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Vibrators on sale at Tesco, thought it was a bit much

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JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:10

Went to buy some toothpaste with my kids, 7 year old wants to see new toy in plastic boxes, it’s rows and rows of vibrators. Is it just me or is this a bit much for the weekly shop?

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Nevermind91 · 27/10/2024 20:35

Over the years, Tesco have put paid to milk deliveries, newspaper shops and many independent grocery shops. Why wouldn't they stuff (!) Ann Summers and Lovehoney too?
They have their fingers in just about everything.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 27/10/2024 20:34

I'll say it again

Children seeing sex toys, something for pleasure and that don't cause harm, is not worse than the constant exposure to poisons and gambling which vapes, cigarettes, alcohol and scratch cards are.

Please keep reporting me though

Procrastinates · 27/10/2024 20:33

Mrsknowitall · 27/10/2024 20:28

Normalised to children! Are you having a laugh? “Mummy, what are these” well son mummy inserts them into her fanny because it feels really good to the point I orgasm”
seriously I’m all for teaching kids about the birds and the bee’s but normalising sex toys to children is just plain perverted

I find it hard to take you seriously if this is the hypothetical conversation you'd have if a child asked you what they were... This nonsense would be much more damaging than learning Tesco sells sex toys. Hmm

Rocknrollstar · 27/10/2024 20:33

Where shall we hide the tampons and sanitary pads, not to mention the Tena.

Forwhatitsworth18 · 27/10/2024 20:32

My son when age 7 asked me how a baby got into my tummy. I told him everything. He was quite happy & went on to play. I don't think seeing products like this n Tesco would have bothered him.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 27/10/2024 20:31

Mrsknowitall · 27/10/2024 20:28

Normalised to children! Are you having a laugh? “Mummy, what are these” well son mummy inserts them into her fanny because it feels really good to the point I orgasm”
seriously I’m all for teaching kids about the birds and the bee’s but normalising sex toys to children is just plain perverted

Do you explain everything like that? In great detail?
Rather than just "it's something for adults. Let's move on"

Needmorelego · 27/10/2024 20:31

@Mrsknowitall no parent is going to say that to their young children though are they?

Lookingoutside · 27/10/2024 20:29

JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:17

I guess if I could pick I’d probably put condoms behind the pharmacy counter too, I get that people may want to buy these items it’s just that as a parent I want to choose when my kids hear about these things rather than just get exposed to them.

'these things'

😂😂😂

MartinCrieffsLemon · 27/10/2024 20:28

AlwaysGinPlease · 27/10/2024 20:17

@MartinCrieffsLemon You are sick. Reported your disgusting posts.

Please tell me what is disgusting and sick about what I've said? Genuinely?

Why is it OK to let kids be exposed to poisons but a sex toy they won't understand, in discreet packaging, is not ok? I'm not saying they should be using them!!!

Mrsknowitall · 27/10/2024 20:28

Procrastinates · 27/10/2024 17:19

But these things should be normalised. Condoms and vibrators are just normal parts of adult life no different from seeing alcohol and pregnancy tests. Hmm

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Normalised to children! Are you having a laugh? “Mummy, what are these” well son mummy inserts them into her fanny because it feels really good to the point I orgasm”
seriously I’m all for teaching kids about the birds and the bee’s but normalising sex toys to children is just plain perverted

suburburban · 27/10/2024 20:26

@Yelloworangetomato

So am I

Reserved101 · 27/10/2024 20:24

Completelyjo · 27/10/2024 20:02

By “not long ago” you’re talking decades, literally decades.

Here’s a vibrator stocked in supermarkets in 2005!

www.marketingweek.com/durex-sexual-enhancement-toy-on-sale-in-supermarkets/

That's not a butt plug?

Also, 19 years ago is not "literally decades".

tigger1001 · 27/10/2024 20:23

JustBrowsingTheWeb · 27/10/2024 17:22

Think education and culture are most important towards promoting safe sex, but at my Tesco pharmacy is literally in the same store not really a barrier, anyone mature enough to be having sex should definitely be able to overcome this “obstacle”

Jesus!!

Of course it's a barrier. Its making sex shameful that you have to ask at the counter to buy them.

It's far better that people can just pick them up and go through self service checkout.

Safe sex is paramount and overrides your so called moral outrage.

You would hate our local pharmacy - have a basket with loose packets of condoms - free of charge, just help yourself, on the shelf. No need to ask or pay.

Needmorelego · 27/10/2024 20:23

@FergusSingsTheBIues why are your children looking at them?

Needmorelego · 27/10/2024 20:22

@Missmarple87 I give up.
Perhaps you should have lived during puritan times or something.

Forwhatitsworth18 · 27/10/2024 20:21

Efrogwraig · 27/10/2024 18:59

We don't have them in our Tesco. I shall have to complain!

Where do you look? I want a laugh 🤣

FergusSingsTheBIues · 27/10/2024 20:21

It’s vulgar and makes my children really uncomfortable

Yelloworangetomato · 27/10/2024 20:21

Boing98 · 27/10/2024 17:12

I went down the party aisle and found some straws to clutch

Is it not pearls we clutch when we're being prudes?

And staws when the best argument we have it rather weak...

Anyway, I am the prude here too. Horrible thing to see in Tesco. Not OK.

Missmarple87 · 27/10/2024 20:21

Magnastorm · 27/10/2024 20:18

What is your point, exactly, then?

If it's that kids shouldn't be exposed to things for adults, presumably you think supermarkets shouldn't carry vapes, or tobacco, or booze or, I dunno, adult sized clothes either?

Fact is, things like this are all around us and it's up to parents to deal with the, not to expect everyone else to have to fanny around going online to buy something because you can't be arsed to explain what a discretely packaged tiny vibe is to a kid which is never going to ask what it is anyway.

I have made my point many times on this thread. And you are going to persist on suggesting it's about convenience, that is your issue with comprehension.

I'm going to leave this because, as a couple of people have said, there are some very creepy posters on this thread.

suburburban · 27/10/2024 20:20

I wouldn't feel comfortable buying this and it rolling down the conveyor belt with the frozen peas or through a self service till and it needs to be okayed by supervisor

User75235 · 27/10/2024 20:20

Clicked on this thread literally thinking it was "ON SALE" like, heavy discount and needed to know which Tesco. Big disappointment.

SwingTheMonkey · 27/10/2024 20:20

Forwhatitsworth18 · 27/10/2024 20:18

Thought I knew it all. What on earth is a flashlight apart from an emergency torch
😂

its actually a ‘flesh light’. A male maturbator.

ETA - looks like a torch but with a hole in it!!

Magnastorm · 27/10/2024 20:19

Missmarple87 · 27/10/2024 20:17

Nope, it not telling children they should have sex but it's the creeping exposure to a sexual world. The normalisation of bringing sexual preferences into the public sphere. For the thousandth time - something we used to agree as a society to keep children away from until it was appropriate. The breaking down of boundaries.

You have people on this thread trying to compare kids seeing a bottle of wine with a rampant rabbit which is deeply disturbing.

Once upon a time it was considered pushing it for a women to expose their ankles.

Fuck that. Times change.

Forwhatitsworth18 · 27/10/2024 20:18

justasking111 · 27/10/2024 17:24

Really. Flashlights aren't small are they? Admit I've never seen one in the flesh

Thought I knew it all. What on earth is a flashlight apart from an emergency torch
😂

Magnastorm · 27/10/2024 20:18

Missmarple87 · 27/10/2024 20:07

Nope you missed my point and just did it again.

It's got nothing to do with me not wanting to buy one, I don't agree they should be there for the very clear reasons I have set out. It's a matter of principle. I care!

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What is your point, exactly, then?

If it's that kids shouldn't be exposed to things for adults, presumably you think supermarkets shouldn't carry vapes, or tobacco, or booze or, I dunno, adult sized clothes either?

Fact is, things like this are all around us and it's up to parents to deal with the, not to expect everyone else to have to fanny around going online to buy something because you can't be arsed to explain what a discretely packaged tiny vibe is to a kid which is never going to ask what it is anyway.