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Woken up by DH punching the pillow right next to my face

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Holidayregrets · 30/10/2024 19:33

We’re on holiday. Apparently I was snoring. AIBU or is this excessively aggressive? He woke me at 525am and I’ve not managed to get back to sleep. Up now for a day trip which apparently I’m now going on alone. The irony is that he is now asleep and snoring.

Our last holiday was in January and we had the best time, he couldn’t keep his hands off me. This holiday he has no sexual interest in me whatsoever. That in itself is so discombobulating.

So I guess I’ll just get ready now and go by myself.

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Bakingandcrying · 30/10/2024 19:38

This is a hard no for me, I won’t tolerate any form of violence in my relationship. This includes violence in my presence, violence to objects or threats of violence.

what an unhinged response to your partner snoring. This is all kinds of fucked up, the man needs to get a grip of his emotions but for me I’d be out the door for this one. I refuse to have a partner make me feel anything but safe