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Original poster

To find it annoying and entitled when men start demanding photos?

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Lyannaa · 31/10/2024 18:50

It pisses me off when someone starts chatting to you and they demand photos in an entitled way. You know they're probably also talking to 100 other women which I don't particularly care about but I also don't feel particularly invested to send them a whole bunch of photos of me in different situations when I will probably never meet them.

I'm always happy to do FaceTimes if people genuinely want to check I exist. But I don't feel like giving them to-order photos. AIBU?

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Original poster
Lyannaa · 31/10/2024 18:53

But a video call is easier to establish that, I think.

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BirthdayRainbow · 31/10/2024 18:52

YANBU but it is normal to want to know quite quickly what both people look like as there has to be an attraction, limited wasted time then. Sadly some people are just on looks and won't meet so miss out on the chance of genuine chemistry.

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