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To be embarrassed to walk into the Job Centre?

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DenimFawn · 01/11/2024 17:23

I’ve been looking for work and need to visit the Job Centre, but I can’t shake this feeling of embarrassment about it. I know it’s a place meant to help people, but it still feels daunting. AIBU, or do others feel the same way? How do you cope with those feelings?

OP posts:
Motheranddaughter · 01/11/2024 17:37

YABU to expect the staff to help you
But try not to be ashamed /embarassed

HalloweenHaribo · 01/11/2024 17:37

Who's going to see you anyway, apart from the people already in there?

Coolbreezee · 01/11/2024 17:34

Sorry for typos 😅

Coolbreezee · 01/11/2024 17:32

I know it this won't help much, but seriously don't be embarrassed. The people who judge you for it would do better to focus on themselves because it can happen to anyone. I went to a job centre once, looking for full time work. Their only suggestion was a lollipop lady. I was so frustrated. On the walk home I saw a job ad in the window of a pharmacy. I wasn't qualified but went in and asked and got the job pretty much on the spot. I'm only sharing that story because it shows how quickly things can change. One minute you're riding high, the next you are in the job centre. But equally one you could land a job the same day. Just think, you might stumble upon a great opportunity. Best of luck with your job search. Stay positive

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