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AI girlfriend app

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fortysomethingg · 29/10/2024 08:28

What would you do if you found your husband/partner had been using an AI girlfriend app. Created an avatar, a generated woman and was interacting with her like a human. Chatting, sexting.

Is this a lesser evil than real porn with humans?

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OP posts:
Spinet · 29/10/2024 09:08

Or an AI wife created using data off Mumsnet. "I'm leaving you." I'll go now sorry.

takealettermsjones · 29/10/2024 09:07

I'd think he needed his head checking. I don't personally see it as cheating I don't think, more like high-tech porn, but it would be deeply unattractive to me. I would be hurt that he'd sought out to replace me in some way and I'd find it a bit pathetic that instead of communicating with me on whatever was lacking like an adult, he'd basically made himself a Sims girlfriend.

Spinet · 29/10/2024 09:06

I really want to create an AI girlfriend on the app now to see what she's like. What's the betting she's all 'ooh, do me from behind' and 'I'll make you a sandwich' rather than 'please could you bring me a McDonald's breakfast I'm finishing an essay" ?

Rollonsummerplease · 29/10/2024 09:03

Well I wouldn't be happy about it all.
The partner/husband is looking for sexual gratification outside the relationship. He is mentally cheating and showing lack of respect to his partner/ wife. He is looking outside the relationship for something he should be sharing with his partner/wife.
I think at the very least it is damaging to his real life relationship and I would find it on a par to cheating.