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To think there should be a fine for vendors pulling out of a property buy/sell process last minute?

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BrokenCookies · 29/10/2024 08:19

Just had this happen. Pregnant, strung along for months, collapsed a sizable chain because a couple of immature children think it's acceptable to pull out the day of exchange. I'm broken hearted, wasted all my money and savings and I have never felt so much hatred for two strangers. From speaking to the agent they have no genuine reason, just playing a bit of a game with us all I guess. How is this legal? It is the cruelest thing anyone has ever done to my family and I don't want to start it all again but now I have to with way less money. We had spent months getting our house ready for them as their first home, deep cleaning, painting, repairing.. turns out they never deserved any of it. It's really knocked me and I have no faith in anything now or people but I have to just get on with it :(

Yanbu - there should be a fine to stop this from being possible after a certain point.
Yabu - it's okay for people to do this.

OP posts:
lololulu · 29/10/2024 09:14

@ResultsMayVary

I find it bizarre that the sale doesn't become unconditional after a certain point

  • it does that was today?
BabyCloud · 29/10/2024 09:13

I would assume that their two week holiday was actually them looking elsewhere. They will be fawning all over another house without a second thought to what they’ve done to you. With a bit of luck they will lose their dream house last minute too 😆

Tel12 · 29/10/2024 09:13

Thought this for years. Just pulling should mean that they are liable for all expenses up and down the chain.

angellinaballerina7 · 29/10/2024 09:12

BillStickersWillBeProsocuted · 29/10/2024 08:54

I don't buyers personal circumstances should be valid reasons

Valid reason would be things like "The survey found significant probelms" or "the house was misrepresented in the advert" - things directly linked to the value of the property which the buyer wouldn't have already known.

Some personal reasons could affect things though - a cancer diagnosis might affect your income, so moving house wouldn’t be viable.

ThatIsNotMyNameSoWhyAreYouCallingMeThat · 29/10/2024 09:12

ResultsMayVary · 29/10/2024 08:24

I don't come from the UK and I find it bizarre that the sale doesn't become unconditional after a certain point In other countries there can be huge penalties for failing to settle a sale (as there should be!)

It’s unconditional after exchange of contracts.

LoobyDoop2 · 29/10/2024 09:11

The Homebuyers Information Pack, which would have required the vendor to get the survey and searches done before marketing the house, failed because the mortgage companies said they wouldn’t accept the vendor’s survey and searches and would require borrowers to get another one done anyway, making the whole thing pointless. The government should have forced them, but didn’t. It would have been a massive improvement.

I feel for you, OP. We’re selling a property at the moment and the whole thing has ground to a halt because the buyer’s solicitor went underground and then quit, so now we have to wait for a new one to get up to speed. The estate agent says they have dozens of sales being held up because of this one firm.

BrokenCookies · 29/10/2024 09:11

Completelyjo · 29/10/2024 09:06

But why would anyone commit before having all the information?
The only way for the commitment to come earlier is if all the information is made available up front to the buyer. A full through structural survey should be the seller’s responsibility really.
Why would you legally commit hundreds of thousands on a property only for the information to come back and state that the “seller” has no legal right to sell it?
Or that there are restrictive covenants on the property giving access you aren’t happy with?
Or that the roof is falling apart?
Or there is significant subsidence?
Or the work has no planning permission?
Or illegal electrics?
It makes absolutely no sense for a buyer to be legally committed before having all this information.

I get this, they had everything though and had done for ages. Like I say, we were all chasing them regularly just for them to then pretend everything was fine when they could have just saved us loads of time sooner. We paid for and actioned every single request that they had, all at our expense even when they didn't make sense, insurances for things, services, all sorts and they must have known they weren't committed deep down. Why do that to us? Also they know I'm pregnant, I'm not saying I'm unwell or deserve special treatment but all the time we're ghosted with no assurance of a date to exchange the due date gets closer. Its just hideously cruel :(

OP posts:
Morethantimeandmorethanlove · 29/10/2024 09:10

Fisharenotfoods · 29/10/2024 08:28

I like the Scottish system more, sellers have to have the survey done and provide the results to buyers. It’s hard to back out once an offer has been made.

Friends had it the other way the seller asked for an additional £10k on exchange day. People are just co*k wombles

Unfortunately the Scottish system is now going down the road of the English system. It is much easier now to back out. Personal experience of 2 lots of friends who were in a chain which collapsed after approximately 5 months and the other after 6 months. They had to start the whole process of selling again.

FrequentlyAskedQuestion · 29/10/2024 09:10

Rocksaltrita · 29/10/2024 08:21

Also had the same. Should be illegal. In France there’s a 10% deposit/penalty system if you pull out. Should be the same here.

What… if you discover during the lengthy conveyancing process that an abattoir is due to be built over the road, or that there is death watch beetle in the loft, or the interest rates change drastically?

Can you imagine the legal costs of arguing whether pulling out was reasonable or not?

A house isn’t sold until the contracts is … a contract.

LifeisNOTlikeemmerdalefarm · 29/10/2024 09:08

This happened the other way round.
We were due to exchange on a bungalow.
4 hours before the appointment to sign
the seller changed her mind.
It then came to light she had done that
once before.
We did go on to get a better positioned
bungalow and she is still in the one she
was trying to sell. This was 15 years ago.

BrokenCookies · 29/10/2024 09:07

lololulu · 29/10/2024 09:06

YABU to say children and you know it.

But yes shit situation.

How is that unreasonable? Their behaviour has been totally disgusting and immature. I certainly don't 'know it', I'd never treat anyone how they've treated us. I can only assume you think their behaviour is okay?

OP posts:
redboxer321 · 29/10/2024 09:06

titchy · 29/10/2024 09:04

They do - that point is exchange of contract.

In Scotland btw the offer is binding as I understand it.

Please try to understand things better before you post.
Some of us have had very stressful selling experiences in Scotland and it grinds our gears (might just be mine) to see this bs posted all the fricking time!

lololulu · 29/10/2024 09:06

YABU to say children and you know it.

But yes shit situation.

Completelyjo · 29/10/2024 09:06

Clearinguptheclutter · 29/10/2024 09:01

I know that! My point is the point of (almost) no return is far too close to the endgame

But why would anyone commit before having all the information?
The only way for the commitment to come earlier is if all the information is made available up front to the buyer. A full through structural survey should be the seller’s responsibility really.
Why would you legally commit hundreds of thousands on a property only for the information to come back and state that the “seller” has no legal right to sell it?
Or that there are restrictive covenants on the property giving access you aren’t happy with?
Or that the roof is falling apart?
Or there is significant subsidence?
Or the work has no planning permission?
Or illegal electrics?
It makes absolutely no sense for a buyer to be legally committed before having all this information.

KoalaCalledKevin · 29/10/2024 09:04

SidekickSylvia · 29/10/2024 08:26

I agree, op. At the time you accept their offer, they should put down a deposit which they forfeit if they then pull out, and it should cover all costs.

I hope you find another buyer quickly.

I think there should be a buffer time to allow them to get a survey (but it should be a set time, rather than just "until a survey is done" and it's on the buyer if they don't get one done in time).

titchy · 29/10/2024 09:04

ResultsMayVary · 29/10/2024 08:24

I don't come from the UK and I find it bizarre that the sale doesn't become unconditional after a certain point In other countries there can be huge penalties for failing to settle a sale (as there should be!)

They do - that point is exchange of contract.

In Scotland btw the offer is binding as I understand it.

Tink3rbell30 · 29/10/2024 09:04

Yes they should be fined! This is awful. I'd speak or message them directly, how dare they.

Completelyjo · 29/10/2024 09:02

Chipsahoy · 29/10/2024 09:00

Scottish system is much quicker so there is less time for it to all fall apart. However the searches are non existent it seems. I used to work for a search company in England. There was no option to run searches on our home in Scotland.

Isn’t that just because it’s a different system and database? Sellers in Scotland have to provide a lot of the info they buyers in England need to pay for and take it upon themselves to look into.

MilesOfCarpetTiles · 29/10/2024 09:02

It sounds like OP is the vendor in this situation anyway so it's not the vendor pulling out as per the thread title.

AnellaA · 29/10/2024 09:02

I’m so sorry OP. Your frustration is totally warranted

Clearinguptheclutter · 29/10/2024 09:01

Completelyjo · 29/10/2024 08:57

It doesn’t matter how close exchange is to completion, the money is the same because the work is the same. All the surveys, mortgage reports and solicitor’s documents need to be completed in order to exchange.

I know that! My point is the point of (almost) no return is far too close to the endgame

redboxer321 · 29/10/2024 09:01

MilmoMaggins · 29/10/2024 08:39

The Home Report system in Scotland does help with some of the issues around surveys etc but people can still pull out until the missives are concluded. Last time I moved that wasn't until 2 days before the move date.

This. About the missives at least. Home report surveys are imo so basic that they are a bit of a waste of time and money.
I do with people such as @Fisharenotfoods would stop peddling this bs about the Scottish system. The missives were concluded (exchange of contract in England and Wales) on the day I moved on the agreed date. The buyers could have pulled out without penalty up until that point.

I'm sorry what happened to you @BrokenCookies I guess the only upside is that you might get a bit more for it now thanks to your hard work and property prices might have gone up a bit by the spring which might be the best time to put it back on the market (circumstances dependent of course).

BabyCloud · 29/10/2024 09:00

There should be a cut off point. The day of exchange is past the point of taking the piss. I think they should be made to cover everyone’s fees if they pull out that late.

PlayDadiFreyr · 29/10/2024 09:00

CecilyP · 29/10/2024 08:26

Can’t really vote. What they did was rotten and very disappointing for you, but people can pull out for all sorts of valid reasons, so I don’t think a fine would be appropriate.

Maybe forget calling it a fine then, but a fee of the process that at least falls on the party causing the issue?

Or a listed set of fees that are held by the conveyancing solicitor that is held and retained in the event of a collapsed chain.

It wouldn't cover everything, but could mitigate the issue.

Perhaps even a form of insurance would be helpful.

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