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Sleepdeprivedmamma · 23/10/2024 21:16

Hello!

Im 37+3
i have to be induced next weekend as i suddenly have really high blood pressure and my placenta has started to slow down (they knew this from a blood test and then a scan that confirmed the placenta is starting to calcify).

terrified of an induction after two really good very very quick births with my first two, they were both a week overdue i feel like thats just when my body is ready so to force it at 39 weeks feels scary - but obviously whatever is safest for baby !

anyway went for a sweep today - as i suspected she said she couldnt really do it as i wasnt ready but that my cervix was soft and shortening ‘only has about 2cm left’ - what does that actually mean?

any positive induction stories?

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BiffandChip2 · 03/11/2024 06:19

Honestly not bad. My first induction was long and drawn out - if I'd known it was going to be I'd have been OK.

Had another induction 18m later all fine. Rods were used this time - way better

Had a third induction 2 years 1m after that - the easiest one.

You'll be fine. Stay calm ❤️

Sleepdeprivedmamma · 03/11/2024 06:18

@SALaw i think its a mixture of hearing soo many bad things about induction/ the fact its so different and early to my other births and hugely that my eldest is autistic with high care needs so im worried if it ends in a section because my body isnt ready - recovery would be a lot harder / worried about the fact generaly nobody helps with DC1 but today they will be and that will be hard for all of them x

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RandomMess · 03/11/2024 05:34

Easy to say but try and stay relaxed.

Flowers
SALaw · 03/11/2024 04:23

What are you terrified about? I was induced with my first and it was non invasive or at least as non invasive as a sweep. I went into labour about 12 hours later and that was it?

marmamumma · 03/11/2024 04:17

Good luck! Don't be afraid to ask for a c-section if you are getting worried/ lack of progress etc. After 2 quick previous births all should be well though.

dogfail · 03/11/2024 03:33

I haven't had a sweep but I had an induction. I had a pessary , labour started about ten hours after it was put in. Labour was about 2.5 hours (similar to last labour which was not induced) Good luck .

T1Dmama · 03/11/2024 02:07

Good luck @Sleepdeprivedmamma - you got this… just remember you’ll be meeting your baby soon xx the calmer you are the easier the birth, you don’t want your body all tense and fighting against its natural instincts x

Needanewname42 · 03/11/2024 01:08

Calm and all will be fine.
You'll be meeting that baby soon.
Get something down loaded onto your phone, so you have something to watch that will take your mind off what's happening or not as the case maybe.

Standup Comedy stuff is good, doesn't matter to much if you get interrupted you might miss one punch line but not the whole film

Sleepdeprivedmamma · 03/11/2024 00:50

Hi!

really grateful for everyones messages

going in to hospital for induction tommorrow (well today now i guess) at 12
soooo nervous
had 3 failed sweeps and then when the midwife couldnt do it today she got another midwife to do it (fun) she said still 2cm of length left
she said i was 1cm dialated but i think
at this point they felt sorry for me as i was a bit teary with worry
i asked about my bishop score but was just palmed off x

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Elphamouche · 28/10/2024 22:34

Mumof2girls2121 · 28/10/2024 21:46

@Elphamouche it’s the interventions that are the bad part! Every mother I know who had induction had interventions.
My first was late no induction labour naturally gas and air all fine. 2nd induction, forceps delivery.

But I didn’t have a bad experience so I would still go down that route. My baby was stuck and would have been stuck REGARDLESS of the induction.

Mumof2girls2121 · 28/10/2024 21:46

Elphamouche · 23/10/2024 23:55

Not always. I did it on gas an air. I would like to be induced again should I have another baby as I was happy with how it went - and we had to have interventions and I had a PPH. But I was still happy with the induction process.

@Elphamouche it’s the interventions that are the bad part! Every mother I know who had induction had interventions.
My first was late no induction labour naturally gas and air all fine. 2nd induction, forceps delivery.

T1Dmama · 26/10/2024 23:27

I do hope you’re doing ok @Sleepdeprivedmamma and baby is ok

AttendanceNightmares · 25/10/2024 00:15

With my second baby I had a sweep at 41 weeks and I wasn't dilated or softened or shortened atall. She was still born naturally the next day.

But the positive is your cervix is already getting ready. Good luck!

MaryMary6589 · 25/10/2024 00:11

I was induced with my first at 39+6 for gestational diabetes.

6 hours on the drip from start to finish. Managed with the TENS machine and a bit of gas and air towards the end. No interventions. Was absolutely fine.

Second came at 41+5. Not induced. 9 hours from first contraction to birth. No pain relief, no interventions.

I preferred my induced birth as it felt more organised.

Mamanyt · 24/10/2024 23:51

Quick story here. After laboring 36 hours with my first, my NEW doctor promised I would not go through that again. I was induced, had THREE contractions over the course of half an hour, and gave birth to a perfectly healthy baby boy.

LilySLE · 24/10/2024 23:10

I was induced with #2 having had a spontaneous vaginal delivery with #1. Started drip about 1pm, contractions in full flow by 3pm, baby out by 8pm (actual delivery so quick it took midwife by surprise). Just gas and air with both labours (although they left it very late before I had it with #2 - I don’t think they expected it to move so quickly), and no interventions or stitches (I did the perineal massage thing in the lead up). I do feel fortunate, but it sounds from other messages on here that there are lots of equally positive stories, so please try not to worry too much!

AuntieObnoxious · 24/10/2024 22:37

2 inductions here & both positive experiences. 1st on my due date because my waters had broken the day before and labour hadn’t started. It was about 7 hours from induction to birth but not painful, I only used a tens machine until gas & air at the end. The birth then went pear shaped as my ds had shoulder dystopia & got stuck but this was nothing to do with being induced. With my 2nd I was induced because the issues with the 1st birth it needed to be managed and the registrar needed to be present for the birth. I therefore had a newly qualified midwife sit with me throughout labour. The birth was so quick and painless my dd was born within a hour. I said I need to push, she pushed the button for everyone to come running and dd literally shot out before the registrar and everyone had time to get to room.
Good luck 🤞

3rdsunshine · 24/10/2024 20:24

3rd babies are easier to give birth to , your body knows what its doing. I was induced at 36 weeks with my 3rd baby due to preeclampsia, it was an amazing birth , very quick and pain free.
your body just knows !
good luck , take a nice bath, enjoy time with your family before heading to hospital, have nice meal, reeeelax and let us know how it went ! all best

birdglasspen2 · 24/10/2024 19:37

Ask for a balloon induction or waters burst? I think they are better inductions. You’ve had two good births so quite possibly this will act in your favour. An induction early for a first time isn’t ideal but I think you’ll be ok.

Nottodaythankyou123 · 24/10/2024 19:02

DD2 had an induction but only needed my waters broken in the end, arrived within 4 hours and contractions were no worse than with DD1 (to be fair that was also a quick birth around 4 hours so contractions were pretty intense anyway, but induction ones weren’t any worse). Good luck! X

Thebellofstclements · 24/10/2024 19:00

My second was induced two weeks early. The first had been very quick (they were huge, back to back and had shoulder distocia. I suffered a 3rd degree tear... but I digress). I was keen to not have a full term baby and was living in a country where mothers had some autonomy so had an indiction. The second was similarly fast after I swallowed the pill, but in a proper delivery room with full medical staff including a doctor.
Absolutely great, couldn't fault it. I was back gently walking the dog and pram 3 days later (obviously with my husband as well), unthinkable after the first one.

Lilacrose27 · 24/10/2024 18:54

I had an induction with my baby and it was a really positive experience they told me it could be upto 5days before baby appeared had some gel inserted and was told I’d be checked again a few hours later and they would see if they could break my waters but that I’d probably need the gel 4 times before anything happened and they could break my waters 4hrs later my waters broke and my little girl was born 7hrs after that. definitely do your research and make informed choices and don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself too!

Username33141973 · 24/10/2024 18:45

Sorry I haven’t read the whole thread so not sure if anyone else has had my experience. I was induced at 42 weeks with my son and it was a horrendous experience. Forceps, cord wrapped twice round his neck - emergency etc. So when I was pregnant with my daughter I was determined not to go through it again. When I got to 41 weeks and induction was again being mentioned, I went to an Acupuncturist at a well renowned clinic locally to me. It was amazing. Saw her twice and she told me to come back on the Monday if nothing had happened. Sunday morning labour started smoothly and gently and my baby was born that afternoon after a really manageable labour. If I had my time over again, I would 100% go the same route. Good luck - I hope everything works out wonderfully well for you!

Namechangedididittoo · 24/10/2024 18:40

I was induced and from the minute they started it until my child was born was 16.5 minutes

HappyMummaOfOne · 24/10/2024 18:40

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