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To feel like this clock change has knocked me for six?!

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ncgfryhfdg · 27/10/2024 20:48

Just sitting chilling and watching TV, thought to myself “well I’m ready for bed, time to head on up” looked at the clock, it’s just gone half eight!🤦‍♀️
Bloody Hell!😂 it never usually gets me this bad…

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stargirl1701 · 28/10/2024 13:34

@AInightingale

My children leave for the bus at 8.15am. It is still dark then. Shifting the clock makes a difference for about a fortnight. It's not worth it.

LlynTegid · 28/10/2024 13:32

The discussion should be about whether we have BST all year round or GMT all year round. Not the current practice.

When the current practice was re-adopted in 1972, almost no shops opened beyond 5.30pm, many people were on shifts in factories or mines that started at 7am or earlier, almost no-one ever worked at home, and farming employed far more people than now. We had far less understanding about the impact of disturbed sleep patterns, and children almost always walked to school or got a bus (no SUVs or other cars just taking them 800 yards to and from school).

Never mind the increased deaths and injuries that will happen in November, the impact on health by the sudden change, on cats and dogs, and all the time spent in workplaces changing clocks be it physical or checking IT systems.

GettingStuffed · 28/10/2024 12:52

This affects me more than jetlag. I'm having to hang on until 1 for lunch

Opentooffers · 28/10/2024 12:50

I remember as a child walking home in the dark frequently from school for 45 mins. Felt far less safe with less people around than when dark in the morning. Also a further walk as could take short cuts through woodland and had to stick to main roads for safety. So otherwise could do it in half an hour - after school netball training from age 11, school goes beyond 3.30 for sport & clubs.

Opentooffers · 28/10/2024 12:42

This could be the only referendum I could get behind. I'd be in the sticking to BST camp. Hate the dark evenings. Gaining an hour daylight from 6 rather than 7 is pointless. Having to squeeze in walking the dog before dark all winter is deeply irritating. Should be a national vote on it.

AInightingale · 28/10/2024 12:39

Long gone are the days most children walked to school at 8.45am with their Mums!

I know where I am (NI) many older children leave the house to get buses at 7.45- 8.30; they certainly would be at much greater risk if they were walking around in the dark if BST was permanent. But I suspect there's an east/west divide over this.

HotTopicsWithImogen · 28/10/2024 12:34

I always feel a sense of relief when they go back. They need to stop with the BST.

stargirl1701 · 28/10/2024 12:28

I wish it would stop too.

And, yes, I live in Northern Scotland.

We leave the house in the dark in the morning anyway. I would far rather have a light afternoon til 4.30pm.

Long gone are the days most children walked to school at 8.45am with their Mums!

stayathomer · 28/10/2024 12:23

Daisydaisydaizee
I’ve kids and pets but because of midterm we were all up late so it worked out here!!

edited to add haven’t gotten 8 hours in years, more a healthy 6😅

Daisydaisydaizee · 28/10/2024 12:15

stayathomer · 27/10/2024 22:26

Loved it this morning-me: why do people complain- extra hour in bed, my eyes finally feel like they’ve had sleep! But longest day ever, don’t know that I’m a fan!!!!

I don't understand this extra hour thing. If your body is used to 8 hour sleep, you won't suddenly sleep 9 hours. Maybe for some people but not for all.
Also, when you have other responsibilities like kids, pets or a job, you cannot sleep that extra hour.

blobby10 · 28/10/2024 10:52

As I don't have young children these days, I love the October clock change as it means the mornings are lighter. However thanks to perimenopause/menopause I'm not sleeping very well at the moments (also I suspect due to the abnormally warm night time temps) so I haven't got the normal energy surge from the lighter mornings that I usually get.

I do feel for those with little ones though.

RubberyChicken · 28/10/2024 10:51

Tiedyesquad · 27/10/2024 21:12

God I love it when they go
back ! I can get up at 5 and feel like it's 6, and get so much done! And my children are happily going to bed now instead of wanking around all night.

That's teenage boys for you 😂

HornyHornersPinger · 28/10/2024 10:46

I always thought that we go an hour back to GMT in winter otherwise kids would be travelling to school in the dark.

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 28/10/2024 10:45

I love the clocks going back an hour. I mean, an extra hour in bed and it getting dark earlier is the dream! I really hate light evenings, messes with my body clock so bad and I spend all spring/summer an exhausted mess.

I feel so much better already!

When the clocks go forward I seem to get really bad jet lag.

KimberleyClark · 28/10/2024 10:20

When I was working I hated this time of year. Hated being in the office after dark, being able to see nothing through the windows but the office reflected back at me. Made me feel really trapped and anxious. So much better now I’m retired.

AInightingale · 28/10/2024 10:13

What I meant is we're now back to 'normal', ie GMT time. Which in Scotland and Ireland means brighter mornings in the winter, and dark around 4.30 pm in the depths of midwinter, stretching to 5.00 pm by end of January. What if the UK and Ireland stayed on GMT all year round rather than pushing the clocks on an hour in March? Wasn't it just a wartime innovation that became permanent?

DeathMetalMum · 28/10/2024 07:36

I woke at 5.30. Partly thanks to the cat who is used to us getting up at 6.30 during term time. While I am still at work this week I didn't actually need to get up until 7. I was also up v early yesterday. Normally it's the kids that take time to adjust, but they've both strolled down just after 7 which is normal for them when not at school.

Cappuccinowithonesugarplease · 28/10/2024 07:33

Not just you! I was gone on the sofa last night at 8pm 🤣

Cattyisbatty · 28/10/2024 07:32

I slept like a log last night after two bad night sleeps.

ncgfryhfdg · 28/10/2024 07:30

stormwarrierridesthewaves · 27/10/2024 21:41

I'm just glad we don't have to change them manually like we did when we were kids.

I remember one year, my dad put them forward when they should have gone back (he got confused and had it in his head that it was "fall forward" and "spring back").

We arrived at my grandparents house two hours early for Sunday lunch!

My ex worked weekends as part of his shift pattern, he did this one time and got to work 2 hours early😂 and as it was a Sunday nothing was open so he had to sit in the car😂😂😂

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ncgfryhfdg · 28/10/2024 07:23

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 27/10/2024 23:01

Are you normally ready for your sleep at 9.30pm then? That seems early.

Hasn't made much difference to me tbh. Especially as we gained an hours sleep. I still can't see the point in putting them back/forward though. I think it needs binning.

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its bizarre, I’m usually quite a late to bed type of person so I’m often up til gone 11pm!
thats why I’m so bemused, the clock change never really bothers me but this time it’s really got me for some reason.
Anyway I decided to try and ride it out as I knew if I slept too early I’d be wide awake at 4am so stayed awake til 10.30 then went to bed with a splitting headache.

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the80sweregreat · 28/10/2024 06:17

Grrrrf · 27/10/2024 20:51

I REALLY wish we could leave the clocks alone. Personally not bothered if year round GMT or BST but PLEASE JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE.

Seconded! I hate it all too

Puffinlamb23 · 28/10/2024 03:32

AInightingale · 27/10/2024 22:31

Do people in Ireland and Scotland even benefit much from BST anyway?

Honestly, as someone in Scotland I'd rather they didn't do it. I'd much rather have the daylight in the evening. It's thrown me off entirely and I'm still wide awake.

Topseyt123 · 28/10/2024 02:47

Linglong · 27/10/2024 23:00

I wish they’d leave things as they were and just stick with lighter evenings.

Me too I hate when clocks go back. Just stick with BST.

yeaitsmeagain · 28/10/2024 00:21

I'm all over the shop because I've been on holiday with a time difference, back a few hours and now it's changed to another one 😂 Plus I've lost loads of daylight hours all of a sudden because it was getting dark at 8pm abroad!!