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That ship has sailed

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Grooveisintheheartbaby · 31/10/2024 21:23

My company want us back to the office 5 days a week. As far as I and colleagues are concerned that ship has sailed and we will not be coming back we will leave. AIBU to think that businesses need to accept that things changed in covid forever and they can't reverse it without massive disrest and unhappiness?

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Notaurewhy · 01/11/2024 03:30

How often is your doorbell ringing? And to be fair the telly does not call me, because I'm working.

I don't get the push for in office working when companies have downsized their infrastructure of offices, investment in real time office working lead by management which is improbable due to the fact they also benefited from the distribution of network talent they did not have previously, e.g recruiting outside of a lower paid salary geography because it didn't matter. Hence noone is in the same location anyway and it just seems to be pockets of people on calls next to each other who literally lose travel time to the office, morale of being in the office with a few other colleagues on calls. None of these people are ones who "try" and look after their children in the working day at home. It's other people who have sailed that ship because when you are at work be it in the home or office you cannot look after young children whilst doing your work. It's very simple and for some of us obvious. You need someone else to care for you child when you are working, regardless of location.

PurebredRacingUnicorn · 01/11/2024 03:17

marmamumma · 01/11/2024 02:44

The crying baby is a bit annoying when you are trying to discuss intricate details of a mortgage on the phone but can barely hear over the "shoosh now here's your bottle" I must agree.

That is annoying, but the problem isn't people working from home, it happens because some people work from home without proper child care arrangements.

marmamumma · 01/11/2024 02:44

The crying baby is a bit annoying when you are trying to discuss intricate details of a mortgage on the phone but can barely hear over the "shoosh now here's your bottle" I must agree.

iamtheblcksheep · 01/11/2024 02:31

Good. I don’t want to listen to your screaming kids, barking dog or washing machine when I call you.

I think most are reluctant to return to work because they have given up their after school child care. If your kids are in the house and you’re the only adult there you aren’t working

Pussygaloregalapagos · 01/11/2024 02:15

Sounds a pretty effective way of reducing their workforce without javeinc to pay redundancies.

Awishcometrue · 01/11/2024 02:13

Coolasfeck · 31/10/2024 22:11

Everytime I see threads like these, there are loads of people saying they are more productive at home. However, productivity levels in much of the country are in the toilet so this can’t be true for most people.

Unfortunately many people are taking the piss working from home. We’ve all seen the ones who seem to be constantly orange on Teams.

My organisation is actively clamping down on people being in 40% because a sizable percentage can’t even be trusted to do that. I think if high non compliance persists, they will start forcing a 3 day in office rule. I’m fine with this as it’s still better than having to be in 5 days a week like before, but it’s ridiculous that many staff can’t be trusted to do their jobs properly at home.

Totally agree 👍

FishOnTheTrain · 01/11/2024 02:12

5 days a week (supposing you do some kind of office/computer based role) is absolutely ridiculous. Wfh is best for balance and mental health. I get work is important but nothing proceeds your actual life. I think the only good thing that came from the pandemic was more work life balance.

as humans, we aren’t meant to be working so much. We need more time back. I’m sorry to those that have to be in 5 days a week and I hope one day we move to a 4 day work week.

honestasever · 01/11/2024 01:53

We’re attempting to get back into the office for a minimum of 3 days a week. The excuses are pathetic!

People just don’t think ahead. They didn’t WFH pre-Covid so why the hell have they decided to move away during it,
See also
‘ I have a dog now ‘
‘ I sold my car ‘
‘ I go to gym class at lunchtime ‘

FootbalIslife · 01/11/2024 01:38

I’ve seen both sides of this as an employee and a business owner… what I would say it’s an employers market at the moment, and even amazing people I know are taking 6 months- a year to find work in exec roles. So don’t be too hasty… lots of companies are expecting more office time now.

Garlicbest · 01/11/2024 01:26

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It's a timeline 🙄 National lockdown started on 26th March 2020, people were taking about three weeks to die; you can easily see the fall in mortality. It saved tens of thousands of lives.

It also started WFH!

Twototwo15 · 01/11/2024 01:21

Why did things change in covid forever? I wish people would stop using it as an excuse for all kinds of shoddy, poor service now.

TofuTart · 01/11/2024 01:09

mitogoshigg · 01/11/2024 00:51

@Bewareofthisonetoo Hear hear!

I'm personally fed up calling a helpline and struggling to hear because of the washing machine/dog barking/todder crying

I noticed this a while ago when I had to ring up somewhere.
The person on the other end was lovely and helpful, don't get me wrong, but had to apologise for the cat. 😕
I don't want a call handler to be distracted by their furballs, wouldn't happen in an office!

TofuTart · 01/11/2024 01:06

I seem to be in the minority, but if I'm at work I want to be at work, not "at work but at home!"
I want a clear boundary between the two.
Too easy to get distracted by ringing doorbells, the telly calling me etc 😁

cocoloco23 · 01/11/2024 00:57

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway

“it's ludicrous to suggest that everyone should be allowed to work from home all the time.”

Genuinely: why is this ludicrous?

TwoNinetyNine · 01/11/2024 00:51

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mitogoshigg · 01/11/2024 00:51

@Bewareofthisonetoo Hear hear!

I'm personally fed up calling a helpline and struggling to hear because of the washing machine/dog barking/todder crying

Garlicbest · 01/11/2024 00:48

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Going to pick you up on that there - not the fridge/wine raiding, but the effect of lockdown on UK deaths.

That ship has sailed
mitogoshigg · 01/11/2024 00:47

Work from home doesn't work for many businesses because people abuse it and crucially it affects interactions between staff etc. if it's not working for them then they have every right to ask everyone to come back in, that ship hasn't sailed.

If you don't like it leave

HarrisObviously · 01/11/2024 00:44

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 21:39

What is "disrest"?

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Shorthand for dissent and unrest?

HarrisObviously · 01/11/2024 00:42

LordEmsworth · 31/10/2024 21:24

Are you under the impression that they give a shit about disrest and unhappiness? They won't mind if you all leave...

Well it will cost the employers to recruit and train new staff, plus the disruption.

coxesorangepippin · 01/11/2024 00:30

Yanbu

But really, if they insist you return, you have to

Or find another job

Blaggoshpereish · 01/11/2024 00:29

People who need jobs will replace those who leave.
The new people might bring new ideas, & higher productivity
and be less angry.

Bewareofthisonetoo · 01/11/2024 00:27

Organisations have become much less productive - the reason we hsve to wait months foran (unhelpful) reply from the Teachers Pension Scheme/hang on endlessly for utility companies etc is because they are all taking the piss walking the dog.

Idontpostmuch · 01/11/2024 00:17

TheShellBeach · 31/10/2024 21:39

What is "disrest"?

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@TheShellBeach I was wondering the same thing. Sounds like a cross between unrest and distress.

silentwallflower · 01/11/2024 00:17

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 01/11/2024 00:12

It will probably be a productivity thing. We've been monitoring productivity over the past year or so, and it's very clear from the data that we have collected that our staff are consistently more productive on the days when they're in the office. We have decided to stick with hybrid working for the time being in spite of this, because there are other benefits in terms of staff retention etc. But we retain the hybrid model knowing that the price of that flexibility is a loss in the amount of work that gets done.

But most studies show you have a workforce and give them a 4 day week for the same pay and they become MORE productive OVERALL.

So the data my firm found overall people were more productive overall having flexible working and literally happier, with less staff turnover.

www.forbes.com/sites/danpontefract/2024/09/11/why-the-4-day-workweek-delivers-more-by-doing-less/#:~:text=Supporting%20Barnes'%20approach%2C%20a%202021,lead%20to%20exceptional%20results%E2%80%8B.

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