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How the heck does my DD get a part time job?

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Teentrauma · 02/11/2024 11:24

Inspired by another thread where someone's DH was struggling.

My DD18 has been searching for MONTHS for a part time job while she studies. Is flexible what she does - cafes, shops etc. She receives Indeed alerts and has applied for dozens of jobs on there but never gets past the first stage. Similarly, she applies direct when she hears a company is recruiting such as Asda, Next etc. Same thing. Usually, there's some long online assessment which she never gets past. I've sat and done some with her (it's usually a choice of different responses to a work situation and you have to say which you think is most correct). No idea what we're doing wrong. In addition she's trawled the local high streets with her cv, I've done a lot of asking round myself too but drawn a blank.

She's so despondent (and skint!) and just wants a job. She has decent GCSE grades but a very thin CV, due to being 18 and never worked (apart from a week's work experience in my office for which my boss has given her a reference). Fingers crossed she's got some volunteering in a charity shop, so at least she can put retail experience on her cv but even that has involved a long winded on line recruitment/vetting process (which kept crashing 🙈).

Is she doing something wrong or is she just unlucky?

OP posts:
GFB · 02/11/2024 11:55

Coming up to Christmas Royal Mail will have temp roles available if that's something she would be interested in.
A has done it previously and really enjoyed it.
Only temporary but gets some experience on the CV

BlackToes · 02/11/2024 11:52

Best off going into shops and talking to the manager to ask about vacancies.

Voluntary work will pad her cv out. Maybe she could volunteer in something related to her studies.

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KittenOnTheTable · 02/11/2024 11:51

My dd 14 just got a job in a chippy. Just went in and asked did 3 trail shifts and they was happy. She used to do a paper round.

Maray1967 · 02/11/2024 11:48

With DS1 I set with him doing the Tesco online questions. We failed. What the hell? They were very obvious customer services ones. What I learned not long after which then got him a job the next Christmas is that you need a current staff members name and employment number - ie a recommendation. Once we had that (his friend) he was in straightaway. Is there anyone you know works in a supermarket or whose teen works there?

Brananan · 02/11/2024 11:48

I sympathise OP. I really thought my 18 year old would walk into a part time job in her gap year but it took 4 months! My older dds found jobs easily. She's got a job in a restaurant now thank god.

NanFlanders · 02/11/2024 11:46

My DD had the same - literally hundreds of online applications. Then she went round lots of independent restaurant, bars and cafes with a CV, and got an offer in a couple.of days
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cossette · 02/11/2024 11:46

Both my children (now 19 and 23) got part time jobs by 'specialising' a bit. My daughter had loads of experience working with young kids as she had helped out at her dance school from being 14 so got a job as a weekend party host at a soft play. My son did a lifeguarding qualification when he was 16 and has worked in that role ever since. My advice would be to get some type of experience/qualification so they have something more to offer. My son also looked at a barbering course as there is a demand for this. Doing this also helps them get a better wage. My daughter's experience working with kids also meant she got a job coaching kids football whilst at uni where she became head coach and earned £17 an hour - not bad for a part-time uni job!

FuzzyGoblin · 02/11/2024 11:44

I think she would do well to go round local pubs and cafes but remember that from end of August onwards she is likely to be competing with uni students (assuming you live anywhere near a university).

It’s possible that how you are answering the multiple choice options isn’t giving the answers the employer is looking for so I would leave her to answer them herself.

Is she at college? Is there a careers advisor or similar that she can speak to to get some feedback as well?

Neveragain35 · 02/11/2024 11:42

I found out about a job vacancy in a cafe through the local Facebook page. DD went down there straight away and got a trial shift. Agree, small independent cafes/pubs etc are probably easier to find.

Anisty · 02/11/2024 11:39

It is an absolute nightmare trying to get in via online things. My dd gave up on our local Sainsbury a while ago.

I actually found her 2 jobs by cafe chit chat! First one caff that unfortunately closed down about a month after she started.

And then another she just popped her name and phone number down and they did call on her after a few weeks. She has been there 6 months now.

Try the old fashioned way of going in and leaving contact details. If they are very pushed, they might just call!

GRex · 02/11/2024 11:37

It's impossible to say why she's failing, but you could ask an HR department to supply feedback on why her application didn't progress, they aren't obliged to teply but someone might. The issue could be anything:

  • Is she asking for a job requesting specific hours up-front in a way that might be off-putting?
  • Is she dressed presentably or does she have anything unusual in her presented appearance?
  • Can she speak articulately?
  • Do the jobs request experience?

Has she tried going into shops or cafes that have a sign up and applying directly? Round here there are signs in a few pubs restaurants and shops that are all privately owned so I would expect them to give someone a chance.

Standin · 02/11/2024 11:27

Mine found jobs by going in, especially to the independents and asking, whilst leaving a CV.
Independents are much less likely to have the formal processes you have mentioned.

Where is she? City?