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To think that shouldn’t be allowed to abuse benefits?

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candiecorn · 01/11/2024 22:06

I’m slightly annoyed about this one…

I worked with a man, he is around 52-54 years old. He always looked down at us, his colleagues, and made it clear that the job meant nothing to him.

he quit a couple of years ago to pursue his career in creative writing… I haven’t read anything from him, so not quite suee how good he is but he has definitely not been picked up by a publisher.

he lives in a rather nice area, rent free in a friend’s holiday home… he is very proud of this… and initially would make it sound like that it’s his place.

So I recently found out that he is on benefits… he is a fully capable, fit, young middle aged man with no family or children.

I think it’s a bit much that he is fully capable of working, yet he doesn’t … it’s a tough market but still, so something at least part time. Benefits are not there for fully capable middle aged man to live his dreams to become a writer…

I wish him the best, I hope he will succeed one day and probably would cut him more slack, had he not been so full of himself and looking down at everyone else…

I feel like it’s abusing the system though. There are people out there who do actually need help but imagine if we all did this 🫨

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MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 01/11/2024 22:09

What would he be entitled to? The UC for a single man is very little £393 a month, he wouldn't be entitled to housing element as he pays no rent. So unless there is a disability or health condition which would attract PIP. I don't see how he would be living on that.

ETA and he'd be expected to job search 35 hours for that