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To think a birthday cake should only be substituted with another birthday cake

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Tillow4ever · 27/10/2024 12:59

And of the same type of cake?

It's my birthday later in the week and my son is home from uni this weekend, going back today. It was a bit of a last minute decision, so I decided to put a birthday cake on the Tesco home shop for us to have before he goes back.

I've just seen that they've substituted a white chocolate birthday cake (vanilla cake with raspberry jam and a white chocolate frosting) with 3 chocolate bombes instead. Not exactly sure what they are til they arrive, but they don't sound like any form of birthday cake, they don't sound like vanilla sponge (which is my favourite and why I picked that cake) and they aren't even white chocolate, which might have been more understandable had that been the sub.

Obviously I'll send them back and get a refund later in the week, but my local Tesco is a small one and doesn't stock that cake, and I haven't got time to nip out to buy one as I'm cooking a big roast dinner to try to get served up before the shopping gets delivered! There won't be time after the delivery as my son is due to leave not long after (depending on the time of the delivery of course).

Not exactly the biggest of problems in the world, but I never usually bother to do anything to celebrate my birthday, no one ever thinks to sort a cake out for me (I organise for everyone else's birthday in the house to make sure there's a cake they like) and I've not been having a great time lately so this has just really disappointed me.

Is it really too much to expect that if you order a birthday cake, if the shop is substituting it, another birthday cake should be selected? And it should be the same type/flavour of sponge that you were originally ordering, even if the decoration has to be different?

Sorry for the moan - please cheer me up with stories of your shitty home shopping substitutes or just general home shopping failures!

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HalloweenHaribo · 27/10/2024 13:19

They mustn't have had another birthday cake, but surely they could've subbed with some sort of cake??

As far as I know, a chocolate bomb is something you put in a mug and pour boiling water over to make hot chocolate?

NuffSaidSam · 27/10/2024 13:16

YANBU, it's annoying when the substitution is completely different to what you initially ordered.

I agree with pp though, send your son or DH out to get one for you. Why are they so rubbish on your birthday?

TooMuchRedMaybe · 27/10/2024 13:13

Get your son to go out and get you a cake. It's your birthday, shouldn't be your problem to sort the cake.

takealettermsjones · 27/10/2024 13:02

They definitely should, but these substitutes can be so strange. I don't usually shop online but have done a few times when kids are ill, and they once tried to substitute the Calpol I very much needed with some deep freeze spray, which wasn't even for children. The driver was nonplussed at that one too.

TheFluentReader · 27/10/2024 13:02

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