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Child disowned me

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Fireflower201 · 02/11/2024 13:58

My 20 year old has completely disowned me and I’m really struggling with it, there are so many layers to it but she has robbed from me, family and friends, lied manipulated and lots of other stuff whilst growing up, she has committed fraud in my name, refuses to acknowledge any issue with this, and almost made me feel I was making a big issue about it, she has tried to fight me & another family member when I went to check on her cause she refused to come home, that was my final straw, at this point as she’s a adult shall I just walk away forever? I can’t believe all of the hurt shes caused, she won’t get medical help she smokes weed, she is very defiant, she is angry about life and the bad choice I made choosing her father 20 years ago too if that helps, yet wants nothing to do with either of us and wants to instead live with friends

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SensibleSigma · 02/11/2024 13:59

You don’t really have to do anything. You can wait for her to grow up and see what changes. As long as you don’t move house, you don’t have to do anything.

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