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Vibrators on sale at Tesco, thought it was a bit much

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JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:10

Went to buy some toothpaste with my kids, 7 year old wants to see new toy in plastic boxes, it’s rows and rows of vibrators. Is it just me or is this a bit much for the weekly shop?

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ZippyDoodle · 27/10/2024 18:11

Will add it to my long list of reasons why I don't shop in Tesco.

WetBandits · 27/10/2024 18:11

ShowmetheBotox · 27/10/2024 17:54

It’s the slow creep of normalisation of sex around children.

Imagine chucking a rabbit on the conveyor belt during the weekly shop with your kids on a Saturday morning when it’s packed.

it’s unnecessary and you can get them next day delivery off Amazon .

I hope you never let your kids clap eyes on pregnant women! Wouldn’t want them to know that someone has had sex Confused

I probably wouldn’t buy a vibrator alongside my bread and milk with kids in tow, as I’m sure most customers wouldn’t, but saying it ‘normalises sex around children’ is a bit strange. Are you suggesting that they’d be using the product around their kids?

LBFseBrom · 27/10/2024 18:10

Completelyjo · 27/10/2024 17:13

I mean really what’s the difference between that and condoms?
One is for males and one is for females making it therefore so much more lewd?

Don't men use vibrators, or some men?

Condoms are contraception and protect against infection.

Vibrators are unnecessary for anyone who has a happy relationship.

Onehappymam · 27/10/2024 18:09

SerendipityJane · 27/10/2024 18:07

They'll be selling penis beakers next.

Looks like the ‘pleasure cup’ could be used for this purpose too! Win, win.

FlowersOfSulphur · 27/10/2024 18:09

I think it's a bit grim. Sexual health products such as condoms and pregnancy tests are one thing, but "Suction Simulator" (from PP's photo)? I felt a bit queasy even looking at that, and it's definitely not something I want to explain to my kids at this stage.

What next - blow-up dolls? Handcuffs and ball gags? No thank you. What people get up to in their private lives is precisely that - private - and I dislike the creeping normalisation of private practices into the public sphere.

TheKhakiBiscuit · 27/10/2024 18:09

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Differentstarts · 27/10/2024 18:08

JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:17

I guess if I could pick I’d probably put condoms behind the pharmacy counter too, I get that people may want to buy these items it’s just that as a parent I want to choose when my kids hear about these things rather than just get exposed to them.

If condoms where behind the pharmacy kids will be to embarrassed to ask for them. Surely we want our kids to have access to safe sex

Lavenderblossoms · 27/10/2024 18:08

Why is it disgusting?🤣

I mean it could be worse.

USA and their walmarts ( their version of Asda once) just casually has guns on the wall, in the same building as people's groceries.

Let's put it into perspective.

I'd rather rows of plastic cocks then something that kills someone.

Onehappymam · 27/10/2024 18:07

ThatLemonViewer · 27/10/2024 18:02

Why shouldn't men have their needs meet?

The small vibes that have been on sale for years can pleasure men or women.

A penis pump or life size dildo - don’t think there’s any need for them to be on sale at a supermarket.

SerendipityJane · 27/10/2024 18:07

They'll be selling penis beakers next.

DreamW3aver · 27/10/2024 18:06

Pulo · 27/10/2024 17:15

They’ve had vibrators by the condoms etc for years. Nothing new and not really anymore shameful than condoms

Not in my local Tesco they haven't, I must live in a prudish area 😁

viques · 27/10/2024 18:05

Onehappymam · 27/10/2024 18:01

Small vibes, lube, condoms… don’t see the big deal.

Penis pumps are a step too far. Really don’t see the need for these to be on sale in Tesco. What next? Nipple clamps? Spanking paddles? Where do you draw the line?

Maybe they could sell the nipple clamps and spanking paddles in the car accessories section with the spark plugs and WD40.

EgyptionJackal · 27/10/2024 18:05

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Serencwtch · 27/10/2024 18:04

JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:17

I guess if I could pick I’d probably put condoms behind the pharmacy counter too, I get that people may want to buy these items it’s just that as a parent I want to choose when my kids hear about these things rather than just get exposed to them.

Erm & have unplanned pregnancies and STI's instead.

Face it people are 'doing it' and have been since the beginning of time. Contraception & safe sex should not be hidden away.

Maybe if they've been walking past condoms since they were toddlers they won't feel embarrassed about buying them as teenagers.

Agree I wouldn't want a 'whats that mum' conversation with DC in a supermarket re a vibrator but as long as they are discrete & the packaging, names etc aren't graphic then there's no issue supermarkets selling them. Masturbating is normal & healthy. Blokes do it from early teens so why shouldn't women.

WestwardHo1 · 27/10/2024 18:04

JenniferBooth · 27/10/2024 17:21

The range is wider in some supermarkets including rabbit ones and fleshlight ones for men

Blimey

I've never seen vibrators in Tesco's. Maybe I haven't been looking hard enough

VioletCrawleyForever · 27/10/2024 18:04

Some of them are on club card prices 🤣

Barney16 · 27/10/2024 18:03

Sethera · 27/10/2024 17:35

The important question - do they have a special Club Card price?

You beat me to it.

RambleRedux · 27/10/2024 18:02

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viques · 27/10/2024 18:02

ShowmetheBotox · 27/10/2024 17:54

It’s the slow creep of normalisation of sex around children.

Imagine chucking a rabbit on the conveyor belt during the weekly shop with your kids on a Saturday morning when it’s packed.

it’s unnecessary and you can get them next day delivery off Amazon .

They also sell pregnancy testing kits, baby clothes, baby formula, encouraging young children to normalise the concept ( sorry) that people walking around in Tescos have had sex and got pregnant ! Though maybe if they promoted the condom aisle more they wouldn’t have to sell the end products of normalising sex around children,

ThatLemonViewer · 27/10/2024 18:02

Onehappymam · 27/10/2024 18:01

Small vibes, lube, condoms… don’t see the big deal.

Penis pumps are a step too far. Really don’t see the need for these to be on sale in Tesco. What next? Nipple clamps? Spanking paddles? Where do you draw the line?

Why shouldn't men have their needs meet?

TempestTost · 27/10/2024 18:02

Procrastinates · 27/10/2024 17:56

Sex is a normal adult activity though. Do you have the same problem with pregnancy tests being for sale or alcohol? You can after all but boy online.

Sure, it's normal, but not with kids around.

Same reason they didn't let kids into the porn section of the video store.

There are parents out there who allow all this kind of stuff openly in the home, including pornographic material. Or take their kids to sex expos with vendors selling all kinds of stuff.

There is definitely a line that is moving as far as what's appropriate for children to be around, and I don't think being so blase about that is going to be a good thing.

Onehappymam · 27/10/2024 18:01

Small vibes, lube, condoms… don’t see the big deal.

Penis pumps are a step too far. Really don’t see the need for these to be on sale in Tesco. What next? Nipple clamps? Spanking paddles? Where do you draw the line?

Nothatgingerpirate · 27/10/2024 18:01

It is too much.
45 yo.
Not interested in seeing vibrators in supermarkets.
😖😤

BunnyLake · 27/10/2024 18:01

Pyjamatimenow · 27/10/2024 17:18

It’s not like they’re selling dildos. You’re talking about those little bullet things. They’re not offensive objects.

I thought that was what it was going to be and I did feel shocked 😁 I only do Tesco online so haven’t come across them (not that I’d buy anyway).

I don’t think I could put that on the conveyor belt though, definitely one for the ‘self service’ (s’cuse the pun)

Barney16 · 27/10/2024 18:00

I haven't ever noticed. Bit that says more about me than Tesco.