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Thoughts on the 1 year vaccinations please ?

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Ellamaee · 28/10/2024 21:34

Positing on aibu in hopes to get more of a response .
my 1 year old has her 12 month vaccines on Wednesday, I wasn’t overthinking it until I seen TikTok’s of reactions to the vaccine , then all the comments saying how after the vaccine their child was having seizures, gave them health issues etc etc and how it is “literal poison” and that “they don’t make money if you’re not poorly, the vaccines are poison” also multiple stated they’ve never vaccinated their kids and they’re really healthy and never sick compared to those who have been vaccinated . My one year old is up to date with hers and now I’m absolutely dreading these one as obviously there’s 2 new ones she’s never had , am I massively overthinking this? I knowwww if she doesn’t get vaccinated she can get really sick, but then people telling me that it’s going to cause health issues, seizures, possibly Sid’s ? Is making me too scared to do it , I’m wondering if anyone has any experiences, and in hopes to reassure me that I’m doing the right thing by getting her vaccinated . I don’t want anything bad to happen to her I’m so scared . (Before anyone asks , yes I have bad anxiety as you’ll tell from my other threads lol) I don’t wanna pass it on to my daughter I just wanna do the right thing , thanks in advance

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Zanatdy · 14/06/2025 17:50

I typed India plane crash into Tiktok the other day and was genuinely shocked at the fake posts / AI. Why not search for posts about the diseases that can be caused by not taking vaccinations.

GRex · 14/06/2025 17:47

Ellamaee · 14/06/2025 15:28

Hi everyone , it seems this thread has all of a sudden gotten attention , I posted this in October 🤣 I did indeed vaccinate her and will continue to , thanks for all the advice !

Good work. Always useful info for the next person who has a concern.

RampantIvy · 14/06/2025 16:14

Ellamaee · 14/06/2025 15:28

Hi everyone , it seems this thread has all of a sudden gotten attention , I posted this in October 🤣 I did indeed vaccinate her and will continue to , thanks for all the advice !

Well done

Borgonzola · 14/06/2025 16:12

Just seen your update, never mind Smile

Ellamaee · 14/06/2025 15:28

Hi everyone , it seems this thread has all of a sudden gotten attention , I posted this in October 🤣 I did indeed vaccinate her and will continue to , thanks for all the advice !

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YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 14/06/2025 08:20

Perhaps balance your TikTok with online content of the severe damage that those diseases cause, including death. The outbreak in Texas might show how deadly measles is for instance. Please speak to your GP.

MammaTo · 14/06/2025 08:14

GRex · 14/06/2025 08:03

A significant driver behind the dissemination of vaccine misinformation is financial gain. A prominent segment of the anti-vaccine movement is closely linked to the alternative health and "wellness" industry. Key figures and organisations often promote and sell products such as dietary supplements, essential oils, and homeopathic remedies, as "natural" and "safer" alternatives to vaccines. By casting doubt on the safety and efficacy of vaccines, they create a market for their own unregulated and scientifically unproven products. This business model thrives on creating a narrative of "us versus them," pitting a supposedly corrupt medical establishment and "Big Pharma" against a small group of "truth-tellers" who hold the secret to true health. The financial success of these individuals and companies is directly tied to the public's distrust of conventional medicine.

Credible highly intelligent people go into scientific and medical professions and spend many years training. Scientists do actual research into vaccines, doctors and nurses see actual reactions to vaccines. They all choose to vaccinate their own children. If you aren't smart enough to read research for yourself, at least trust those who are able to.

When kids die of measles and are made infertile from mumps, it affects the parents rather than the charlatans who sold them an alternative idea. Do you really think it's a coincidence that measles death rates dropped so dramatically with the introduction of vaccines? Maybe your child will be OK, it was only about 120 kids who died each year from measles before vaccines (smaller population though obviously), others went deaf for brain damage etc. Now tell me, how will you look at yourself if you child is one that is not ok?

This is an excellent post. The pipeline from being quite health conscious and additive adverse, to full blown anti vax is fascinating.

MammaTo · 14/06/2025 08:13

Ellamaee · 28/10/2024 21:46

im reading comments from people who have done research, I’m not saying they’re right or wrong , I’m just worried cause of my own anxiety. I’m 23!

But you don’t know if they’ve done research or not! I could type up a paragraph using Chat GPT and make myself sound like the smartest person going.

GRex · 14/06/2025 08:03

A significant driver behind the dissemination of vaccine misinformation is financial gain. A prominent segment of the anti-vaccine movement is closely linked to the alternative health and "wellness" industry. Key figures and organisations often promote and sell products such as dietary supplements, essential oils, and homeopathic remedies, as "natural" and "safer" alternatives to vaccines. By casting doubt on the safety and efficacy of vaccines, they create a market for their own unregulated and scientifically unproven products. This business model thrives on creating a narrative of "us versus them," pitting a supposedly corrupt medical establishment and "Big Pharma" against a small group of "truth-tellers" who hold the secret to true health. The financial success of these individuals and companies is directly tied to the public's distrust of conventional medicine.

Credible highly intelligent people go into scientific and medical professions and spend many years training. Scientists do actual research into vaccines, doctors and nurses see actual reactions to vaccines. They all choose to vaccinate their own children. If you aren't smart enough to read research for yourself, at least trust those who are able to.

When kids die of measles and are made infertile from mumps, it affects the parents rather than the charlatans who sold them an alternative idea. Do you really think it's a coincidence that measles death rates dropped so dramatically with the introduction of vaccines? Maybe your child will be OK, it was only about 120 kids who died each year from measles before vaccines (smaller population though obviously), others went deaf for brain damage etc. Now tell me, how will you look at yourself if you child is one that is not ok?

RampantIvy · 14/06/2025 07:11

bookworm14 · 13/06/2025 22:05

ZOMBIE THREAD

I know, but it's worth resurrecting to educate the idiots and conspiracy theorists.

MissyPants · 13/06/2025 23:04

I have a friend that won't drink tap water, thinks it's poison. Won't have coffee in shops etc due to using tap water, carries a flask of filtered water around everywhere and only drinks that. Came to my house and brought the big water filter.
Won't use fluoride toothpaste (orders special toothpaste). Adamant i'm going to have health consequence's from the covid vaccine as apparently it's killing people and it's all coming out now. Chem trails in the sky, not lines from aeroplanes, birds are robots made by the government to spy and not real. The list goes on. Don't be one of those people.
Look up the guy in the iron lung who contracted polio.
we're lucky to have vaccines offered.

Wanderdust · 13/06/2025 22:08

Jesus, I despair that people are getting their information through social media. Very worrying trend!

bookworm14 · 13/06/2025 22:05

ZOMBIE THREAD

SErunner · 13/06/2025 22:03

There is literally no need for discussion on this. Have her vaccinated.

BlackeyedSusan · 13/06/2025 22:02

JassyRadlett · 28/10/2024 22:12

PS I would also encourage you to look at getting the chicken pox vaccine done privately! The JCVI has now recommended to the government that it be included in the vaccine schedule but if approved by DHSC you'll just miss out.

Other countries have more or less eradicated childhood chicken pox, which can be really nasty in some cases. My DS1 is now 13 and still has the scars from when he was two, he was quite unwell with it. The vaccine is most effective when given in childhood and also greatly reduces the risk of shingles later in life.

I've had shingles and it hurts.

My landlord had shingles and he was in a lot of pain.

Anything that reduces this is good.

RampantIvy · 13/06/2025 21:59

I'm old enough to remember kids in callipers.

So am I.

This came though on my feed this morning.

Thoughts on the 1 year vaccinations please ?
Sometimesbetter · 13/06/2025 21:59

OP, please get your child vaccinated as advised by your GP practice. The benefits of vaccination far outweigh any risks from it, but don't listen to me or tick tock, or random comments. Read the information from the NHS (eg https://www.healthiertogether.nhs.uk/new-parent-and-baby/childhood-vaccinations) and talk to a professional (eg your practice nurse or health visitor if you are worried).

I completely know what it is like to read something in the media or see it on social media then freak out, our children are so precious, but that is why we must make decisions about vaccines based on evidence and medical advice, not a random comment on tick tock. Sadly children do get very ill sometimes and if this happens just after a vaccine people sometimes incorrectly attribute it to the vaccine.

Childhood Vaccinations | Postnatal Care and Appointments | Healthier Together

Advice and guidance on Childhood Vaccinations for Postnatal Care and Appointments.

https://www.healthiertogether.nhs.uk/new-parent-and-baby/childhood-vaccinations

Lonelydave · 13/06/2025 21:55

You can monetise responses on tik tok and other sites, therefore, take something normal, and turn it into a money making scheme - prey on peoples insecurities and worries, hmm, what better than young children and vaccines.
Call me a cynic, but I get my medical advice from a professional, I'll get my investment advise from a professional, and I'll use social media as a light hearted way to waste away the hours.

Oh btw, I know a very very important Nigerian Prince who needs to transfer money into sterling.... dm me for further details......

BlackeyedSusan · 13/06/2025 21:51

My mum nearly died of measles. She was very very poorly. They had to call the Dr out (pre NHS when you had to pay and they were very poor)

I had mumps. I was very very poorly. Went very very stiff/rigid. Had the Dr out everyday for a bit. You really do not want your child to.get mumps, especially if they are male.

Measles can kill. Or give you lifelong disability.

Whooping cough is horrible for kids.

Polio is awful. Have you heard of iron lungs? A device that breathes for you because polio has paralysed your breathing muscles. I'm old enough to remember kids in callipers.

People play on your sense of fear that actively vaccinating can cause your kid harm, but doing nothing can cause your kid harm too, by exposing them to awful diseases that can kill.

I'm autistic. Didn't get MMR. My kids were autistic before they had MMR. (Clear signs) My dad was probably autistic. He didn't get any vaccines.

RampantIvy · 13/06/2025 21:38

Just putting this here:

Thoughts on the 1 year vaccinations please ?
JassyRadlett · 13/06/2025 13:07

PEACEOUT2 · 12/06/2025 14:28

Tell that to the thousands of vaccine damaged people. How can anyone prove a vaccine works? You can't.

I mean, clinical trials. Literally.

In practice, we also see it when vaccine rates fall below a certain level and outbreaks of diseases like whooping cough become more common.

We see it in the lack of polio, tetanus, diphtheria and smallpox in our world.

My godmother had polio, and was disabled for life. She was an amazing talented musician before her illness. She lost her career, her plans for a family, and her ability to walk unaided for her entire adult life because of a disease we can now prevent.

We know vaccines work.

RampantIvy · 12/06/2025 17:12

PEACEOUT2 · 12/06/2025 14:28

Tell that to the thousands of vaccine damaged people. How can anyone prove a vaccine works? You can't.

How many cases of smallpox are there in the world?

https://www.who.int/news-room/spotlight/history-of-vaccination/history-of-smallpox-vaccination

Why do kids no longer get polio or diphtheria?

https://action.org.uk/about-us/our-history/history-polio
https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/diphtheria-vaccine

No medication is completely without any side effects. You need to educate yourself about risk vs benefit.

I assume you never take even a paracetamol because they can also have side effects

History of smallpox vaccination

One of the deadliest diseases known to humans, smallpox remains the only human disease to have been eradicated. Many believe this achievement to be the most significant milestone in global public health.

https://www.who.int/news-room/spotlight/history-of-vaccination/history-of-smallpox-vaccination

PEACEOUT2 · 12/06/2025 14:28

Tell that to the thousands of vaccine damaged people. How can anyone prove a vaccine works? You can't.

MissTrip82 · 17/01/2025 23:18

Every medication can cause a negative side effect. These are recorded, tracked and disclosed because evidence-based medicine operates within a scientific paradigm and is regulated by governments. The risks of medications are weighed against the risks of developing the conditions they are for, and this is re-evaluated as needed.

Some of the worst conversations are with parents of unvaccinated children asking if their child would have needed a life support machine (including ECMO) if they had been vaccinated. Those parents have a heart-breaking realisation that they prioritised their right to be stupid over their child’s safety. Many parents who don’t vaccinate are lucky enough to get away with it. They’re not good parents, just lucky ones.

FunkeBaruwa · 17/01/2025 22:55

Yes, my daughter had really bad seizure after the vaccine