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It's only 3pm and the doors already knocking

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Sillysausage76 · 31/10/2024 15:07

It's 3pm and already we've had people trick n treating. I've now brought pumpkins inside until 5ish. Anyone else?

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Wellingtonspie · 31/10/2024 15:57

Skodacool · 31/10/2024 15:54

Maybe some people prefer not to be out in the dark

You’ll haven’t to expect most people to still be at work then since sunset is around half 4.

Positivenancy · 31/10/2024 15:57

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 15:30

Please don't do this. I live in a road that people travel to and it REALLY spoils the vibe

So my dc shouldn’t go trick or treating? How does it spoil “the vibe”?

DBD1975 · 31/10/2024 15:56

Brilliant can't wait for it to start, the more the merrier!

Itsmychristmasdress · 31/10/2024 15:56

maudelovesharold · 31/10/2024 15:54

How can you help being too rural for people to call? It is what it is. Presumably the poster is driving to the nearest houses!

No, people drive to estates.

Positivenancy · 31/10/2024 15:55

maudelovesharold · 31/10/2024 15:54

How can you help being too rural for people to call? It is what it is. Presumably the poster is driving to the nearest houses!

Exactly this!

TheSilkWorm · 31/10/2024 15:55

Skodacool · 31/10/2024 15:54

Maybe some people prefer not to be out in the dark

Well they shouldn't go trick or treating then!

Positivenancy · 31/10/2024 15:55

wiesowarum · 31/10/2024 15:26

Are you aware that this sounds a bit, well, entitled?

@wiesowarum dear god…it’s Halloween for gods sake! It’s not like we do it every night. It’s one night a year! I’d be delighted if people called to mine in reality…but they don’t, I don’t control that. Nothing I can do about it really.

shellyleppard · 31/10/2024 15:55

Not seen anyone at all 🫤 got my Sweet's all ready

Skodacool · 31/10/2024 15:54

Maybe some people prefer not to be out in the dark

TricksyLiesmith · 31/10/2024 15:54

After 5pm for me . I'm still working so have not had chance to set everything thing up . 3pm is too early .

maudelovesharold · 31/10/2024 15:54

wiesowarum · 31/10/2024 15:26

Are you aware that this sounds a bit, well, entitled?

How can you help being too rural for people to call? It is what it is. Presumably the poster is driving to the nearest houses!

AndrewPreview · 31/10/2024 15:53

We often get one or two before it gets properly dark (little ones on their first halloween)... it's adorable.

It's half term here so I'm expecting it to start a bit earlier but most wont be around until 6pm cos most people are at work.

TentEntWenTyfOur · 31/10/2024 15:53

Our pumpkins will go out the front about 4.30ish. Everybody is really well-trained round here and only knock on doors when there's a pumpkin outside. Benefits of living in a v small town - everyone knows the rules!

I will light a candle in the living room window as well, since it is also Diwali.

StMarieforme · 31/10/2024 15:53

If there's a pumpkin outside it's a go where we live! 🎃

TorturedParentsDepartment · 31/10/2024 15:52

Used to live on a destination street and it was lovely to see how busy it got. Round here not many houses are decorated and I forgot to buy pumpkins this year (we've been away) so although we have some sweets on standby - not expecting many.

TorroFerney · 31/10/2024 15:52

I’ve just put stuff out in a bowl as for little ones who are having a bath by half six this is their time!

wiesowarum · 31/10/2024 15:52

VivianLea · 31/10/2024 15:50

I live on a trick or treat enthusiastic street but I don't mind people coming in from rural places. We live by the school so lots of the little ones go to school here, good enough for me!

You not minding doesn't mean other people aren't taking the proverbial though. 😵‍💫

VivianLea · 31/10/2024 15:50

wiesowarum · 31/10/2024 15:34

Agree.
I don't understand the thought process behind this at all.

I live on a trick or treat enthusiastic street but I don't mind people coming in from rural places. We live by the school so lots of the little ones go to school here, good enough for me!

Elphamouche · 31/10/2024 15:43

Surely it has to be dark?

IcyLilacZebra · 31/10/2024 15:42

They can knock here whenever they like I don't celebrate it or have decorations up I actually just ignore the door and watch the camera if the door goes for a second to check and that's it lights off and no interest so I don't answer

Cotonsugar · 31/10/2024 15:40

Sillysausage76 · 31/10/2024 15:14

Cause I can't put up with the dog going mad, these kids weren't tiny. I'll put um back out in a hour.

Thought the point of it was to go out in the dark and get a bit spooked 😧
I’m with you on the dog issue - can’t wait for my dogs to start barking their heads off (not)😂

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 31/10/2024 15:40

Our local pub has a party from 4pm until 6pm every year so they start coming from 6pm onwards.

Usually done by about 8pm, which is when I’m planning a massive family roast dinner.

Hankunamatata · 31/10/2024 15:38

Loads people have signs up here. Open at 5pm

Lickthips · 31/10/2024 15:37

unicornpower · 31/10/2024 15:34

We will be out about 5.30- is that too early? Mine are 3 and 18m so not really sure what time yo go, we’ve never been before!

Where we are 5pm onward is fine. Decorated houses/houses w a pumpkin outside only.

purplebeansprouts · 31/10/2024 15:36

unicornpower · 31/10/2024 15:34

We will be out about 5.30- is that too early? Mine are 3 and 18m so not really sure what time yo go, we’ve never been before!

This is perfect