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Swim teaching - To struggle to think of reasonable adjustments for ADHD?

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Gotabadfeelingaboutthis · 23/10/2024 21:38

So Jenny (not real name) has ADHD and is a swimming teacher.
She presents in a very hyper state for work, is often late and arrives disheveled, disorganised and dysregulated. She also may not have the things she needs with her. In the pool, she is very heightened, which can present as either hyperactive and loud, or dysregulated, snappy, tearful etc. If the children in the pool are struggling to regulate, she becomes very frantic and cries. Jenny does have things going on in her personal life, but she leads a life which appears to lurch from one drama to another, and the people (family) around her exacerbate issues. To add balance, Jenny is also very thoughtful and kind, she does not have a good support network at home, and does want to do well at work.
Her workplace want to put in place reasonable adjustments to support her and enable her to do her job effectively but it is very difficult to think how her ADHD could be accommodated in a swimming pool setting, as things like a quiet room to work in, softer lighting, headphones on etc wouldn't work for a swimming teacher! In terms of her lateness, the way the business operates means she chooses which days she works already. It is so difficult balancing supporting her, with keeping the children in the pool safe and ensuring they are getting effective teaching. I would welcome any suggestions.

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September1013 · 23/10/2024 21:49

What does Jenny think would help?

Timekeeping needs to be managed eg setting alarms, preparing her bag well in advance, using checklists etc.

If she is finding the pool environment and/or the behaviour of the children overwhelming then I’m not sure there’s much that can be done.

Brombat · 23/10/2024 21:48

I am so much less fighty in the pool now I wear ear plugs when swimming. Obv teaching so can't wear full plugs but maybe the flare ones that reduce noise.

Defo a checklist for kit. I also have a crate that I put everything I need in to take with me. It's better than a bag as everything is visible.

Breathing exercises really help.

Big whiteboard with everything on it at home.

Externalise pretty much everything and try to keep life fairly simple. Do not get a puppy/kitten/new shiny object when other things are a priority.

Hercisback1 · 23/10/2024 21:46

Namechangencncnc · 23/10/2024 21:45

"A signal that she needs to leave the pool as she's becoming disregulated."
She can't do that though can she. There are children in the water.

Presumably someone has to take over when she cries?

Nameychangington · 23/10/2024 21:46

If the children in the pool are struggling to regulate, she becomes very frantic and cries

This isn't ok, for your employee or your customers. Being frantic and crying while non swimming children are in a swimming pool under your care cannot happen. Are you taking this seriously enough?

Namechangencncnc · 23/10/2024 21:45

"A signal that she needs to leave the pool as she's becoming disregulated."
She can't do that though can she. There are children in the water.

Ozanj · 23/10/2024 21:43

DS has adhd and we found his swimming improved massively when he was being taught 1-2-1 at the tail ends of Sunday eg 7:30am or 4pm. So maybe 1-2-1 sessions when it’s less busier might help. I agree that equipment for all the instructors should already be at the poolside.

ScaryGrotbag · 23/10/2024 21:43

I say this kindly as someone who has ADHD, she needs to learn to regulate herself, be on time and be organised for class. If she genuinely can't do these things, she needs another job. I often am too loud and come across as hyper, my life is one crisis to the next (through no fault or neglect, it's just life!) I teach dance. I've learned to articulate that the students need to politely tell me if I'm getting too loud. I'm always on time, I always aim to be there half an hour early so if I'm ten minutes late in still 20 early. I keep lists of stuff I need for special events but for normal classes I keep everything together in one bag. I've always chosen jobs that work for me and the way I am and I recognise that I'm not suited to all jobs.

Hercisback1 · 23/10/2024 21:42

Teach smaller groups or 1:1 lessons.
Gaps between classes (obviously this costs you so may be unrealistic).
Teaching the same level where possible, and having a routine that is used every lesson. When the routine needs mixing up, print laminated cards with the different routines on.
Praise for success, small wins.
A signal that she needs to leave the pool as she's becoming disregulated.

Singleandproud · 23/10/2024 21:42

Can she work with the higher level groups who will cope with the hyper aspect alot better than a worried 4 year old at their first lesson?

Frozensnow · 23/10/2024 21:40

What thoughts does Jenny have on the matter? What has she tried so far to help her work more successfully?

Octavia64 · 23/10/2024 21:39

Give her a locker where the stuff she needs can be kept at work

Create a tick list of what she should have in the locker at all times

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