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A Maximum BMI for nurses

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soapydopeybubbles · 23/10/2024 20:17

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/10/21/how-public-thinks-nhs-should-change/

According to the Telegraph one of the most popular ideas for improving the NHS is to have a maximum BMI for nurses. This is from the website set up for suggestions but also continues in the comments for the article.

I'm a neonatal nurse and I am classed as obese. I wear L/XL scrubs and I'm a dress size 14-16.

Does the public honestly think that I'd be a better nurse if I was thinner? Or, as written in the comments, if I wore a cap and apron, had no tattoos and didn't dye my hair?

I'm a large woman but I'm pretty sure I wasn't magically better and making up complex medications, changing ridiculously tiny nappies and resuscitating sick newborns when I was rather thinner than I am now.

I can see why people might have the opinion that if we're giving out health advice we should lead by example but it's mainly the doctors giving the advice and the nurses doing the hands on caring.

I just don't understand why there seems to be such a focus on how a particular staff group looks, rather than the actual issues in the NHS.

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Weight limits for nurses and charging tourists – how public thinks NHS should change

Bizarre online suggestions blight first day of Government’s consultation

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/10/21/how-public-thinks-nhs-should-change

OP posts:
5128gap · 24/10/2024 10:54

The problem is that the NHS is getting the messaging wrong. People taking umbridge at an OW nurse discussing weight loss would be no more receptive to it from a thin nurse, because the problem is what is being said, not the appearance of the speaker. All that's happening with OW nurses is their appearance provides an easy target for the offended to lash out in retaliation.
Rather than trying to change the messenger in the hopes the audience will be receptive, they need to change the message. The general consensus is that vanishingly few OW people need to be told they are OW, that being OW carries a health risk, or that diet management and excercise are the first resorts to address being OW. If a person is OW its reasonable to assume they know all this but are OW despite it. So the solutions are trying to address the wrong problem.
It would be a great deal more helpful to offer a dialogue starting with, "Would you like to discuss any issues around diet?" And address this to everyone. Because there are plenty of other issues people may have related to food and nutrition that isn't just about being OW, like diet in menopause, or diet to manage specific health conditions.

Sharptonguedwoman · 24/10/2024 10:11

Nospecialcharactersplease · 23/10/2024 20:24

People are dicks. But also, I wonder whether it isn’t a sort of imagined nostalgia where people want to go back to a time they’ve seen in the films where dainty nurses in starched uniforms had time to bustle about patients offering copious cups of tea and doing hospital corners on the bed linen. A kind of knee jerk reaction to the chaos of the modern NHS.

I think this is the answer, really. A sort of nostalgic, cartoon version of what people think a nurse looks like. Probably somewhere around 1962.
Tattoos at that time would have been an absolute no-no and dyed hair, similarly. Some people are of the same mindset now. before anyone jumps down my throat, DD has both tattoos and green hair.

Maverickess · 24/10/2024 09:44

Thing is society wants these perfect, slim nurses who 'practice what they preach' but they also want the nurses to not take the breaks because someone is pressing their buzzer, there aren't enough staff and the patients should come first, to work the 12 hour shifts, to work the night shifts, provide flawless care (and then the unpaid overtime to get everything done) but then to eat well, take exercise and get enough sleep as well - so they can do it all again the next day but be thin while they do it.

You can't have a culture where hcps are not given the time and resources to look after themselves, an attitude where they must come last in every scenario and put everyone & everything else above their own wellbeing and then be surprised that the hcps are not looking after themselves and one of the results is obesity and the health issues that brings.

I mean sure, let's get rid of all the overweight hcps. That's what the NHS needs, less nurses. What a smashing idea. Let's not look to change the culture that has led to this in the first place, let's just rid ourselves of the concequences of it and carry on regardless.

minisoksmakehardwork · 24/10/2024 09:08

It can be quite galling to have a clearly overweight medical professional tell you to lose weight and that will fix a lot of your problems.

But that sort of thing just makes me smirk internally. I know I have a medical condition which makes weight loss very difficult if left untreated. I'd assume that the nurse may have similar condition or be grabbing a quick snack between patients and long shifts which means healthy eating plans aren't always achievable. It boggles my mind that the nhs as an organisation doesn't permit structure to practise what they preach, with proper rest breaks. Access to gyms etc.

At least my work facilitates gym use every lunch time, with a mandatory hour lunch break, ranging from yoga to circuits. We also have a monthly wellbeing hour where we are encouraged to participate in sport or other mindfulness activities.

Calliopespa · 24/10/2024 09:07

AlexaSetATimer · 24/10/2024 01:22

Agree.

It's bizarre to be lectured by someone who is at least ten points further up the BMI scale and gets out of breath walking back with you to reception.

I can see why people think health professionals (all, not just nurses) should be practising what they preach and keeping a healthy weight. I know it's not easy with stress, shifts, etc but don't lecture me if you're way way fatter than me!

Maybe it’s your knee-jerk attitude that you are being lectured not advised that is the problematic issue here.

Anyway when do all these fat lectures take place? I’ve never walked into a hospital and been cornered by a nurse telling me to lose weight. I’m guessing it’s when operation waitlists mean the hospitsl has to save face by saying “ well you need to lose weight first anyway,” in which case the issue is the patient’s “wait” not the nurse’s weight.

KimberleyClark · 24/10/2024 09:04

Chipsandcheeseandgravy · 23/10/2024 21:11

If I'm going to be completely honest, I wouldn't want any health professional caring for me who didn't take their own health seriously.

I'm a health professional myself and whilst I'm not holier than thou about it, I do try to take good care of myself by watching what I eat (most of the time!) and exercising regularly. I strive to set a good example to myself, my colleagues and the patients I work with. I take pride in myself and pride in my job.

As a society, we've normalised over eating, snacking, and being a couch potato. We all have a responsibility to look after ourselves. There's a shocking amount of obesity in this country, it's so worrying.

I know my view is in the minority and there will be about 50 posters piling on me any second to tell me about their 20 stone sister who is 5 foot tall and works 60 hours a week as a paramedic and runs marathons every weekend and how awful I am for judging people on weight.

Oh the irony. “Not holier than thou about it” my substantial hypothyroid arse.

Calliopespa · 24/10/2024 09:01

Willyoujustbequiet · 23/10/2024 23:46

I know it's not the point of the thread but at a 14-16 you aren't large, I think that's pretty much average.

Edited

Oh don’t even start! You’ll bring out the “ society has lost track of what healthy looks like. Ribs should be protruding” brigade, who, I might add, ply their craft with no thought whatsoever for those with body image struggles and eating disorders.

Calliopespa · 24/10/2024 08:58

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 24/10/2024 08:06

I don't mind being given weight-loss advice by a fellow fat person. I'm in my 50s and have always been fat and know what I should be able to do to reduce it. An overweight HCP likewise knows they are overweight and what to do about it, and knows that I know the theory, too, after 50 years of hearing it. None of it is news to either of us. Their job is to give me advice, not to demonstrate their marvellous thinness, and I prefer to receive that advice from someone who has the same struggles as I do, rather than from some snotty, skinny, 'massive salad'-eating, lollipop head who regards me with revulsion and disdain.

Very well said . “ Their job is … not to demonstrate their marvellous thinness.” 😂

Calliopespa · 24/10/2024 08:55

Savingthehedgehogs · 24/10/2024 06:29

It’s discriminatory in my view

It absolutely is.

How and why people can’t see that I cannot begin to fathom.

I think with so many avenues for discrimination shut down these days, ( which I agree with), this leaves behind a group who itch to discriminate as part of their very nature so they have to direct their proclivities with full force at obesity because it is one of the last remaining discriminatory outlets sanctioned by society.

I’m always a bit repulsed by how predictably posters will try to shut down use of words like wrinkly or scrawny on these threads discussing things like “grossly overweight” and muffin tops because thin people don’t deserve such awful language. The hypocrisy inherent in the weight threads is rife.

PepoAmericano · 24/10/2024 08:43

Hilarious concept. Wd already employed mostly women into these underexposed and underpaid posts, why don't we reduce the numbers even more 😂

Frequency · 24/10/2024 08:19

A 14-16 could be obese if you're quite short. I'm 5ft8 and currently a size 18(ish) and I'm obese. Only just, my bmi is 30.5 but it's still classed as obese.

That's not to say someone with that BMI cannot manage being a nurse. I work in a hospital and I spend all day running around and up and down stairs and I manage just fine, thanks.

I don't want to move or exercise when I get home but I cope at work without any issues, even when carrying heavy equipment around.

If anything I'm coping less well after loosing weight because I'm in a calorie deficit and therefore have less energy to spend on moving around.

Katemax82 · 24/10/2024 08:10

I believe the workload of the NHS makes it hard for staff to maintain healthy weight. So how is penalising overweight staff going to help? Ps, are you sure 14/16 is obese?

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 24/10/2024 08:06

I don't mind being given weight-loss advice by a fellow fat person. I'm in my 50s and have always been fat and know what I should be able to do to reduce it. An overweight HCP likewise knows they are overweight and what to do about it, and knows that I know the theory, too, after 50 years of hearing it. None of it is news to either of us. Their job is to give me advice, not to demonstrate their marvellous thinness, and I prefer to receive that advice from someone who has the same struggles as I do, rather than from some snotty, skinny, 'massive salad'-eating, lollipop head who regards me with revulsion and disdain.

JohnCravensNewsround · 24/10/2024 08:04

It's called goady shite and best ignored.

Dymaxion · 24/10/2024 08:00

IME, the role of a community nurse is not physically demanding - they are mainly concerned with assessments, changing wound dressings, emotional support to people, reporting back to district nurses for any further action.

@setmestraightplease In between catheter changes, nephrostomy care, Picc line care and disconnecting chemo therapy, dealing with complex wounds that require NPWT, palliative care, doppler assessments and compression bandaging, draining pleural effusions and abdominal ascites, I have been known to change the odd dressing Wink

Gallowayan · 24/10/2024 07:47

It's the Telegraph, just ignore it.

dragonfliesandbees · 24/10/2024 07:43

Savingthehedgehogs · 24/10/2024 07:24

Like we have such a huge surplus of excellent nurses that we can pick and choose what they look like?!

This is just ludicrous! And hideous discriminatory fat shaming I am afraid. I guess the telegraph must be desperate to resort to this kind of journalism, and I do read it occasionally and will be rethinking my options.

Edited

Surely it’s about being physically fit enough to do the job rather than about looks? But BMI alone doesn’t tell you anything about a person’s fitness so it’s still a bollocks idea.

ManyATrueWord · 24/10/2024 07:41

I'd love to see the lawsuit on this! Massive sex discrimination payout not to mention the inappropriate use of BMI.

Tereseta · 24/10/2024 07:30

Maybe instead of attacking nurses bmi they should look at raising staffing levels so they have time for a proper break and provide healthy options to eat in hospitals.
Of all the issues in the NHS this can not be even in the top 50, article is bizarre

ClytemnestraWasMisunderstood · 24/10/2024 07:27

soapydopeybubbles · 23/10/2024 20:44

I promise that I don't usually read The Telegraph. The article popped up on Google news and I couldn't stop myself.

I understand that I'm overweight and that being overweight is associated with health issues. I know that my diet is awful and that there are lifestyle changes I could make that would benefit my health.

However, I also work shifts, take antidepressants associated with weight gain, care for my terminally ill Dad and have two young children with challenging additional needs.

I know I shouldn't take it personally but it's really got under my skin.

When I started my training (pre-university nursing), there were height and weight limits!
You had to be a minimum of 5'2" and and appropriate weight for height (under or overweight)
This was for practical reasons - lifting for example (yes, I know that aids are available now, this was over 40 years ago) and based on the fact that no-one is going to take dietary and nutrition advice from an over/underweight professional.
Now, nobody gives a damn because "i can have a jab to take it away'

Savingthehedgehogs · 24/10/2024 07:24

Like we have such a huge surplus of excellent nurses that we can pick and choose what they look like?!

This is just ludicrous! And hideous discriminatory fat shaming I am afraid. I guess the telegraph must be desperate to resort to this kind of journalism, and I do read it occasionally and will be rethinking my options.

Aquamarineeyes · 24/10/2024 07:20

In 2022 to 2023, 64.0% of adults aged 18 years and over in England were estimated to be overweight or living with obesity. Not sure why they are focussing on nurses being fat. I doubt that having lean and hungry nurses is going to inspire the other 64% of the population to stop eating far too many calories.

DreadPirateRobots · 24/10/2024 07:16

The "ideas to fix the NHS" thread on here was basically the same thing, i.e. people's personal pet peeves, most of which would cost rather than save money.

dragonfliesandbees · 24/10/2024 07:13

DinosaurMunch · 23/10/2024 23:57

Nurses are in teams generally. There may be some older arthritic ones or some younger inexperienced ones. Or middle aged ones with various health conditions. Or some people may not have the patience or personality to deal well with certain situations. As long as someone can still do most of the nursing tasks does it matter that they might be less able at some? Most nursing doesn't require running about. There's a shortage of nurses.

Nursing is an active job, so despite their obesity these nurses are probably still relatively fit and able to do the job.

Staffing on the ward I used to work on was three nurses plus one clinical support worker. Having even one nurse who was unable to do certain tasks would have an impact. I don’t work on the wards any more but am in a similar sized team now. One of my colleagues has various health conditions, including obesity. There are a few tasks she struggles with that usually fall to me. It’s starting to be expected that I will just do certain things because I’ll be quicker than she will. I often have to interrupt what I am doing to go and help her and it is really starting to have an impact on my ability to keep up with my own workload.

A maximum BMI is not the way to go. Too simplistic. But I do believe nurses should be physically capable of doing their jobs. It’s not fair to expect others to pick up the slack.

But, as you say, there is a shortage of nurses so there’s no guarantee we could replace her were she to move to another role that would suit her better. I’m not sure what the answer is.

mids2019 · 24/10/2024 07:01

It's a contentious issue but we continually told that obesity costs the NHS a vast deal of money with the implicit suggestion we have a national duty to lose weight to protect the NHS. I think this attitude gets people's backs up and they look at overweight nurses and start to feel there is hypocrisy in the NhS messaging. Orient correct obviously but this perspective exists.

I think also there is a tendency for the middle class including medics to view obesity as the scourge of the feckless poor so there is a stigma that may make its way into the general view of patients. Sometimes I think 50 something well.educated healthy medics with considerable income pontificating about healthy life style can be grating.