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Need a hand hold part 2

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Imbluedalale · 02/11/2024 21:41

Hi it’s Laura ,
Just wanted to add a new thread as I think my other thread is getting full xx

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Munchyseeds2 · 05/11/2024 18:35

@Imbluedalale if you do a book launch I promise I will come xx

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 18:28

Munchyseeds2 · 05/11/2024 18:19

Hello everyone

Such a lot has happened today its taken me a while to catch up!! 😄

Lovely, that's the best news ever....what a difference a week makes!!
Never have I been so happy for someone I will never meet!
You and the spoon will be in there for Christmas, I'm sure... now you take all the help you can get, i I'm sure you will make it 😍

Once you are in, we need pictures!!

Hope the tonsils are feeling better and you sleep REALLY well tonight xxx

@Apolloneuro did you get something sorted for the UTI??

Hi @Munchyseeds2 How are you?
Thank you so much but I do hope to meet you one day at my book launch?
I can’t wait to stand in front of my spoon tree and take a picture for you all. Tonsils are feeling ok thank you just hurts when I swallow but I’m sure they will be ok xx

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Munchyseeds2 · 05/11/2024 18:22

Last concert I went to was the Take That reunion at Wembley
Robbie Williams swore...ALOT

I had a big poster of Rod Stewart on my bedroom ceiling when I was about 12. .what was I thinking??😂

Munchyseeds2 · 05/11/2024 18:19

Hello everyone

Such a lot has happened today its taken me a while to catch up!! 😄

Lovely, that's the best news ever....what a difference a week makes!!
Never have I been so happy for someone I will never meet!
You and the spoon will be in there for Christmas, I'm sure... now you take all the help you can get, i I'm sure you will make it 😍

Once you are in, we need pictures!!

Hope the tonsils are feeling better and you sleep REALLY well tonight xxx

@Apolloneuro did you get something sorted for the UTI??

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 18:13

nzeire · 05/11/2024 18:08

Just woken up to this news! Delighted for you babe! This is your place! Thrilled, thrilled for you!!!!

Thank you so much @nzeire that’s so lovely and kind . I can’t believe people are happy and pleased for me. It’s a lovely feeling, thank you xx

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nzeire · 05/11/2024 18:08

Just woken up to this news! Delighted for you babe! This is your place! Thrilled, thrilled for you!!!!

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 18:03

kittylion2 · 05/11/2024 17:56

I can understand why a bear might need wellies - but not slippers (or flipflops)! 😅

There’s even a rubber ring on there for them, I’ve never seen a bear in a pool or paddling pool. Wouldn’t it get wet? And you can even buy crutches for them, I don’t know about you but if I woke up in the middle of the night to see my child’s bear hobbling about on a pair of crutches I’d be pretty scared xx

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kittylion2 · 05/11/2024 17:56

I can understand why a bear might need wellies - but not slippers (or flipflops)! 😅

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 17:48

kittylion2 · 05/11/2024 17:34

why does a bear need slippers? They’ve already got fluffy feet!

😂😂😂

I mean the design department really didn’t think this through when designing these, bears dont have toes so they don’t need open toe slippers!xx

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Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 17:38

Awww that’s so lovely, thank you so much.
I’ve sent all the information they provided this afternoon and I called them to make sure they received it . I did ask again if it meant I was going to get the property as I’m a worrier and she said that I am the only person they are considering and they haven’t asked for any other applicants details so as long as all my documents are ok they would offer me it . So fingers crossed my documents are all ok 🤞I sent proof of identify for me and my children, proof of my old address and my bank statement to show proof of income .
How are you feeling now? Did you manage to get some more antibiotics?xx

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kittylion2 · 05/11/2024 17:34

why does a bear need slippers? They’ve already got fluffy feet!

😂😂😂

Apolloneuro · 05/11/2024 17:19

That news has bloody well made my day. Never have been so pleased for someone I’ve never even met! When are you going to see it?

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 16:50

Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:43

its funny you should say that as my son wanted to go into build a bear last week for the ‘pay your age’ bear, but I said no because of how expensive it ends up being 😂😂

I used to work in house of Fraser many moons ago! Xxx

Some of the clothes are dearer than actual kids clothes and then they want a heart to go in, a voice box and then accessories. I mean why does a bear need slippers? They’ve already got fluffy feet!

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Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:43

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 16:33

Meodowhall has definitely changed. I think it’s gone downhill since Debenhams and House of Fraser has closed. I used to go to House of Fraser when I was skint and ask for foundation samples on each of the make up counters 😂 but I used to love both of them stores and could get loads of my Christmas shopping done there oh and once I went to the Build a bear shop there as you could ‘pay your age’ my son was 6/7 at the time so I thought bargain! It wasn’t a bargain, the clothes and the heart thing they put in cost me £90!xx

its funny you should say that as my son wanted to go into build a bear last week for the ‘pay your age’ bear, but I said no because of how expensive it ends up being 😂😂

I used to work in house of Fraser many moons ago! Xxx

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 16:34

NeedWineNow · 05/11/2024 16:32

@Imbluedalale Oh my lovely, that is absolutely the Best News!! So happy for you. Here's a huge hug from Me x

Awww thank you so much @NeedWineNow and thank you for the huge hug 🤗 xx

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Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 16:33

Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:20

Meadowhall has changed so much in the last few years! I met my friend there for tea last week and I couldn’t believe how different it is! Not my favourite place to frequent and it was heaving last week 😂 I used to work there when I left school.

yes I know where that is, what a lovely area that you are going to be in with lots of amenities on your doorstep too. I’ve not been to lakeside for a while. I used to love ice skating at Doncaster dome when I was younger! Xxx

Meodowhall has definitely changed. I think it’s gone downhill since Debenhams and House of Fraser has closed. I used to go to House of Fraser when I was skint and ask for foundation samples on each of the make up counters 😂 but I used to love both of them stores and could get loads of my Christmas shopping done there oh and once I went to the Build a bear shop there as you could ‘pay your age’ my son was 6/7 at the time so I thought bargain! It wasn’t a bargain, the clothes and the heart thing they put in cost me £90!xx

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NeedWineNow · 05/11/2024 16:32

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 14:08

Not bad news!
So I have just received an email from places for people to say I have been nominated for the house which I put for my 1st choice asking if I’m still interested so I thought I would give them a call. I spoke to the lady who had emailed me and she said I am the ‘only’ person being considered for the property and once I’ve sent my documents across they will arrange a viewing and aslong as I can pay 2 weeks rent up front they will give me the keys there and then! Oh I cannot believe it, I’m shaking!xx

@Imbluedalale Oh my lovely, that is absolutely the Best News!! So happy for you. Here's a huge hug from Me x

Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:20

Meadowhall has changed so much in the last few years! I met my friend there for tea last week and I couldn’t believe how different it is! Not my favourite place to frequent and it was heaving last week 😂 I used to work there when I left school.

yes I know where that is, what a lovely area that you are going to be in with lots of amenities on your doorstep too. I’ve not been to lakeside for a while. I used to love ice skating at Doncaster dome when I was younger! Xxx

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 16:14

Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:07

Your children will be so excited. Is it anywhere near where you are now? I’m not a million miles from you, I’m in Sheffield xxx

Are you really? I know Sheffield well , I was there yesterday at Weston Park hospital and I used to work on Derek Dooley Way. And I used to go to meodowhall a lot lol 😂
It’s called Woodlands Doncaster do you know where the big Tesco and lakeside shopping is?It’s not far from there xx

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Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 16:07

Your children will be so excited. Is it anywhere near where you are now? I’m not a million miles from you, I’m in Sheffield xxx

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 15:51

Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 15:35

This is just the thread that keeps on giving isn’t it? 💕 it’s genuinely the most heartwarming thread I’ve ever read on here ❤️

im absolutely thrilled for you with your house news, what exciting times you have ahead of you and such a turnaround from 10 days ago, it’s incredible xxx

Awww that is so lovely @Giraffe888 thank you so much. Everybody on here is so lovely aren’t they , I’ve met so many amazing people 🥰
It really is incredible news and has made the last 10 days of stress worth it . I can’t wait to have a house key and to cook proper food. I’m not going to tell my children until I know for sure I’ve got it xx

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Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 15:45

AdmittowearingCrocs · 05/11/2024 15:33

Apologies Laura, CT is council tax. If a person isn’t working and claiming benefits you can get council tax benefit. Do be aware that if anyone in the household is working and not studying you will only get a 25% reduction. Just a heads up for when your older children move in.

Oh sorry @AdmittowearingCrocs I should have realised that’s what it meant . Thank you 🙏
My eldest son isn’t going to be living with me just my two youngest and my 17 year old is at college at the moment and hopefully by the time she finishes her course I will be back in work myself xx

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Giraffe888 · 05/11/2024 15:35

This is just the thread that keeps on giving isn’t it? 💕 it’s genuinely the most heartwarming thread I’ve ever read on here ❤️

im absolutely thrilled for you with your house news, what exciting times you have ahead of you and such a turnaround from 10 days ago, it’s incredible xxx

AdmittowearingCrocs · 05/11/2024 15:33

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 14:22

Thank you @AdmittowearingCrocs and you know what I really feel like it is meant for me I’ve just had a feeling since I applied . I’ve never felt that way about any of the properties before . What’s CT benefits? I did go on that entitled to website and it says I can get help towards my rent so I will apply for that once it’s definitely confirmed . Oh I can’t believe it, I can’t believe I might have a home for Christmas xx

Apologies Laura, CT is council tax. If a person isn’t working and claiming benefits you can get council tax benefit. Do be aware that if anyone in the household is working and not studying you will only get a 25% reduction. Just a heads up for when your older children move in.

Imbluedalale · 05/11/2024 15:29

CookiePookie · 05/11/2024 15:00

Oh this is just the BEST news for you! I am beyond excited for you and Spoony. Everything is coming together. What a wild difference from last week; I'm just delighted you may have a home for Christmas. I have an image in my mind of you stepping into a cosy home for that first look around. Beyond exciting! Huge hugs to you!

Thank you @CookiePookie I can finally see light at the end of the tunnel! This time last week I was so upset and beat from everything and I couldn’t see a way out and now I may have a home, my support worker wants to come and see it with me and I think my mental health worker will want to aswell. I want all of you to come and see it with me lol 😂 xx

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