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To think in ten years all these huge veneers and huge lips will be seriously dated?

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ToriMJ · 01/11/2024 21:08

Eek, watching tv these days it's a sea of huge symmetrical bright white veneers.
So many of them look like they have got a teeth guard in when they are sucking on them.
Most of them just look really terrible and I dread to think what their long term teeth issues will be.
Add in the huge lips and filler faces and really it's a bit black mirror with all these faces looking the same. I know the lip filler can be dissolved but is that the same for all over the face? Will people be able to go back to how they were before once the filler blindness passes?
I've been watching old movies and the difference with natural teeth is quite something, it changes the natural shape of your face and everyone looks more individual .
Aibu or will it all look so dated in ten years and all these huge horsey veneers go out of fashion?
Or am I just getting old Grin

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LifeisNOTlikeemmerdalefarm · 10/11/2024 10:26

On holiday at the moment.
Got talking to a lovely young lady. Early 30's.

Fake hair, teeth,breasts and lips.
She was open about these things and said if there was anything to make her taller she would do it.

Yes she looks fantastic but I wonder what she will look like in a few years time.

Pumpkincozynights · 10/11/2024 10:01

I agree that French and Italian women, and definitely men, are on the whole so much more stylish than British women. Far more natural hair colour, not all the fake bleached hair with black roots. Hardly anyone walking around in tracksuits/leggings supporting the caked on makeup and huge duck lips look.
The men wore shirts and shoes, not those revolting tracksuits and grubby trainers.

ShutTFUp · 08/11/2024 14:24

An ugly outlook is an ugly outlook – but can be changed!

How crass going on and on about other people’s ‘ugly noses’!

Gummybear23 · 07/11/2024 18:09

Bignanna · 07/11/2024 14:24

It’s up to them- if they’re happy with their nose-fine! An ugly nose is an ugly nose, no matter what race or ethnicity, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say!

Turn your gaze away from our big noses.

They are natural and beautiful to us.
Thank you

u3ername · 07/11/2024 14:42

An ugly nose is an ugly nose, no matter what race or ethnicity,

So it's objective fact.

but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say!

Oh, wait. You are saying it's subjective?

A human organism is such a complicated thing, with so many physiological actions happening at micro level in every second for it to be living and healthy. All noses do the same job - unless unhealthy.
May be focusing on the miracle of that complexity next time and challenging ourselves to think that the bulbous ugly nose just is. Neither ugly nor beautiful. Most of beauty is just a social construct after all.

We live for such a short time. We don't want some of us to feel unhappy and judged all their lives because they have a perfectly good nose, that they did not pick, and which society has randomly labelled as ugly.
I do hope you are happy with the nose that your genes determined for you @Bignanna

Bignanna · 07/11/2024 14:24

u3ername · 07/11/2024 09:45

@Bignanna
Agree, Princess Diana was an example of this, but if it’s bulbous it’s definitely not a good look!

Features of your face will differ according to your heritage. Have you decided only people of certain race/ethnicity have the right looking nose?

It’s up to them- if they’re happy with their nose-fine! An ugly nose is an ugly nose, no matter what race or ethnicity, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say!

u3ername · 07/11/2024 09:45

@Bignanna
Agree, Princess Diana was an example of this, but if it’s bulbous it’s definitely not a good look!

Features of your face will differ according to your heritage. Have you decided only people of certain race/ethnicity have the right looking nose?

RampantIvy · 06/11/2024 23:42

ErrolTheDragon · 06/11/2024 23:03

As a mother of a now adult daughter, I can absolutely guarantee that as your daughter grows up she will be influenced in how she should look by people who have nothing to do with her. She will see popstars, models, celebrities, people in the street, all of whom she doesn't know, and will want to wear clothes like them or have a hairstyle like them. You're being naive if you think she won't.

Fortunately, you can't guarantee that because fortunately in the real world most girls and young women aren't obsessed with emulating 'slebs'.

I agree. DD is not interested in emulating anyone else. Also with her medical background she has no intention of doing so.

FatFemale · 06/11/2024 23:23

Its the pillow face, shiney forehead, fake eyelashes, trout pout, massive eye brows, bright white fake teeth too big for the mouth most look like a horse. It looks laughable now. Its definitely something we will look back on and take the piss out of!

grow old gracefully. Be individual ✌️

ErrolTheDragon · 06/11/2024 23:03

As a mother of a now adult daughter, I can absolutely guarantee that as your daughter grows up she will be influenced in how she should look by people who have nothing to do with her. She will see popstars, models, celebrities, people in the street, all of whom she doesn't know, and will want to wear clothes like them or have a hairstyle like them. You're being naive if you think she won't.

Fortunately, you can't guarantee that because fortunately in the real world most girls and young women aren't obsessed with emulating 'slebs'.

Gummybear23 · 06/11/2024 22:30

Bignanna · 06/11/2024 22:13

Agree, Princess Diana was an example of this, but if it’s bulbous it’s definitely not a good look!

If the owner of the big nose( bulbous or not) has no issue with it then two fingers to the person who has an issue with it.
Be proud of your face and don't change because others think it is 'not a good look.'
They can cast their gaze eyes elsewhere if it offends them.

Bignanna · 06/11/2024 22:13

ShutTFUp · 06/11/2024 20:25

Agree! I think some of the most beautiful people have a prominent nose and striking profile. It’s a cool look.

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Agree, Princess Diana was an example of this, but if it’s bulbous it’s definitely not a good look!

ShutTFUp · 06/11/2024 20:25

Gummybear23 · 06/11/2024 19:47

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Nowt wrong with a big nose.

Agree! I think some of the most beautiful people have a prominent nose and striking profile. It’s a cool look.

Gummybear23 · 06/11/2024 19:47

Bignanna · 06/11/2024 14:17

Depends if you’re happy with your big nose!

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Nowt wrong with a big nose.

Bignanna · 06/11/2024 14:17

lavenderlou · 04/11/2024 21:13

So the whole thread pretty much agrees that people look better with their natural features and should stop messing with their appearance, but that doesn't apply if you have a naturally big nose? In that case, your natural features are ugly and you should have to pay to get it fixed? (Spoken as someone who did inherit their Dad's enormous hooter.)

Depends if you’re happy with your big nose!

Gifgaf · 05/11/2024 15:05

The issue is that people are overdoing it and it looks really bad! Less is better always

JudgeJ · 05/11/2024 15:04

She got really ill, and the NHS did wind up having to foot the bill for the repair.

The NHS should not have to deal with the results of cosmetic procedures not done on the NHS, by doing so they are propping up the rogue practitioners. If someone can find the funds to have the work done then they should also pay for their 'aftercare'.

Stealthsewist · 05/11/2024 14:59

cuupe · 04/11/2024 22:09

It's very gauche to call yourself hot mate.

I disagree. I think recognising your own beauty and celebrating it vocally is an act of radical rebellion in a world which makes money from telling women they’re ugly and flawed and need to fix their bodies.

JudgeJ · 05/11/2024 14:55

ISeriouslyDoubtIt · 02/11/2024 22:04

It's an area with cheap housing and I suppose they prioritise spending on what they look like over everything else, presumably they spend a high proportion of their income on these treatments.

And they then moan about the cost of living!

BetterInColour · 05/11/2024 01:08

@AllTheChaos Invisalign are still quite painful early on and very intrusive in terms of feeling them in your mouth all the time. I would not say they represent a good alternative for people with very sensitive mouths/issues with this, you also have to have the 'pegs' which hook on the invsalign braces cemented onto your teeth, similar to normal braces, as that's how they move the teeth over time.

I'm just letting you know that as I hated my invisalign braces the first two days and thought I would never be able to tolerate them, I couldn't believe how awful they were when they looked quite comfy! I did stick with the treatment and I'm very happy with the result, but someone with sensory issues might not be able to tolerate them at all.

cuupe · 04/11/2024 22:09

It's very gauche to call yourself hot mate.

Simonjt · 04/11/2024 21:30

Bignanna · 03/11/2024 16:39

Unless you have inherited your Dad’s enormous hooter, or have a mouthful of crooked teeth, then some intervention is welcome and necessary!

The NHS provide braces where the placement of teeth means oral hygiene or eating is compromised.

And I love my Asian nose, it suits my face and I think I look pretty hot.

lavenderlou · 04/11/2024 21:13

Bignanna · 03/11/2024 16:39

Unless you have inherited your Dad’s enormous hooter, or have a mouthful of crooked teeth, then some intervention is welcome and necessary!

So the whole thread pretty much agrees that people look better with their natural features and should stop messing with their appearance, but that doesn't apply if you have a naturally big nose? In that case, your natural features are ugly and you should have to pay to get it fixed? (Spoken as someone who did inherit their Dad's enormous hooter.)

Gummybear23 · 04/11/2024 18:20

They all look related.