On holiday and my partner wakes me and DC up to get up and go for breakfast. He rushes us to get ready and then leaves the table before we are finished. There is nothing to do where we are so he sits on the sun lounger with noise cancelling headphones and/or falls asleep. He doesn't have a stressful job, he has nothing to say and quite frankly I don't know what I am doing with him. Guess I've answered my own question there!