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Neighbour is a convicted paedophile

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Abitlosttoday · 30/10/2024 21:17

I have just found out that our close (proximity-wise) neighbour has been given a suspended sentence for looking at peadophilia online. His address, in the news report of court proceedings, is not our street but an address in a different town. However, it is him (there's a clear photo) and he has been living on our street with his partner for at least a year. I saw him a few days ago when he pulled his two dogs out of the way so I could pass with my kids. They're 4 and 7. (The kids, not the dogs!) I don't know what to think. It's a small street. I can see into his living room from mine. It's a small town too. His partner is my SIL's sister's boss. I don't know their names though - that's the level of familiarity. Just because my head is battered with half-term and I am exhausted, aibu to ask what your thoughts would be about this situation. All his crimes were online but some of the images were the worst sort.
We only know because another neighbour has a distant work connection to the guy. He may believe he has some anonymity here. I cried when I heard. I'm angry too. My head hurts, but that may also be because of this endless school break!

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LlynTegid · 30/10/2024 21:25

I don't know if he is obliged to report to the police any change of address, and has not done so. May depend on the sentence he received.

Not sure how you can check.

User79853257976 · 30/10/2024 21:23

I would feel uncomfortable about it but aside from moving, there is nothing you can do.

Shoxfordian · 30/10/2024 21:23

There's nothing you can do tbh

Edingril · 30/10/2024 21:23

I can't see how crying changes anything, as much as the thought is not nice they have to live somewhere

I would focus on my own children and family and not gossip

Getitwright · 30/10/2024 21:20

Exactly. Concentrate on parenting your own children rather than chasing a load of gossip and heresay.

1smallhamsterfoot · 30/10/2024 21:20

What do you think you can do?

WinterMorn · 30/10/2024 21:19

You don’t need to do anything. Carry on with your life.