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260 replies

KimberleyClark · 02/11/2024 13:22

I’ll start.

That having a one syllable first name and surname is an absolute no no.

OP posts:
Moonshiners · 02/11/2024 16:30

Katemax82 · 02/11/2024 13:39

Dragon butter? It's Welsh butter

Stay naïve. It's definitely for the best.

Itsallgoingtopot · 02/11/2024 16:29

AnnaDelvorkina · 02/11/2024 13:58

What are the fanny tablets, please? I have Trophigil but they’re not great.

Vaginal oestrogen tablets, called Gina. I order them online from Superdrug but you could get them through your gp. The Superdrug doctors review your order. Then they get posted out.

Have helped loads!

ilovesooty · 02/11/2024 16:26

That there are even more thieves and liars around than I thought.

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 16:26

@EmpressOfTheThread Grin I didn't think you'd recognise me on here

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 16:25

tuvamoodyson · 02/11/2024 16:22

That adults find adulting so incredibly difficult.

🙋

tuvamoodyson · 02/11/2024 16:22

That adults find adulting so incredibly difficult.

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 16:19

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 16:10

Show us yer Fanny @Tittat50 🤣

It's the stuff of nightmares Jeffers. I'd be permanently cancelled foh sure.

Scream Omg GIF by I Know What You Did Last Summer
EmpressOfTheThread · 02/11/2024 16:15

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 15:50

You're welcome

Were you the one giving me €300?

wastingtimeonhere · 02/11/2024 16:15

You can report any perceived infringement with the local police and it will be 'logged' for future use.
That there is a 'script' for men, yet I've not found a copy on Amazon yet.
MIL are always, always, evil and NC is all that's acceptable. DIL, of course, is always in the right.
Dogs are hated by the population, and all those stopping me every time I go out to say hello to my dog ate just outliers.

honeylulu · 02/11/2024 16:11

KimberleyClark · 02/11/2024 13:22

I’ll start.

That having a one syllable first name and surname is an absolute no no.

Is it? Why? I've been on mumsnet for around ten years and I hadn't heard this one. In fact many years ago I worked with a lady called Rose James and I thought it was the most elegant, no fuss yet feminine name I'd ever heard.

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 16:10

Show us yer Fanny @Tittat50 🤣

username7891 · 02/11/2024 16:04

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:58

I don't care if you answer your door or not - I don't know you from Adam.
A PP said it could be something important, you asked "Like what?" so I gave an example of something I considered important.
I'm not trying to persuade you to venture to your front door.

That's good to know.

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 15:59

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 15:54

I learned that @Tittat50 loves calling people Fanny washers 😉

I honestly thought it was a common phrase 😬🤣

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:58

username7891 · 02/11/2024 15:55

I don't know my neighbours. I'm not going to let a stranger in because they say they need company. I also live on a terraced street, there are plenty of houses to try in the area. I'm not going to answer every knock on the door in case it's an emergency.

I don't care if you answer your door or not - I don't know you from Adam.
A PP said it could be something important, you asked "Like what?" so I gave an example of something I considered important.
I'm not trying to persuade you to venture to your front door.

InconsideratelyThoughtful · 02/11/2024 15:57

I didn't know there was such a thing as emotional abuse. It was such an eye opener for me, it was what my husband had been doing to me for a long time.

username7891 · 02/11/2024 15:55

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:50

A neighbour came round to us a few years back because she'd come home and found her house had been burgled.
She was by herself, scared and upset, and just wanted to be in company straight away. The nearest company was us, next door, even though we didn't know her that well.
Obviously, we were glad to help.
I know it's hardly a common occurrence, but things do crop up.

I don't know my neighbours. I'm not going to let a stranger in because they say they need company. I also live on a terraced street, there are plenty of houses to try in the area. I'm not going to answer every knock on the door in case it's an emergency.

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 15:54

Fizzadora · 02/11/2024 15:50

What's that supposed to mean?
If you haven't got one to wash, you do know you're not welcome here don't you?

🤣 that did make me lol. I do have one but haven't seen it properly for a while. It's probably overdue a wash. It's a term I think not in common parlance.

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 15:54

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 15:25

That too many fanny washers have access to a keyboard

I learned that @Tittat50 loves calling people Fanny washers 😉

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:52

I found out that "narcissist" or "narc" is the current way to describe anyone you don't like or has annoyed you.

Fizzadora · 02/11/2024 15:51

Bartcla · 02/11/2024 15:14

That so many people are thick enough to let jk Rowling tell them how to think

I found out that JK Rowling thinks the same way as me.

EmpressOfTheThread · 02/11/2024 15:50

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:50

A neighbour came round to us a few years back because she'd come home and found her house had been burgled.
She was by herself, scared and upset, and just wanted to be in company straight away. The nearest company was us, next door, even though we didn't know her that well.
Obviously, we were glad to help.
I know it's hardly a common occurrence, but things do crop up.

I agree. Stuff happens.

JaneJeffer · 02/11/2024 15:50

EmpressOfTheThread · 02/11/2024 15:38

I didn't know that Irish people give massive amounts of money as wedding gifts. They really are very generous.

You're welcome

EmpressOfTheThread · 02/11/2024 15:50

Fizzadora · 02/11/2024 15:47

Many people got furious about this but it turned out to be justified. A neighbour had been breaking in and stealing stuff.

That wasn't the case on the first thread. She called the police not on the basis of theft, breaking and entering, but because "weird stuff" was happening. ie milk and lights
The theft has only been discussed on today's second thread.

Fizzadora · 02/11/2024 15:50

Tittat50 · 02/11/2024 15:25

That too many fanny washers have access to a keyboard

What's that supposed to mean?
If you haven't got one to wash, you do know you're not welcome here don't you?

LaMarschallin · 02/11/2024 15:50

username7891 · 02/11/2024 15:43

Like what?

A neighbour came round to us a few years back because she'd come home and found her house had been burgled.
She was by herself, scared and upset, and just wanted to be in company straight away. The nearest company was us, next door, even though we didn't know her that well.
Obviously, we were glad to help.
I know it's hardly a common occurrence, but things do crop up.