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AIBU to continuously request hybrid working and think management are being unfair

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HelloWorld2577 · 26/10/2024 18:37

I work for a relatively small company. We have three offices over the country and yet only one of our offices works on a hybrid basis - I think this is unfair.

Just to clarify my role is admin. My role can be done the same from home as in the office and all offices have the same structure, we are all exactly the same just in different locations.

All staff at one of our offices work hybrid (60 home 40 office) - capacity of the office is not an issue, their office is actually larger than ours with less staff. Their manager simply said they work better when at home with less distractions (as we would too as it can get very loud).

However in the office I work in, and the other office we have, all admin must work in office 100% but ALL other staff including managers can work from home whenever they please and even have set days to be at home etc.

I personally feel the company are treating employees unfairly, but I don't think theres anything whatsoever that can stop them doing this - unless there is?!? All employees should be treated the same IMHO but they are not.

Every single time I bring it up they make ridiculous excuses. I've asked to WFH before when childcares been a problem (over half terms etc) and they've said 'no as you will be caring for your child'. I can slightly understand that. But when I have questioned the fact the other office WFH and we cannot they have said we need more staff before we can WFH ... makes no sense? They've said some newer team members would need training to WFH, but yet we have no manager in office as they WFH, so they don't get anymore support being in office they'd still have to call the manager.

Anyone know where I stand with this? Do I keep requesting it for our team or just leave it as theres nothing I can do? Surely employers should have to treat all employees the same?

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Createausername1970 · 26/10/2024 18:51

DustyAmuseAlien · 26/10/2024 18:45

I think the fact that you have previously asked to WFH for childcare reasons has put them on guard. They don't want staff to be taking the piss and claiming to be working while actually doing childcare. They are quite reasonable to insist you work in the office if they can't be confident that you would actually do the work to the required standard at home.

That was my first thought too.

Just because you WFH you still have to make arrangements for child care during school holidays, they are concerned you are going to be faffing around with your kids instead of working.

Cordell · 26/10/2024 18:51

I do get their response to a degree. It's half term. Would you expect them to agree to you taking your kids to the office? Your attention will be on your kids, not your work 100% at home.

The fact that the other office gets the perk is unfair, granted. That's what i'd be concentrating my query on xx

ShowmetheBotox · 26/10/2024 18:49

Catza · 26/10/2024 18:40

They need to provide you with a reason in writing clearly demonstrating how your working from home will impact their business operations. Obtain this and go from there.

No they don’t.

She would have signed a contract stating the terms of employment.

If she doesn’t like it she can find a job that suits her better

SauviGone · 26/10/2024 18:48

I've asked to WFH before when childcares been a problem (over half terms etc) and they've said 'no as you will be caring for your child’.

Rightly so.

People who request this really do spoil it for everyone. It takes the piss.

ShowmetheBotox · 26/10/2024 18:47

I’ve voted YABU because you signed up for this. You can’t complain now as they don’t change the terms of your employment.

DustyAmuseAlien · 26/10/2024 18:45

I think the fact that you have previously asked to WFH for childcare reasons has put them on guard. They don't want staff to be taking the piss and claiming to be working while actually doing childcare. They are quite reasonable to insist you work in the office if they can't be confident that you would actually do the work to the required standard at home.

Catza · 26/10/2024 18:40

They need to provide you with a reason in writing clearly demonstrating how your working from home will impact their business operations. Obtain this and go from there.

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