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What tat are you trying not to buy??

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Merryoldgoat · 20/10/2024 10:01

Following on from last weeks ‘what’s pissed you off today’ thread, today I’m asking ‘What tat are you trying not to buy?’

I keep seeing paint by numbers kits on Facebook and I think today I’ll succumb 🧐

Been trying to resist as clearly it’ll never be worth displaying but I have zero willpower so watch this space…

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Owly11 · 20/10/2024 16:47

Anything that promises to make my life easier or warmer, but ends up unused in a kitchen cupboard, drawer, attic or garage. Been eyeing up steam cleaners, electric cleaners, and carpet cleaners recently.

Ophy83 · 20/10/2024 16:46

Journeyintomelody · 20/10/2024 10:12

Im always tempted by a pain by numbers set, moleskin notebooks and cross stitch pattern?!
Currently trying to stay off vinted however DD has just had another growth spurt - put her in a tartan Christmas dress this morning so she can get some wear out of it. It will probably be too small by December. A Strava subscription is tempting but unnecessary (I just want to see my stats!!). Also since the weather has changed I want to buy and eat copious amounts of food...not exactly tat but will be avoiding all supermarkets when hungry. DD has to go in fancy dress for Halloween, I managed to avoid spending money on a costume will wear once, however, Christmas pyjamas are too hard to resist...

My aunty always gives my kids Christmas PJs as an early Christmas present at the beginning of December so at least they get a decent amount of use out of them throughout the advent period. The elves then give them some fancy PJs to wear on Christmas eve and Christmas morning. The fancy PJs tend to get worn a lot more than the Christmas ones throughout the rest of the year

ifIwerenotanandroid · 20/10/2024 16:45

EffinMagicFairy · 20/10/2024 11:27

Quite liking some of the crochet Christmas decorations that keep popping up, very tempted but never done crochet, attempted knitting which never got completed, did complete cross stitches. Thinking crochet will take me away from mindless scrolling in the evening and stop me making bigger purchases of stuff I don’t actually need. A crochet Christmas Tree decoration is within my attention span.

Beware! Yarn addiction is real.

suburburban · 20/10/2024 16:44

@Superworm24

Those would make excellent Christmas presents

SouperWorm · 20/10/2024 16:42

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:41

Sorry! Lol….

And now mine too 🤭

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:41

Superworm24 · 20/10/2024 16:40

Sold! They're back on my list.

Sorry! Lol….

Superworm24 · 20/10/2024 16:40

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:39

Even cutting turnip or butternut squash is like cutting through butter. I did cut myself as well so need to be careful with them.

Sold! They're back on my list.

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:39

Superworm24 · 20/10/2024 16:36

Argh no! I had told myself they would be rubbish and that I would treat myself to some expensive ones in the new year. I suppose there's always black Friday?

Even cutting turnip or butternut squash is like cutting through butter. I did cut myself as well so need to be careful with them.

Superworm24 · 20/10/2024 16:36

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:34

I got the ninja knives with he sharpening block on prime day. They are brilliant.

Argh no! I had told myself they would be rubbish and that I would treat myself to some expensive ones in the new year. I suppose there's always black Friday?

VimtoVimto · 20/10/2024 16:36

sangriaandsunshine · 20/10/2024 12:38

Would you like to borrow my DH? He's very nice, a good sense of humour and an excellent cook but he does stand outside any sort of shop other than a supermarket muttering "it's tat" or "it's expensive tat" or, on being shown something which I have bought, asking "but what is it for?". This has rather cramped my love of tat buying.

It sounds like my husband. He’ll ask why I need it and will I use it. It was a lot easier before he WFH.

OptimisticMermaid · 20/10/2024 16:34

Superworm24 · 20/10/2024 11:35

I've also looked into the dipping powder nail stuff. No idea if it's any good but I can't even find the time to file or paint my nails most weeks so it's doubtful that it would get used.

Mines always kitchen items. I found prime day difficult! Those ninja knives with the sharpening block, a new air fryer, the kitchen aid I've wanted for the last 20 years... I didn't buy anything. Ninja and shark (think they are the same company!) was made with me in mind.

I got the ninja knives with he sharpening block on prime day. They are brilliant.

Derrymum123 · 20/10/2024 16:27

Stationery I don't need. If it is reduced then I will buy it. Pens, notebooks, erasers, you name it. That section of the supermaket has an invisible, strong magnetic pull on me. I just have to wander down the stationery aisles if I pop in.

Crunchymum · 20/10/2024 16:26

IKEA shit.

Needed a few larger bits (£370) yet there is almost £500 worth of stuff in my basket!! I keep going back to it, to see what I really do / don't need. Can't quite decide what to cull.

Think I'm just going to get DP to order what we need, minus all the crap.

Bobbinsbop · 20/10/2024 16:21

a punch needle kit - in my head I will creat something fab in reality i'm awful at anything crafty.
a lip stain i keep seeing on tiktok I really want it but hardly ever wear make up

Zebracat · 20/10/2024 16:19

Ruthietuthie · 20/10/2024 16:00

Definitely tat. I REALLY want to buy some tomb-stones for our front garden. We live in an area (in the US) where a lot of the neighborhood decorates for Halloween (and where upwards of 5000 children come trick or treating on Halloween evening). I can't find any that aren't cheap, nasty, made of painted foam... and don't want these, as I want something I can bring out every year. But I also know that REALLY I don't need these things. My little boy wants to decorate, and it would be fun, plus our front garden would be perfect for this, but I am trying to resist.

I’m not very crafty, but I would have thought you could knock up some tombstones out of cardboard and paint, or even cast some from concrete if you want to get fancy. As it’s a big thing in the community, you could maybe invite your neighbours to a home made Halloween workshop?

Ramblomatic · 20/10/2024 16:13

I'm desperately, desperately trying to resist the temptation of buying a load of those Treasure X/Zuru Smashers 'unboxing' toys.

Not for a kid, for me.

I'm 40 😭

Ruthietuthie · 20/10/2024 16:09

Thank you, @BunnyLake. It's a historic neighborhood in the middle of a big city, so children from all over the city come here. Last year, my next door neighbors gave out two sacks (like the size of a large sack of potatoes) full of treats. We set up a stand in front of our house offering treats for children and cocktails for accompanying parents. Last year we served Mint Juleps. The whole neighborhood gets involved.

BunnyLake · 20/10/2024 16:04

Ruthietuthie · 20/10/2024 16:00

Definitely tat. I REALLY want to buy some tomb-stones for our front garden. We live in an area (in the US) where a lot of the neighborhood decorates for Halloween (and where upwards of 5000 children come trick or treating on Halloween evening). I can't find any that aren't cheap, nasty, made of painted foam... and don't want these, as I want something I can bring out every year. But I also know that REALLY I don't need these things. My little boy wants to decorate, and it would be fun, plus our front garden would be perfect for this, but I am trying to resist.

5000 wow. I’ve lived in my house for thirteen years and have never had a single trick or treater. I’m hidden away so people don’t even know it exists (which I love).

Hope you find your stones 🤞

BunnyLake · 20/10/2024 16:01

Nothing. I never buy tat or ‘stuff’ unless it has a specific purpose. I used to be a bit of a spender but have had a lot of money stresses over the years so now that I feel more settled I have no desire to buy anything unless I need it. The last thing I did buy though which hopefully won’t become ‘stuff’ is a slow cooker.

Ruthietuthie · 20/10/2024 16:00

Definitely tat. I REALLY want to buy some tomb-stones for our front garden. We live in an area (in the US) where a lot of the neighborhood decorates for Halloween (and where upwards of 5000 children come trick or treating on Halloween evening). I can't find any that aren't cheap, nasty, made of painted foam... and don't want these, as I want something I can bring out every year. But I also know that REALLY I don't need these things. My little boy wants to decorate, and it would be fun, plus our front garden would be perfect for this, but I am trying to resist.

YellowphantGrey · 20/10/2024 15:57

merryhouse · 20/10/2024 13:23

@sangriaandsunshine mine is exactly the same! (although he does tend to put kitchen gadgets on his Christmas list)

Books: whatever your current system, change to the one where you alternate buy-and-read with read-old-one; and (here's the kicker) you're not allowed to buy another until you're back to the buy-and-read phase.

I'd never be able to buy a book again.

I've got a floor to ceiling shelf and one half the size, all filled with double rows on each shelf. These are books that I will keep because of favourite author or book etc. About 1600 books, maybe 600 unread.

3 of the trollies all filled. About 280 books. These will be read and given away.

A 3 shelf Billy bookcase of hardbacks I will read and not keep, none read about 80 books there.

And 4 Billy bookcases of hardbacks and special editions (spredges and signed) that I will read and keep around 700 books there, 4 hundred or so unread

About 500 on my kindle but that doesn't count.

The.most annoying part? I've read 74 books this year, all bloody library books!!!!

SouperWorm · 20/10/2024 15:44

DieDreiHexen · 20/10/2024 10:24

I'm not especially tempted by that, whether cheap or expensive as I don't like clutter.
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Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 20/10/2024 15:42

Anything 'crafty'. It's not tat for anyone who is good at crafting. For me it's just tat. I KNOW me.

Bbq1 · 20/10/2024 15:41

Still not "tat"!

AliTheMinx · 20/10/2024 15:40

A special cranberry sauce dish. I can't stop thinking about it - even though we only ever have it once a year - on Christmas Day...and I am allergic to red berries, so I can't even eat cranberry sauce!!! [A few months ago, I bought a Stilton scoop, which I know I'll never use, but it looked so stylish. It's now at the back of the cupboard!]

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