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To say I wouldn't leave my 2 year old child with someone they didn't know - an agency nanny

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KnittingKnewbie · 28/10/2024 22:56

The viewpoints on another thread are so far from what I considered "an obvious truth" I have to ask.
Would you leave a young child, a two year old, with an agency nanny you and they have never met before? For a social occasion, not a medical emergency?
Think no other childcare, rather than life or death situation.
Personally I would only leave my child with a very small number of people - one grandparent alone. Other Grandparents as long as an aunt/uncle of the child also there (grandparents are old). Mine and DH siblings - 2 or 3 out of all of them.
Friends - in a medical emergency, not for a night out.

YABU - I would definitely leave my child with an agency sitter they didn't know
Yanbu - I wouldn't leave my child with an unknown sitter, I'd skip the night out

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Nomorecoconutboosts · 28/10/2024 23:05

@Stormyweatheroutthere
did the site give prospective clients the impression that caregivers were vetted/checked?

Stormyweatheroutthere · 28/10/2024 23:03

I have a profile on a care giving site... I didn't need any qualifications or checks to set it up. I got a message to babysit that night. Turned up.. They handed over a baby then went out.. They came home 6 hours later. Paid me. Haven't heard from them again. He lived abroad.. She was moving soon. Can't imagine handing my dc to a stranger off the net.... Yanbu to use family only if you have the opportunity to..