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It's only 3pm and the doors already knocking

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Sillysausage76 · 31/10/2024 15:07

It's 3pm and already we've had people trick n treating. I've now brought pumpkins inside until 5ish. Anyone else?

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RayeCyst · 31/10/2024 19:11

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Modranihtandtomtens · 31/10/2024 19:09

WickedGoodDoge · 31/10/2024 19:04

I’m dressed up as a witch and just answered the door to a (approx) 7 year old ninja turtle who took one look at me and announced “You’re not even scary!” 😂😂😂

😂😂😂 noone has commented on my Skeleton costume yet!

I keep freaking them out by knocking on the door before I open it. Have had a few shrieks!

RangerDanger · 31/10/2024 19:08

I put a pumpkin in the window and bought a few multipacks of Haribo. Was surprised to find they all went in about twenty minutes. Never had that many before. Apparently there's not many houses decorated this year.

I really wanted to not be miserable. The door sets the dog off and our toddler is asleep, but I wanted to be part of it and do something fun for the kids on the street. Just didn't end up feeling it. Most kids were nice but the ones without manners just put me in a bad mood.

Grabbing handfuls of sweets. Really loud and prolonged knocking at the door. Screaming outside. The "trick or treat, smell my feet" song which (perhaps irrationally) annoys me. Like I said, most of them are nice but I do find it hard not to be irritated. Alas, next year I'll buy a lot more sweets and hand the kids one instead of offering the bowl.

NoisyDenimShaker · 31/10/2024 19:07

VegTrug · 31/10/2024 16:52

@VeterinaryCareAssistant It's always half term on Halloween.
Grinches refers to Christmas

Also, some of us work from home! Why should I have to get up countless times just because kids can’t be bothered to consider other people! Not everyone is sat at home day in day out, doing nothing

😂😂😂😂 So grumpy it's funny!

Ellsx6 · 31/10/2024 19:07

We had a couple of toddlers come at around 5 for their first Halloween (I always get Freddos as an option for the baby's) then from about half 5 non stop kids..we've gone through 4 huge multipacks so far. A lot more than last year! We do live in a very nice community area and most houses take part. I really love it!

Funkyslippers · 31/10/2024 19:07

TheSnugHare · 31/10/2024 19:03

I only went trick or treating a few times when I was a child. But now that I think about it, why is trick or treating even a thing? Who thought of it and what’s the point? I’ve always thought you can just go and get whatever sweets you want at the shop. Too much sugar is bad for kids. I’m not some kind of grinch, but it’s sad that Halloween traditions have been lost and it’s all been turned into a meaningless thing for children.

Not just for kids, I always enjoyed taking my dds out & I like giving out treats now. And a few sugary treats isn't going to harm them. They don't need to eat them all in one go

Hazeby · 31/10/2024 19:06

Bloody hell, it’s not difficult.

If you want to partake, put a pumpkin out and give the sweets to whoever knocks.

If you don’t, don’t put anything out and don’t answer the door.

It really doesn’t need to be more complicated than that.

DopeyS · 31/10/2024 19:05

Sillysausage76 · 31/10/2024 15:14

Cause I can't put up with the dog going mad, these kids weren't tiny. I'll put um back out in a hour.

Had to read that twice. I thought you had kidnapped the children 😂. Thought you were going to put them back out in an hour!

Funkyslippers · 31/10/2024 19:05

NippyCrab · 31/10/2024 18:56

I'm a meanie! I don't have kids and I don't want random children knocking on my door. The dogs go bananas. Why let your kids knock on random strangers doors, just go to friends, family and neighbours who join in.
What's the bah humbug equivalent of Halloween? That's me!

There is no harm in knocking on strangers' doors if the house is decorated. What do you think is going to happen? And please don't say anything about how kids should be wary of strangers

WickedGoodDoge · 31/10/2024 19:04

I’m dressed up as a witch and just answered the door to a (approx) 7 year old ninja turtle who took one look at me and announced “You’re not even scary!” 😂😂😂

TheSnugHare · 31/10/2024 19:03

I only went trick or treating a few times when I was a child. But now that I think about it, why is trick or treating even a thing? Who thought of it and what’s the point? I’ve always thought you can just go and get whatever sweets you want at the shop. Too much sugar is bad for kids. I’m not some kind of grinch, but it’s sad that Halloween traditions have been lost and it’s all been turned into a meaningless thing for children.

Modranihtandtomtens · 31/10/2024 19:02

evtheria · 31/10/2024 19:01

Last year a girl hung about after I gave her a sweet, then said “what happens if I ask you for a trick?” 🤣 I explained that actually it was her who had to offer a trick or joke and she shrieked, running away saying “but I don’t know any!!!”

😂 I've had a joke, a cartwheel, a very elaborate spell put on me and a dance routine! Pretty impressed.

Still have sweets left though

Octoberdreaming · 31/10/2024 19:02

DBD1975 · 31/10/2024 15:56

Brilliant can't wait for it to start, the more the merrier!

This is my mantra too. It’s great fun! I’ve been set up since 4pm.
I’m a bit disappointed that I’ve hardly had anyone yet. Got my little ghoul projection in the front window, big caldron full of sweets and chocolate and I’ve only had a couple 😔
My kid went out trick or treating with uncle earlier they did 4.30-5.30pm

evtheria · 31/10/2024 19:01

Auburngal · 31/10/2024 18:58

@Zimunya my friends said “trick” and kids look at them looking bemused. A kid said “what’s a treat?” Well you asked trick, didn’t you?

Why go trick or treating when kids don’t have a trick or two?

Last year a girl hung about after I gave her a sweet, then said “what happens if I ask you for a trick?” 🤣 I explained that actually it was her who had to offer a trick or joke and she shrieked, running away saying “but I don’t know any!!!”

Zimunya · 31/10/2024 18:58

VivianLea · 31/10/2024 18:54

In Scotland, kids have to prepare a joke, riddle or "turn" that they do before getting their sweets. I don't know if trick - as in, perform a trick - is related to this, but it is nice to have that extra bit of interaction. And it doesn't have the nasty scary trick element that way. We now live in England but still have a joke prepared in case someone ever asks us for a trick!

Love this!

MontevideoTrip · 31/10/2024 18:58

We had a huge surge at around 5.30-6.00 and no one since!!! Starting to eat the sweets myself!

Auburngal · 31/10/2024 18:58

@Zimunya my friends said “trick” and kids look at them looking bemused. A kid said “what’s a treat?” Well you asked trick, didn’t you?

Why go trick or treating when kids don’t have a trick or two?

Ladyofthetramp · 31/10/2024 18:57

We had our first one last night-weve lived here for about 8 years and never had one

He knocked at about half 5pm

However,this morning they where knocking at half 8am

I thought it was the postman

I love trick or treaters but 8:30 am is a tad early

Thankfully I was up as dp woke me up to tell me how ill is was and how sorry he felt for himself (at 6:50am!I wanted to throttle him,as once im awake,im up)

BarbaraHoward · 31/10/2024 18:57

NippyCrab · 31/10/2024 18:56

I'm a meanie! I don't have kids and I don't want random children knocking on my door. The dogs go bananas. Why let your kids knock on random strangers doors, just go to friends, family and neighbours who join in.
What's the bah humbug equivalent of Halloween? That's me!

Boo humbug.

evtheria · 31/10/2024 18:57

There were fewer houses around us celebrating this year, but the ones we visited went all out on decorations and there was usually someone at the door (mostly older people).
5⭐to whoever did a full on Nightmare Before Christmas scene in their front yard, complete with Oogie Boogie, and a begrudging wave of admiration for the one house who proudly displayed a fully decorated Christmas tree in their window, with matching wreath on the door (needless to say, we did not knock, but next year we shall practice our carols and call their bluff).

I did see more teenagers in full costumes knocking on doors, and the only negative was a group of young boys (11-13?) who seemed to be out on their own on their bikes, with zero dressing up (unless they're cosplaying how not to be seen by traffic at night), and plastic bags full of treats.

BarbaraHoward · 31/10/2024 18:57

Laptoppie · 31/10/2024 18:25

I think that the commercialization ie all of the novelty foods, ridiculous amounts of tat and decorations is fairly Americanised, trick or treating has been going for ages here though.

Everything is more commercialised these days. We can't blame the Americans for that given we go along with it so readily.

If you think about Christmas, I bet the Christmas you celebrate has similar rites at its core to the one your grandparents celebrated (presents, a roast, possibly church, nativity at school etc) but there will be much more stuff. It's the same for many of us with Halloween.

Besides, autumn and back to school and the dark nights can be quite a miserable time of year. It's nice that we're embracing the cosiness more these days.

NippyCrab · 31/10/2024 18:56

I'm a meanie! I don't have kids and I don't want random children knocking on my door. The dogs go bananas. Why let your kids knock on random strangers doors, just go to friends, family and neighbours who join in.
What's the bah humbug equivalent of Halloween? That's me!

nonevernotever · 31/10/2024 18:55

oakleaffy · 31/10/2024 16:31

I didn't realise that Hallowe'en is actually IRISH.
It was an American who was very into Halloween who told me.

As a kid, pumpkins weren't available back in 1970's , so Turnips were carved- The American said this is exactly what the Irish did, back in the days of yore.

Edited

And Scottish.

Squeeeeek · 31/10/2024 18:55

wiesowarum · 31/10/2024 15:34

Agree.
I don't understand the thought process behind this at all.

This pisses me off. We live in a street where there’s a few kids but for some reason hordes drive to our street from out of the village (they drop them off from cars at the entrance). I’ve given out 80 sweet bags tonight and they are still coming. We don’t have that many kids in our street of 100 houses!

florasl · 31/10/2024 18:55

I genuinely can’t understand people getting annoyed about children living rurally going to village estates to trick or treat.

When we lived on an estate I used to buy two 5kg tubs from Costco for all the children who travelled from all over the city. Now we live rurally we go to the nearest estate. It’s a shame we don’t get many trick or treaters but we used to love getting hundreds of children and seeing all the costumes.