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Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:29

We moved in to our home this year (up until this point always been in house shares and not got involved with heating 🤣)
we generally run warm so in terms of a personal need for heating to go on we probably have quite a high threshold but we want to make sure we are looking after the house right (it’s old, probably prone to damp etc.)
so my question is, what’s you’re heating schedule? What temp do you let it get to outside before putting it on? How many hours a day? When in the day? What temp? Feels like a minefield!
I have set the heating to come on currently (it’s sitting at between 12-16 degrees outside where we are atm) thermostat set to 20 degrees, comes on 6.45-8.15am and then again 7-8.15pm. Does that sound about right?

YABU - change the schedule
YANBU - it’s fine how it is

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whenthelevee · 29/10/2024 22:50

If you have a baby, it's worth bearing in mind the safe sleep guidelines, which are to keep the room temperature (the room where the baby is sleeping anyway) between 16-20 C. www.lullabytrust.org.uk/safer-sleep-advice/safer-sleep-basics/baby-room-temperature/

Orrinocc0 · 29/10/2024 22:14

Dawevi · 29/10/2024 20:42

I'm at home all day and get cold easily so ours is on all day at 21c. 18 would be far too cold for me

This is what we do. 18 isn't warm enough for my soft southern bones.

Bunniemalone · 29/10/2024 22:07

Another vote for 18 during the day 15 at night. Dress baby for the temp, much healthier in my personal opinion. Off mostly between May & September ( depending on if we actually have a summer)We have Hive. Heating costs dropped by over a third when we started doing this as some days heating just on for very short time, just blips on to keep temp right. We are in a 1920s home, solid brick & though we didn't think we had a damp issue. I got a dehumidifier mostly to dry the clothes in winter. It's amazing & swear it has dropped heating bill even more keeping house at 55% humidity, which makes it feel warmer, plus costs very little to run.

missymousey · 29/10/2024 20:44

TheLurpackYears · 29/10/2024 19:31

20 is far too warm. 17 during the day if we're in, off at night.

Same here

Dawevi · 29/10/2024 20:42

I'm at home all day and get cold easily so ours is on all day at 21c. 18 would be far too cold for me

Thelnebriati · 29/10/2024 20:39

If you have a baby then 20 degrees is probably fine, but in an old house you might want to consider getting a decent dehumidifier, and run it for an hour a day.

Justploddingonandon · 29/10/2024 20:24

Can control each room so 20 in rooms we're using, 16 elsewhere and overnight ( with doors closed). 20 doesn't feel warm to me but I wfh, so not moving around much during the day. Also have one of those smart thermostats that knows if anyone is home and only hears if so. Before I had that and When everyone was at school / office had a schedule similar to yours.

BananaSpanner · 29/10/2024 20:22

Setyoufree · 29/10/2024 19:43

Just stick on a constant 17/18 for the day, 14/15 at night. It's thermostatic, no need for schedules other than day/night

This is what we do.

Also agree that good ventilation and dehumidifiers help with damp.

godmum56 · 29/10/2024 20:19

it depends. I have got thermostatic rad valves so they are on the frost setting in unused rooms. The hall thermostat sits on 22 but that doesn't mean all the rooms are 22. I tend to do it by whether I am comfortable in a sweatshirt and joggers. Heating comes on about an hour before I get up and again early evening till just before bed time.

Meceme · 29/10/2024 20:06

Ours is set at 18C and is constantly on all year round. All radiators controlled by individual thermostats so unused rooms can be turned off. Converted Victorian School but this seems to keep damp at bay. We've been here years and, for us, this is cheaper than letting it get cold and then trying to get up to temperature.
Mind you it hasn't come on yet this year and we're in the north.

TheNoodlesIncident · 29/10/2024 20:06

We have the heating on constant at 18 during the day and 15 at night. It only comes on for a few hours a day. It's meant to be a cost efficient way of doing things and means the temperature never drops really low.

Ours is like this, we have Nest which tells the boiler when to come on and go off from a thermostat in the hall. Our settings are different from @Wibblywobblybobbly but it's the same idea - the heating is kept between a range of temperatures and therefore doesn't fluctuate wildly from very cold to getting too hot. Our heating bill actually dropped by about a third after installing Nest, rather than going up, and the house is more comfortable day to day.

Blarn · 29/10/2024 19:57

Depends on the house. Our old 30s semi was set at about 22 and was on all day pretty much but because the house was damp and poorly insulated it was never warm. Our house now is set to 17. Comes on for an hour at 2am although now dc are older and don't wake up at night can probably get rid of that, the comes on at 5am, off about 8 and back on mid morning if we are home and just turn it off if we don't need it.

You just have to find out what works for you in the house.

Flamingo68 · 29/10/2024 19:54

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:46

We do, humidity actually seems well controlled at the moment. We dried clothes outside when possible in the summer and have a heated rail / tumble dryer now that’s not possible. Open the windows a lot too. We haven’t noticed any condensation yet which I’m pleased about! (I’ve become a bit obsessed with damp😂) we had a damp survey done and they had no huge concerns and advised us to let the house breathe, use a certain type of paint, keep stuff away from the walls etc. so I think so far we are doing okay but we haven’t had a winter here yet!

Make sure you either turn off the dehumidifier when windows are open, or that it is running in a rokm with doors and windows closed. Otherwise it is pulling the damp air from outside through, and is pointless.

Nightvax · 29/10/2024 19:51

We too live in a similar property and would spend an absolute fortune if we kept it at a constant 18, unfortunately they just don’t hold the heat well, it’s a real ball ache in the winter trying to keep everyone warm, stop the condensation and keep energy bills down

Whatsitreallylike · 29/10/2024 19:50

I’m in an old Victorian. Make sure air bricks aren’t blocked up or covered. Almost all ours were when we moved in.

Apart from that, I set my heating to 19 constant. When it drops below 19 it’s comes on day or night. I have a little one and don’t want her getting cold in the night… it wakes her up 😂

SpringleDingle · 29/10/2024 19:50

My thermostat is set at 18oC and the heating is timed to come on for 2 hours in the morning and another 2 in the evening. We also have a log burner that I light some evenings and a dehumidifier I switch on for a couple of hours most days in the winter.

Carpr · 29/10/2024 19:48

Ours was set at 18.5 for all day until 5 o'clock and it barely came on, thermostat said 18.7 when I looked, it then went up to 20 at 5 o'clock for the evening until 10

Wibblywobblybobbly · 29/10/2024 19:47

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:40

This would be ideal for me!! But the house is a very old Victorian terrace and we are trying to do everything we can to mitigate damp! So it’s advised to keep it between at least 18-20 degrees at all times as well as the usual ventilation etc etc advice

If it's not got them already, look into getting air bricks. It can do wonders for damp in Victorian houses.

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:46

Spendingtoomuchonfood · 29/10/2024 19:42

Do you have a dehumifier?

We do, humidity actually seems well controlled at the moment. We dried clothes outside when possible in the summer and have a heated rail / tumble dryer now that’s not possible. Open the windows a lot too. We haven’t noticed any condensation yet which I’m pleased about! (I’ve become a bit obsessed with damp😂) we had a damp survey done and they had no huge concerns and advised us to let the house breathe, use a certain type of paint, keep stuff away from the walls etc. so I think so far we are doing okay but we haven’t had a winter here yet!

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Wibblywobblybobbly · 29/10/2024 19:45

We have the heating on constant at 18 during the day and 15 at night. It only comes on for a few hours a day. It's meant to be a cost efficient way of doing things and means the temperature never drops really low.

Personally we didn't put the heating up with a baby, just made sure to dress baby for the temperature. Although actually it subsequently turned out baby was far too warm following the guidelines as he also runs hot. The minute he could start objecting to wearing a sleeping bag he did, and even now at 5 he largely just sleeps in pyjamas and kicks the covers off, even in the winter. Wish I'd realised sooner as I think being too warm caused a lot of his night wakings.

Anyway, that heating regime has been fine for our old house. We also make sure to open a few windows for a good half hour or so a day year round.

Setyoufree · 29/10/2024 19:43

Just stick on a constant 17/18 for the day, 14/15 at night. It's thermostatic, no need for schedules other than day/night

Nanny0gg · 29/10/2024 19:42

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:29

We moved in to our home this year (up until this point always been in house shares and not got involved with heating 🤣)
we generally run warm so in terms of a personal need for heating to go on we probably have quite a high threshold but we want to make sure we are looking after the house right (it’s old, probably prone to damp etc.)
so my question is, what’s you’re heating schedule? What temp do you let it get to outside before putting it on? How many hours a day? When in the day? What temp? Feels like a minefield!
I have set the heating to come on currently (it’s sitting at between 12-16 degrees outside where we are atm) thermostat set to 20 degrees, comes on 6.45-8.15am and then again 7-8.15pm. Does that sound about right?

YABU - change the schedule
YANBU - it’s fine how it is

That's how I'd have it with it on for a bit at midday if home and possibly 5ish

ToriMJ · 29/10/2024 19:42

It's a really personal thing. 20 would suit me. I like a quick hour to warm up house before I get out of bed then prob same again at about 4 to warm
Up for the evening .
My house is new though and heats up fast so that will change by the house type.

Spendingtoomuchonfood · 29/10/2024 19:42

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:40

This would be ideal for me!! But the house is a very old Victorian terrace and we are trying to do everything we can to mitigate damp! So it’s advised to keep it between at least 18-20 degrees at all times as well as the usual ventilation etc etc advice

Do you have a dehumifier?

Waitingforthecold · 29/10/2024 19:41

I will turn it down to 18 as a start anyway! Thanks!

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