP. I'm just too old for the hassle of a gig now - too many people 😂

RaspberryBeretxx · 05/11/2024 07:15

nornironlady · 05/11/2024 06:42

Good morning Laura and everyone! I had an earworm of Pink Try right up to brushing my teeth last night and again waking up this morning. I seen her in concert many years ago and she is an amazing performer. I'm not surprised you haven't been focused on your health with all that's gone by recently. We really can only handle so much at a time but please try! Great news on the house. I would say the MP chased that up and it would have been treated with priority. My work place would jump to attention for something like this. I did some stew and a lasagne yesterday. The teabag worked a treat on the messy pots so thanks for that.

Oh I love pink and especially that song. So jealous that you saw her in concert, that must have been amazing.

I think the last concert I went to was prince so shows how long ago that was 😳.

RaspberryBeretxx · 05/11/2024 07:11

Hope you slept well Laura and that today brings something positive whatever that may be Flowers. I just had a look at Until I kill you. It sounds really good, I’ll earmark for when DP is at his as he doesn’t like to watch anything scary or unsettling! The new Hugh grant film sounded interesting but quite scary.

Thinking of you @Ruralretreating , hope you’re ok and sending hugs.

Has the penicillin kicked in @Apolloneuro ? Ludwig is on my list to watch so glad to hear it’s good 😊.

Hello everyone else! Hope you’re all well.

Im lazing in bed with a cup of tea but really should get up now! My boss is away so no coffee shop meeting today that we usually do. At least I don’t have to be outdoors presentable as it’ll just be me and the cat 😁.

nornironlady · 05/11/2024 06:42

Good morning Laura and everyone! I had an earworm of Pink Try right up to brushing my teeth last night and again waking up this morning. I seen her in concert many years ago and she is an amazing performer. I'm not surprised you haven't been focused on your health with all that's gone by recently. We really can only handle so much at a time but please try! Great news on the house. I would say the MP chased that up and it would have been treated with priority. My work place would jump to attention for something like this. I did some stew and a lasagne yesterday. The teabag worked a treat on the messy pots so thanks for that.

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 00:54

Ruralretreating · 05/11/2024 00:35

Forgot to say, was listening to some of the songs on your heartbreak and survive list as I’ve had “I can do it with a broken heart” on repeat for ages so it was nice to have a variation on the same theme! Also, I looked for Black Tulip in my local M&S but disappointingly they didn’t have it!

I’m always here @Ruralretreating ❤️
We’ve all got each other now and it’s lovely to have met you all. I’m sure your friends don’t think you’re imposing , they will be happy to be there for you as will I. Have a listen to ‘don’t give up’ by Zoe Wees. Awww sorry to hear they didn’t have it. You can order from the shay and blue website or get a sample try . Sweet dreams . Big hugs 🤗 xx

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Ruralretreating · 05/11/2024 00:35

Forgot to say, was listening to some of the songs on your heartbreak and survive list as I’ve had “I can do it with a broken heart” on repeat for ages so it was nice to have a variation on the same theme! Also, I looked for Black Tulip in my local M&S but disappointingly they didn’t have it!

Ruralretreating · 05/11/2024 00:33

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 00:18

Hi @Ruralretreating I hope you are ok?
You’ve been on my mind too. Sending big hugs your way.
Thank you for keeping everything crossed for me I really appreciate it. You’ve all been on this journey with me every step of the way and I can’t wait to share happy updates with you all. You’ve all been my rock. I was telling my cancer nurse about you all and she was so impressed and said you all sound lovely. I think you’re all lovely too . Always here if you need to chat ❤️xx

Thanks @Imbluedalale . It’s been a privilege to be part of your journey, be inspired by your fortitude and to meet you and other lovely caring types. I am holding out for the picture of the spoon filled Christmas tree!

I do appreciate the hugs and offer of a chat, sometimes it’s just knowing someone is there that helps. I actually arranged some counselling today so I can talk through the things weighing on my mind. I’ve imposed on my friends’ ears enough. I’m lucky to have the safety nets I do.

You and I should both try to get some sleep now! Hopefully your medication changes will help with that too.

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 00:19

itsmylife7 · 05/11/2024 00:09

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I love that ! Thank you @itsmylife7 Big hugs xx

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Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 00:18

Ruralretreating · 05/11/2024 00:07

A quick hi from me! That’s brilliant about the house @Imbluedalale ! Such wonderful news. Fingers and everything else crossed…
Sorry to hear oncology a bit troubling but thankfully you went and they can keep an eye on you!
Big thanks for the hugs @ChoccieCornflake , much appreciated. Lots of stuff to deal with and hugs help for sure.

Hi @Ruralretreating I hope you are ok?
You’ve been on my mind too. Sending big hugs your way.
Thank you for keeping everything crossed for me I really appreciate it. You’ve all been on this journey with me every step of the way and I can’t wait to share happy updates with you all. You’ve all been my rock. I was telling my cancer nurse about you all and she was so impressed and said you all sound lovely. I think you’re all lovely too . Always here if you need to chat ❤️xx

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itsmylife7 · 05/11/2024 00:17

Dorothy clicking her magic shoes for your wish to come true.
A new home.

itsmylife7 · 05/11/2024 00:09

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wizard of oz GIF
Ruralretreating · 05/11/2024 00:07

A quick hi from me! That’s brilliant about the house @Imbluedalale ! Such wonderful news. Fingers and everything else crossed…
Sorry to hear oncology a bit troubling but thankfully you went and they can keep an eye on you!
Big thanks for the hugs @ChoccieCornflake , much appreciated. Lots of stuff to deal with and hugs help for sure.

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 00:00

AdmittowearingCrocs · 04/11/2024 23:48

Sending up a prayer for you to get it and we will all be on tenterhooks waiting to hear as I am sure you will be. Being so close to Tesco and other amenities would be perfect for you. 🏠

Thank you so so much. I’m praying with my spoon too. I can’t wait to give it a home. I’m actually looking forward to doing housework when I get a home , never thought I’d be saying that. It’s got a lovely walking trail too hopefully when my leg gets better. It’s perfect and a lovely big garden for my youngest to play football in but I’m getting ahead of myself. Just keeping everything crossed and having lots of hope xx

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Imbluedalale · 04/11/2024 23:35

I should find out wed/Thursday this week. It will be another one of those weeks where I’m waiting for the phone to ring. I’m trying not to get my hopes up but I’m currently laid on bed thinking about it. It’s a good distraction if anything else. I hope you have a lovely sleep too. Big hugs xx

Sending up a prayer for you to get it and we will all be on tenterhooks waiting to hear as I am sure you will be. Being so close to Tesco and other amenities would be perfect for you. 🏠

Imbluedalale · 04/11/2024 23:35

AdmittowearingCrocs · 04/11/2024 23:12

Do you know when you will find out if you have the house Laura?
Hope you manage to get a better sleep tonight, hopefully the anticipation won’t keep you awake.

I should find out wed/Thursday this week. It will be another one of those weeks where I’m waiting for the phone to ring. I’m trying not to get my hopes up but I’m currently laid on bed thinking about it. It’s a good distraction if anything else. I hope you have a lovely sleep too. Big hugs xx

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Imbluedalale · 04/11/2024 23:31

Apolloneuro · 04/11/2024 23:09

If anyone hasn’t watched Ludwig on bbc, it’s absolutely brilliant.

Thank you @Apolloneuro I’ll add that to my list of things to watch. I hope your feeling better this evening xx

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AdmittowearingCrocs · 04/11/2024 23:12

Do you know when you will find out if you have the house Laura?
Hope you manage to get a better sleep tonight, hopefully the anticipation won’t keep you awake.

Apolloneuro · 04/11/2024 23:09

If anyone hasn’t watched Ludwig on bbc, it’s absolutely brilliant.

Imbluedalale · 04/11/2024 22:55

Munchyseeds2 · 04/11/2024 22:45

There is a documentary on after the itv thing has finished....Will watch for sure!
Sleep as well as you can tonight lovely xx

You too @Munchyseeds2 Sending you big hugs. 🤗
Sweet dreams xx

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