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OH v annoyed at

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JintyMcG1422 · 01/11/2024 20:45

OHraging at me for being late home for dog. Out with my bestie, first time in a year, got carried away with the vino. Got home 2 hrs later than anticipated l I never do this and we’ve been together for 20 years. He’s doing my nut in, no harm done IMO. I’m upset because I had this carry on with my ex. I thought I’d moved on.

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Pandasnacks · 01/11/2024 21:37

Is there a back story? Did you know the dog was at home?

Changingplace · 01/11/2024 21:33

Did the dog really have an accident? Is it a puppy? Or elderly? See,s strange if one walk happened

Really good point, if the dog had been out with the dog walker is it likely to have had an accident? Or is he trying to find another thing so he can make you feel guilty for having a rare trip out?

haje · 01/11/2024 21:28

Did the dog really have an accident? Is it a puppy? Or elderly? See,s strange if one walk happened.

We had an accident one day and dogs were left 12 hours. Not ideal but just pleased we were home.

He is totally being awful and with your relationship history this is a huge red flag.

Changingplace · 01/11/2024 21:20

If the dog was dropped off early how were you to know? Hes being ridiculous, dogs have wee accidents occasionally it’s not the end of the world!

Sounds more like he was looking for a reason to sulk about you going out.

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JintyMcG1422 · 01/11/2024 21:17

Gemmawemma9 · 01/11/2024 20:46

Was the dog ok? Surely 2 hours is neither here nor there. Where was your husband while you were out?
he’s being an arse and making a mountain out of a molehill.

He was at work. Dog was dropped off by dog walker early than I expected. I am with dog 24/7 normally. I am retired but OH still work He had a wee accident which had to be cleared up by OH. I feel awful but peed off that I can’t have one bloomin afternoon off in 10 years. I am always looking after dog. I can’t do anything without considering his welfare which I don’t mind at all.

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TTPDTS · 01/11/2024 20:51

I mean, if you were 2 hours late home with zero communication + needed to be home for something - not a great look. I'd be side eyeing DH for that.

Comparing the situation to your past situations with your ex sounds a bit much if it's a one off - especially if you've been with your current partner for 20 years!!

BadgersOfHonour · 01/11/2024 20:48

How long was the dog left for?

Stormyweatheroutthere · 01/11/2024 20:47

Was the ddog mad though?

Gemmawemma9 · 01/11/2024 20:46

Was the dog ok? Surely 2 hours is neither here nor there. Where was your husband while you were out?
he’s being an arse and making a mountain out of a molehill.

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