We have been together for 2 years next week. I’ve been really excited and I associate a lot of this time of year towards the time we were getting to know each other. I do get quite nostalgic and remember the autumn months as the time we fell in love etc. so I love anniversaries.
I asked bf what we are doing and he wants to prioritise buying things for our new house. Rather than spending money on anniversary. He said we can definitely spend the day together but it doesn’t need to be a huge celebration
Fair enough, but I asked him if he’s even bothered and he said around a 4 out of 10. I am like a 7 or 8. He said he doesn’t really think about anniversaries etc because he “isn’t very nostalgic” and “doesn’t live in the past, he only looks at the future”. It hurts because I have such high emotions and associations towards this date, but he hasn’t at all.
This has really upset me, am I being stupid?