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To think public smoking should be banned

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CreamLampshade · 29/10/2024 15:57

I live in London and am sick of constantly trying to avoid breathing in disgusting cigarette smoke or the weird sickly smell of vapes. There’s only so much you can swerve, speed past people or cross the road. I feel it’s very selfish to smoke in public spaces, especially crowded streets when people can’t avoid breathing it in. Why can’t people take responsibility for their own health - and others - and just give it up? It’s disgusting and really selfish.

OP posts:
daisychain01 · 03/11/2024 08:33

Smokers already have to compromise by going outside.

love the entitlement that says smokers are "compromising".

No, children and adults inhaling second hand carcinogens from cigarette smoke never had the choice to be killed by the actions of others until science finally gave such irrefutable evidence that secondary smoking is a danger to health, that public action was taken and going outside was the pragmatic option.

Cigarettes would be illegal now, and never available for sale, but you can't put that genie back in the bottle quickly so hopefully the children being born now will benefit from the Bill to create the first ever smoke-free generation.

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 08:12

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 05:45

I don't even know what to say about this.

My family are very UMC.

We live in Jacobean Manor Houses, Georgian townhouses & a Lutyens houses.

We 98% like smoking.

Eh? What you gonna do?

If I 110% agreed with someone.

I'd have a look at my maths.

@CreamLampshade

My family are crying into their dirty privilege.

(86% ish).

No misery.

UMC?

BadPeopleFan · 03/11/2024 06:22

I used to smoke, now I vape. I drink, I am overweight, I drive a car, I take long showers, I wash clothing after one wear, I use strong perfume, I love plug in air fresheners, I use strong smelling fabric conditioner, I have two dogs etc etc.
My point is whatever I do will be pissing someone off somewhere (especially on mn) so I may as well carry on, I am sure OP will do things that infuriate other people but most of us don't stop and think about every tiny decision we make and how it will affect the wider population.
I don't like walking past smokers myself, it smells horrible but it's a couple of seconds inconvenience for me, I seriously doubt you can breathe in enough smoke from a cigarette outside to damage your health, if I was in London I would be much more concerned about traffic pollution.
I think an awful lot of threads on here are started by people with a complete fixation on a 'problem' and they wind themselves up about it until it's all they can see around them, I don't notice anything like the levels of hate for things done in everyday life in real life.....they just seem to get blown vastly out of proportion on here.

VapeVamp12 · 03/11/2024 06:03

if you live in central London you’re basically smoking 20 a day from all the pollution

if i spend the day working in London, using the underground and buses, I blow my nose when I get home and it’s black

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 05:45

Nhggb · 30/10/2024 21:50

I agree with this 110% OP. I've never felt the need to smoke, I used to enjoy drinking at university but I grew out of it after my master's and realised I don't need it to have fun

I don't even know what to say about this.

My family are very UMC.

We live in Jacobean Manor Houses, Georgian townhouses & a Lutyens houses.

We 98% like smoking.

Eh? What you gonna do?

If I 110% agreed with someone.

I'd have a look at my maths.

@CreamLampshade

My family are crying into their dirty privilege.

(86% ish).

No misery.

Nhggb · 30/10/2024 21:50

CreamLampshade · 29/10/2024 16:10

I think if smoking and drinking are the only things saving you from misery then you need to look at your priorities. That’s a very sad life.

I agree with this 110% OP. I've never felt the need to smoke, I used to enjoy drinking at university but I grew out of it after my master's and realised I don't need it to have fun

CreamLampshade · 30/10/2024 21:47

Auburngal · 30/10/2024 21:35

Where I live, there is a large usage of nitrous oxide. They use those large canisters which are designed to use in whipped cream - ie cream chargers. Hippy Crack.

Seen drivers using them whilst driving with the canister between their legs and inhaling balloons using the NO canister. When they finish them, they throw them out of their car window. Good job I wasn't right behind a car and it was just me and the other car on the roundabout when they threw out the canister. It bounced off the kerb and managed to swerve to avoid it. Dread to think what damage it would have done to my car.
https://cdn-cfppm.nitrocdn.com/rYSUhdsYavBOmFpdBeGXSGimFvozFnNX/assets/static/optimized/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/80a3515b80cd636ba0ee209d0500d06e.Smartwhip-580g-cream-chargers-800x400.jpg

Edited

this is crazy! I think people think it’s not addictive but there was a programme on quite recently about people doing them all day and creating so much nerve damage they ended up in wheelchairs. Terrifying what people will do to themselves and the risks they put others through for a stupid temporary ‘high’.

OP posts:
Nikitaspearlearring · 30/10/2024 21:43

OrangeKettle · 29/10/2024 16:21

This made me laugh and I’ve no idea why!

Me too! I kind of know what she means though - I live in a posh area and the only people who vape (I don't see anyone smoking) are the teenagers.

Auburngal · 30/10/2024 21:35

Where I live, there is a large usage of nitrous oxide. They use those large canisters which are designed to use in whipped cream - ie cream chargers. Hippy Crack.

Seen drivers using them whilst driving with the canister between their legs and inhaling balloons using the NO canister. When they finish them, they throw them out of their car window. Good job I wasn't right behind a car and it was just me and the other car on the roundabout when they threw out the canister. It bounced off the kerb and managed to swerve to avoid it. Dread to think what damage it would have done to my car.
https://cdn-cfppm.nitrocdn.com/rYSUhdsYavBOmFpdBeGXSGimFvozFnNX/assets/static/optimized/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/80a3515b80cd636ba0ee209d0500d06e.Smartwhip-580g-cream-chargers-800x400.jpg

https://cdn-cfppm.nitrocdn.com/rYSUhdsYavBOmFpdBeGXSGimFvozFnNX/assets/static/optimized/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/80a3515b80cd636ba0ee209d0500d06e.Smartwhip-580g-cream-chargers-800x400.jpg

EalingLucy · 30/10/2024 20:42

Jasmin71 · 30/10/2024 14:59

Some people have unavoidably miserable lives that they can't change no matter how hard they try. Consider yourself lucky.

Some factors can’t be changed, but many can, including decide not to ingest actual depressants - alcohol and nicotine - which are literally only going to make it worse?!

consider herself lucky for what?

toastandtwo · 30/10/2024 15:09

CreamLampshade · 30/10/2024 14:25

Yes there is something very sad about it. Pathetic even tbh when it leads to this kind of behaviour. Not to mention all the plastic waste. Vapes are a lot worse in that regard.

Oh gosh yes the plastic waste. I’m glad you raised that. It’s shocking the extent to which it just doesn’t seem to cross people’s minds.

Jasmin71 · 30/10/2024 14:59

CreamLampshade · 29/10/2024 16:10

I think if smoking and drinking are the only things saving you from misery then you need to look at your priorities. That’s a very sad life.

Some people have unavoidably miserable lives that they can't change no matter how hard they try. Consider yourself lucky.

CreamLampshade · 30/10/2024 14:26

2dogsandabudgie · 29/10/2024 22:57

Maybe you're encroaching on their space.

It’s a shared space - that’s the whole point I am making. But clearly you can’t understand that.

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CreamLampshade · 30/10/2024 14:25

toastandtwo · 29/10/2024 21:00

I’m with you OP. But the vaping thing is just madness. I think I read the other day that a shocking number of people in the UK who never smoked now vape. The government should never have let vapes come the market in such an uncontrolled way.
And it’s just really bloody depressing - the level of addiction people have. We were at a family event over half term which was clearly marked as ‘no smoking/vaping’ - and nobody was smoking - but I saw a few parents with a vape hidden up their sleeve trying to discreetly suck on it without anyone seeing. And it was just so obvious. I would be so ashamed to behave that way in front of anyone - but especially my children.

Yes there is something very sad about it. Pathetic even tbh when it leads to this kind of behaviour. Not to mention all the plastic waste. Vapes are a lot worse in that regard.

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2dogsandabudgie · 29/10/2024 22:57

CreamLampshade · 29/10/2024 17:31

It is for everyone - including me - so they are encroaching on my space and many others.

Maybe you're encroaching on their space.

Nat6999 · 29/10/2024 22:23

If there were decent extraction systems in pubs, then smoking & vaping wouldn't be a problem. Suck it all straight out. I vape & if I'm at my mum's, I vape under the cooker hood & it goes straight outside.

Gifgaf · 29/10/2024 22:18

Yes! It's disgusting and I am sick of inhaling and smelling it. However, they will never ban it unfortunately

averitablevampire · 29/10/2024 22:17

Dunno, I'm not a smoker or Vaper and I wish it wasn't allowed outside cafes, but on the other hand, smokers are already pretty limited in where they can smoke, and I kind of feel the poor buggers are already vilified, and shit if they can't smoke outside where can they smoke....but then again I don't like walking through the smoke, I mean the best thing would be the invention of smell free cigarettes and vapes!

Nat6999 · 29/10/2024 22:14

Panama2 · 29/10/2024 17:40

AS said up thread it is probably a working class thing and them not being from an affluent area and all. They won't be able to smoke in their own homes as they can't afford their own home and have to rent in a non affluent area with other working class plebs all standing outside their rental properties smoking

Calling working class plebs is disgusting whether they smoke or not.

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 22:12

ACynicalDad · 29/10/2024 22:11

But if it drifts back into your neigbours' homes it's rank. I think it would be well received.

It’s tough. Don’t live near buildings with balconies if you’re going to be that precious. You can’t dictate people’s behaviour in their own home.

Ineffable23 · 29/10/2024 22:12

I'd prefer a ban on vaping indoors (in public buildings). People vape at some of the pubs I go to and I hate it. I don't understand why management don't stop them.

ACynicalDad · 29/10/2024 22:11

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 22:05

Balconies are an integral part of a flat or house. You can’t stop people from smoking on their own property.

But if it drifts back into your neigbours' homes it's rank. I think it would be well received.

Cynic17 · 29/10/2024 22:10

I have never smoked in my life, but actually I would fully defend people's right to smoke. I rarely smell it, even in London, but the point is that competent adults should be allowed to make their own decisions. This concept of banning everything that is bad for us is just small-minded and depressing.

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 22:05

ACynicalDad · 29/10/2024 21:57

Ban smoking within 10m of a building, including balconies, would make a big difference.

Balconies are an integral part of a flat or house. You can’t stop people from smoking on their own property.

ACynicalDad · 29/10/2024 21:57

Ban smoking within 10m of a building, including balconies, would make a big difference.