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To moan about kids watching clips on their phone without headphones

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TeenLifeMum · 27/10/2024 21:47

When did it become acceptable for dc to sit on a train watching TikTok on full volume? I was patient to a point but after 40 minutes I cracked. My glares weren’t working. Dc looks about 10. I leaned over and asked her to turn it down please. The mum glared and said why… I said “usually people use headphones” and the mum looked blankly and replied “yeah we didn’t bring any though 🤷🏻‍♀️”. I rolled my eyes and said “it’s just so bloody rude” and now she’s loudly going on and on about the sweary rude lady (me) and how I should be grateful dc isn’t screaming.

I’m on this train for 3 hours after a long day. Is it too much to expect a parent to parent their dc? I wouldn’t dream of being so inconsiderate.

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StillAtTheRestaurant · 28/10/2024 10:38

This drives me crazy too! Luckily I am usually on short bus journeys so I just put up with it.
YWNBU to say something but I'd have avoided swearing. And start carrying your own earphones so you can drown the selfish buggers out next time.

Courgettesandonions · 28/10/2024 10:33

Yes. It's not just kids though. I've started calling it out now to prevent it becoming normalised. My usual line is "Excuse me. Do you have earphones?" They usually say no, but offer to turn it down/off. I don't want to get into an argument with anyone.

MermaidEyes · 28/10/2024 10:06

Rude arsehole parents unfortunately breed rude arsehole kids.

Pickled21 · 28/10/2024 09:53

I'd find it no more annoying than someone on a phone call for large parts of the journey. That is part of why travelling on public transport is so crap. You can't police other people's behaviour so I'd just take noise cancelling headphones instead.

GoldCat255 · 28/10/2024 09:53

What a conceited little cunt, that woman was.
Unfortunately this is becoming the norm. Credit to you OP for standing up to these appalling manners.

Skyrainlight · 28/10/2024 09:49

It's beyond annoying and completely inconsiderate, so simple to just use headphones and not pollute anyone else.

Kentuckycriedfrickin · 27/10/2024 22:06

It's rude no matter the age of the person doing it, my DC know that they either wear headphones or they have the volume set to zero. I'd have said something too.

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